Meditations
Forty Dhamma
Talks
by
Thanissaro Bhikkhu (Geoffrey DeGraff)
Copyright © 2003
Thanissaro Bhikkhu
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Contents
" Introduction
" Generosity
First
" The How & the Why
" Watch What You're Doing
"
The Interactive Present
" Imagine
" In the Mood
" The
Story-telling Mind
" How to Fall
" Tuning-in to the Breath
"
Bathed in the Breath
" The Steps of Breath Meditation
" The
Observer
" Judicious vs. Judgmental
" Impossible Things
"
Contentment in the Practice
" Patience
" Training the Whole
Mind
" The Grain of the Wood
" A Good Dose of Medicine
"
Life in the Buddha's Hospital
" Vows
" The Dignity of Restraint
" Fears
" Skills to Take with You
" Maintenance Work
" Sensitivity All the Time
" The Path of Questions
"
Admirable Friendship
" Heightening the Mind
" Respect for Concentration
" The Uses of Pleasure & Pain
" An Introduction to Pain
" A Dependable Mind
" The Components of Suffering
"
Giving Rise to Discernment
" Producing Experience
" Mastering
Causality
" The Six Properties
" Fabrication
" At the
Door of the Cage
" Glossary
Introduction
The daily schedule
at Metta Forest Monastery includes a group interview in the late afternoon, and
a chanting session followed by a group meditation period later in the evening.
The Dhamma talks included in this volume were given during the evening meditation
sessions, and in many cases covered issues raised at the interviews -- either
in the questions asked or lurking behind the questions. Often these issues touched
on a variety of topics on a variety of different levels in the practice. This
explains the range of topics covered in individual talks.
I have edited the
talks with an eye to making them readable while at the same time trying to preserve
some of the flavor of the spoken word. In a few instances I have added passages
or rearranged the material to make the treatment of specific topics more coherent
and complete, but for the most part I have kept the editing to a minimum. Don't
expect polished essays.
The people listening to these talks were familiar
with the meditaiton instructions included in "Method 2" in Keeping the
Breath in Mind by Ajaan Lee Dhammadharo; and my own essay, "A Guided Meditation."
If you are not familiar with these instructions, you might want to read through
them before reading the talks in this book. Further Dhamma talks are available
on the Metta Forest Monastery website.
* * *
I would like to thank Bok
Lim Kim for making the recording of these talks possible. She, more than anyone
else, is responsible for overcoming my initial reluctance to have the talks taped.
I would also like to thank the following people for transcribing the tapes and/or
helping to edit the transcriptions: Paul and Debra Breger, Richard Heiman, Jane
Yudelman, Dhammattho Bhikkhu, Gunaddho Bhikkhu, Susuddho Bhikkhu, and Khematto
Bhikkhu. May they all be happy.
Whatever merit there may be to these talks
comes from the training I received from my teachers, Ajaan Fuang Jotiko and Ajaan
Suwat Suvaco. This book is dedicated to their memory, with utmost gratitude.
Thanissaro
Bhikkhu
Metta Forest Monastery
August, 2003
Generosity First
March,
2003
Several years ago, when Ajaan Suwat was teaching a retreat at IMS, I was
his interpreter. After the second or third day of the retreat he turned to me
and said, "I notice that when these people meditate they're awfully grim."
You'd look out across the room and all the people were sitting there very seriously,
their faces tense, their eyes closed tight. It was almost as if they had Nirvana
or Bust written across their foreheads.
He attributed their grimness to the
fact that most people here in the West come to Buddhist meditation without any
preparation in other Buddhist teachings. They haven't had any experience in being
generous in line with the Buddha's teachings on giving. They haven't had any experience
in developing virtue in line with the Buddhist precepts. They come to the Buddha's
teachings without having tested them in daily life, so they don't have the sense
of confidence they need to get them through the hard parts of the meditation.
They feel they have to rely on sheer determination instead.
If you look at
the way meditation, virtue, and generosity are taught here, it's the exact opposite
of the order in which they're taught in Asia. Here, people sign up for a retreat
to learn some meditation, and only when they show up at the retreat center do
they learn they're going to have to observe some precepts during the retreat.
And then at the very end of the retreat they learn that before they'll be allowed
to go home they're going to have to be generous. It's all backwards.
Over
in Thailand, children's first exposure to Buddhism, after they've learned the
gesture of respect, is in giving. You see parents taking their children by the
hand as a monk comes past on his alms round, lifting them up, and helping them
put a spoonful of rice into the monk's bowl. Over time, as the children start
doing it themselves, the process becomes less and less mechanical, and after a
while they begin to take pleasure in giving.
At first this pleasure may seem
counterintuitive. The idea that you gain happiness by giving things away doesn't
come automatically to a young child's mind. But with practice you find that it's
true. After all, when you give, you put yourself in a position of wealth. The
gift is proof that you have more than enough. At the same time it gives you a
sense of your worth as a person. You're able to help other people. The act of
giving also creates a sense of spaciousness in the mind, because the world we
live in is created by our actions, and the act of giving creates a spacious world:
a world where generosity is an operating principle, a world where people have
more than enough, enough to share. And it creates a good feeling in the mind.
From there, the children are exposed to virtue: the practice of the precepts.
And again, from a child's point of view it's counterintuitive that you're going
to be happy by not doing certain things you want to do -- as when you want to
take something, or when you want to lie to cover up your embarrassment or to protect
yourself from criticism and punishment. But over time you begin to discover that,
yes, there is a sense of happiness, there is a sense of wellbeing that comes from
being principled, from not having to cover up for any lies, from avoiding unskillful
actions, from having a sense that unskillful actions are beneath you.
So by
the time you come to meditation through the route of giving and being virtuous,
you've already had experience in learning that there are counterintuitive forms
of happiness in the world. When you've been trained through exposure to the Buddha's
teachings, you've learned the deeper happiness that comes from giving, the deeper
happiness that comes from restraining yourself from unskillful actions, no matter
how much you might want to do them. By the time you come to the meditation you've
developed a certain sense of confidence that so far the Buddha has been right,
so you give him the benefit of the doubt on meditation.
This confidence is
what allows you to overcome a lot of the initial difficulties: the distractions,
the pain. At the same time, the spaciousness that comes from generosity gives
you the right mindset for the concentration practice, gives you the right mindset
for insight practice -- because when you sit down and focus on the breath, what
kind of mind do you have? The mind you've been creating through your generous
and virtuous actions. A spacious mind, not the narrow mind of a person who doesn't
have enough. It's the spacious mind of a person who has more than enough to share,
the mind of a person who has no regrets or denial over past actions. In short,
it's the mind of a person who realizes that true happiness doesn't see a sharp
dichotomy between your own wellbeing and the wellbeing of others.
The whole
idea that happiness has to consist either in doing things only for your own selfish
motives or for other people to the sacrifice of yourself -- the dichotomy between
the two -- is something very Western, but it's antithetical to the Buddha's teachings.
According to the Buddha's teachings, true happiness is something that, by its
nature, gets spread around. By working for your own true benefit, you're working
for the benefit of others. And by working for the benefit of others, you're working
for your own. In the act of giving to others you gain rewards. In the act of holding
fast to the precepts, holding fast to your principles, protecting others from
your unskillful behavior, you gain as well. You gain in mindfulness; you gain
in your own sense of worth as a person, your own self-esteem. You protect yourself.
So you come to the meditation ready to apply the same principles to training
in tranquility and insight. You realize that the meditation is not a selfish project.
You're sitting here trying to understand your greed, anger, and delusion, trying
to bring them under control -- which means that you're not the only person who's
going to benefit from the meditation. Other people will benefit -- are benefiting
-- as well. As you become more mindful, more alert, more skillful in undercutting
the hindrances in your mind, other people are less subject to those hindrances
as well. Less greed, anger, and delusion come out in your actions, and so the
people around you suffer less. Your meditating is a gift to them.
The quality
of generosity, what they call caga in Pali, is included in many sets of Dhamma
teachings. One is the set of practices leading to a fortunate rebirth. This doesn't
apply only to the rebirth that comes after death, but also to the states of being,
the states of mind you create for yourself moment to moment, that you move into
with each moment. You create the world in which you live through your actions.
By being generous -- not only with material things but also with your time, your
energy, your forgiveness, your willingness to be fair and just with other people
-- you create a good world in which to live. If your habits tend more toward being
stingy, they create a very confining world, because there's never enough. There's
always a lack of this, or a lack of that, or a fear that something is going to
slip away or get taken away from you. So it's a narrow, fearful world you create
when you're not generous, as opposed to the confident and wide-open world you
create through acts of generosity.
Generosity also counts as one of the forms
of Noble Wealth, because what is wealth aside from a sense of having more than
enough? Many people who are materially poor are, in terms of their attitude, very
wealthy. And many people with a lot of material wealth are extremely poor. The
ones who never have enough: They're the ones who always need more security, always
need more to stash away. Those are the people who have to build walls around their
houses, who have to live in gated communities for fear that other people will
take away what they've got. That's a very poor kind of life, a confined kind of
life. But as you practice generosity, you realize that you can get by on less,
and that there's a pleasure that comes with giving to people. Right there is a
sense of wealth. You have more than enough.
At the same time you break down
barriers. Monetary transactions create barriers. Somebody hands you something,
you have to hand them money back, so there's a barrier right there. Otherwise,
if you didn't pay, the object wouldn't come to you over the barrier. But if something
is freely given, it breaks down a barrier. You become part of that person's extended
family. In Thailand the terms of address that monks use with their lay supporters
are the same they use with relatives. The gift of support creates a sense of relatedness.
The monastery where I stayed -- and this includes the lay supporters as well as
the monks -- was like a large extended family. This is true of many of the monasteries
in Thailand. There's a sense of relatedness, a lack of boundary.
We hear so
much talk on "interconnectedness." Many times it's explained in terms
of the teaching on dependent co-arising, which is really an inappropriate use
of the teaching. Dependent co-arising teaches the connectedness of ignorance to
suffering, the connectedness of craving to suffering. That's a connectedness within
the mind, and it's a connectedness that we need to cut, because it keeps suffering
going on and on and on, over and over again, in many, many cycles. But there's
another kind of connectedness, an intentional connectedness, that comes through
our actions. These are kamma connections. Now, we in the West often have problems
with the teachings on kamma, which may be why we want the teachings on connectedness
without the kamma. So we go looking elsewhere in the Buddha's teachings to find
a rationale or a basis for a teaching on connectedness, but the real basis for
a sense of connectedness comes through kamma. When you interact with another person,
a connection is made.
Now, it can be a positive or a negative connection,
depending on the intention. With generosity you create a positive connection,
a helpful connection, a connection where you're glad that the boundary is down,
a connection where good things can flow back and forth. If it's unskillful kamma,
you're creating a connection, you're creating an opening that sooner or later
you're going to regret. There's a saying in the Dhammapada that a hand without
a wound can hold poison and not be harmed. In other words, if you don't have any
bad kamma, the results of bad kamma won't come to you. But if you have a wound
on your hand, then if you hold poison it will seep through the wound and kill
you. Unskillful kamma is just that, a wound. It's an opening for poisonous things
to come in.
The opposite principle also works. If there's a connection of
skillful behavior, a good connection is formed. This sort of positive connection
starts with generosity, and grows with the gift of virtue. As the Buddha said,
when you hold to your precepts no matter what, with no exceptions, it's a gift
of security to all beings. You give unlimited security to everyone, and so you
have a share in that unlimited security as well. With the gift of meditation,
you protect other people from the effects of your greed, anger, and delusion.
And you get protected as well.
So this is what generosity does: It makes your
mind more spacious and creates good connections with the people around you. It
dissolves the boundaries that otherwise would keep the happiness from spreading
around.
When you come to the meditation with that state of mind, it totally
changes the way you approach meditating. So many people come to meditation with
the question, "What am I going to get out of this time I spend meditating?"
Particularly in the modern world, time is something we're very poor in. So the
question of getting, getting, getting out of the mediation is always there in
the background. We're advised to erase this idea of getting, yet you can't erase
it if you've been cultivating it as a habitual part of your mind. But if you come
to the meditation with experience in being generous, the question becomes "What
do I give to the meditation?" You give it your full attention. You give it
the effort, you're happy to put in the effort, because you've learned from experience
that good effort put into the practice of the Dhamma brings good results. And
so that internal poverty of "What am I getting out of this meditation?"
gets erased. You come to the meditation with a sense of wealth: "What can
I give to this practice?"
You find, of course, that you end up getting
a lot more if you start with the attitude of giving. The mind is more up for challenges:
"How about if I give it more time? How about meditating later into the night
than I usually do? How about getting up earlier in the morning? How about giving
more constant attention to what I'm doing? How about sitting longer through pain?"
The meditation then becomes a process of giving, and of course you still get the
results. When you're not so grudging of your efforts or time, you place fewer
and fewer limitations on the process of meditation. That way the results are sure
to be less grudging, more unlimited, as well. So it's important that we develop
the Noble Wealth of generosity to bring to our meditation.
The texts mention
that when you get discouraged in your meditation, when the meditation gets dry,
you should look back on past generosity. This gives you a sense of self-esteem,
a sense of encouragement. Of course, what generosity are you going to look back
on if there is none? This is why it's important that you approach the meditation
having practiced generosity very consciously.
Many times we ask, "How
do I take the meditation back into the world?" But it's also important that
you bring good qualities of the world into your meditation, good qualities of
your day-to-day life, and that you develop them regularly. Thinking back on past
acts of generosity gets dry after a while if there's only been one act of generosity
that happened a long time ago. You need fresh generosity to give you encouragement.
So this is why, when the Buddha talked about the forms of merit, he said,
"Don't be afraid of merit, for merit is another word for happiness."
The first of the three main forms of merit is dana, giving, which is the expression
of generosity. The gift of being virtuous builds on the simple act of giving,
and the gift of meditation builds on both.
Of course, a large part of the
meditation is letting go: letting go of distractions, letting go of unskillful
thoughts. If you're used to letting go of material things, it comes a lot easier
to begin experimenting with letting go of unskillful mental attitudes -- things
that you've held on to for so long that you think you need them, but when you
really look at them you find you don't. In fact, you see that they're an unnecessary
burden that causes suffering. When you see the suffering, and the fact that it's
needless, you can let go. In this way, the momentum of giving carries all the
way through the practice, and you realize that it's not depriving you of anything.
It's more like a trade. You give away a material object and you gain in generous
qualities of mind. You give away your defilements, and you gain freedom.
The How & the Why
November 14, 1996
Two important questions you
have to answer about meditation are "how?" and "why?" -- how
to do it and why you are doing it -- because meditation is not just a technique.
There's a context for the practice, and only when you see the practice in context
can you really understand what you're doing and get the most out of it.
The
"how" is pretty simple. With breath meditation, sit straight, hands
in your lap, right hand on top of your left hand, your legs crossed, right leg
on top of the left leg, your eyes closed. That's getting your body into position.
Getting your mind into position means focusing it in on the present moment. Think
about the breath and then notice how the breath feels as it comes in, how it feels
as it goes out. Be aware of the breathing. That means you have two qualities at
work: the thinking or mindfulness, which reminds you where to stay; and the alertness,
which tells you what's happening with the breath. Those are two of the qualities
you want.
The third quality is what the Buddha called atappa, or ardency,
which means you really put an effort into it. You really focus on what you're
doing. You're not just playing around. You give it your whole attention. You try
to be ardently mindful and ardently alert.
Ardently mindful means that you
try to keep your mindfulness as continuous as possible, without any gaps. If you
find that your mind has slipped off the breath, you bring it right back. You don't
let it dawdle here or sniff at the flowers there. You've got work to do and you
want to get it done as quickly, as thoroughly, as possible. You have to maintain
that kind of attitude. As the Buddha said, it's like realizing that your head
is on fire. You put it out as fast as possible. The issues we're dealing with
are serious issues, urgent issues: aging, illness, and death. They're like fires
burning away inside us. So you have to maintain that sense of ardency because
you never know when these fires are going to flare up. You want to be as prepared
as possible, as quickly as possible. So when the mind wanders off, be ardent in
bringing it back.
Ardently alert means that when the mind is staying with
the breath, you try to be as sensitive as possible in adjusting it to make it
feel good, and in monitoring the results of your efforts. Try long breathing to
see how it feels. Try short breathing, heavy breathing, light breathing, deep,
shallow. The more refined you can make your awareness, the better the meditation
goes because you can make the breath more and more refined, a more and more comfortable
place for the mind to stay. Then you can let that sense of comfort spread throughout
the body. Think of the breath not simply as the air coming in and out the lungs,
but as the flow of energy throughout the whole body. The more refined your awareness,
the more sensitive you can be to that flow. The more sensitive you are, the more
refined the breath becomes, the more gratifying, the more absorbing it becomes
as a place to stay.
This is the basic trick in getting the mind to settle
down in the present moment -- you've got to give it something that it likes to
stay with. If it's here against its will, it's going to be like a balloon you
push under the water. As long as your hand has a good grasp on the balloon, it's
not going to pop up, but as soon as you slip a little bit, the balloon pops up
out of the water. If the mind is forced to stay on an object that it really finds
unpleasant, it's not going to stay. As soon as your mindfulness slips just a little
bit, it's gone.
Or you can compare it to parents raising a child. If the parents
are constantly beating the child, the child is going to run away from home as
soon as it finds the chance. Even if they lock the windows and doors, it's going
to look for an opening. As soon as they turn their backs, it's gone. But if the
parents are kind to the child -- give it good things to play with, interesting
things to do at home, lots of warmth and love -- the child will want to stay home
even if the windows and doors are left wide open.
So it is with the mind.
Be friendly with it. Give it something good to stay with in the present moment
-- like comfortable breathing. Maybe you can't make the whole body comfortable,
but make at least part of the body comfortable and stay with that part. As for
the pains, let them be in the other part. They have every right to be there, so
make an arrangement with them. They stay in one part, you stay in another. But
the essential point is that you have a place where the mind feels stable, secure,
and comfortable in the present moment. These are the beginning steps in meditation.
This kind of meditation can be used for all sorts of purposes, but the Buddha
realized that the most important purpose is to get the mind out of the whole cycle
of aging, illness, and death. And when you think about it, there's nothing more
important than that. That's the big problem in life and yet society tends to slough
off the problems of aging, illness, and death, tends to push them off to the side
because other things seem more pressing. Making a lot of money is more important.
Having fulfilling relationships is more important. Whatever. And the big issues
in life -- the fact that you're headed for the sufferings and indignities that
come with an aging, ill, or dying body -- get pushed off, pushed out of the way.
"Not yet, not yet, maybe some other time." And of course when that other
time does arrive and these things come barging in, they won't accept your "not
yet," won't be pushed out anymore. If you haven't prepared yourself for them,
you'll really be up the creek, at a total loss.
So these are the most important
things you need to prepare for. A lot of other things in life are uncertain, but
a couple of things are certain. Aging comes. Illness comes. Death is going to
come for sure. So when you know something is going to come for sure, you have
to prepare for it. And when you realize that this is the most important issue
in life, you have to look at the way you live your life. Meditation -- the practice
of the Buddha's teachings -- is not just a question of sitting with your eyes
closed every now and then. It's about how you order your priorities. As the Buddha
said, when you see there's a greater level of happiness that can be found by sacrificing
lesser forms of happiness, you sacrifice the lesser ones. Look at your life and
the things you hold onto, the little places where the mind finds its pleasure
but doesn't gain any real fulfillment: Are those the things you really want to
hold onto? Are you going to let them be the factors governing your life?
And
then you can think of larger issues. The chance for a happiness that goes beyond
aging, illness, and death: Will that be the first priority in your life?
These
are questions we all have to ask within ourselves. The Buddha doesn't force our
answers. He simply sets out what the situation is. He says that there is a possibility
for happiness lying beyond the happiness that comes from simply eating and sleeping,
looking after the body and having a comfortable time. This possibility is the
good news in the Buddha's teachings, especially since most of the world says,
"Well, this is all there is to life, so make the most of it. Satisfy yourself
with these immediate pleasures and don't think about other things. Don't let yourself
get dissatisfied with what you've got." When you think about this attitude,
it's really depressing because all it means is that you grab at what you can before
you die. And when you die, you can't take it with you.
But the Buddha said
there's a form of happiness, there's a form of knowing in the mind, that goes
beyond aging, illness, and death, and that can be attained through human effort
if you're skillful enough. So that's both good news and a challenge. Are you going
to let yourself just live an ordinary life frittering your time away? Or are you
going to accept the challenge to devote yourself to more important things, devote
yourself to this possibility?
The Buddha was the sort of person who put his
life on the line. He didn't have anyone telling him that this was a possibility,
but he thought that the only way life would have any dignity, any honor would
be if you could find a happiness that doesn't age, doesn't grow ill, doesn't die.
And he ran up against all the things he would have to sacrifice in order to find
that happiness. So he made those sacrifices -- not because he wanted to sacrifice
those things, but because he had to. As a result he was able to find what he was
looking for. So the story of his life and his teachings are meant as a challenge
for us -- how are we going to lead our lives?
Here we are sitting together
meditating. What are you going to do with a still mind, once it's become still?
If you wanted to, you could simply use concentration practice as a method of relaxation
or a way of calming the nerves. However, the Buddha says that there's more to
it than that. When the mind is really still, you can dig deep down into the mind
and begin to see all the currents that lie underground within it. You can start
sorting them out, understanding what drives the mind. Where is the greed? Where
is the anger? Where are the delusions that keep you spinning around? How can you
cut through them?
These are the questions, these are the issues that can be
tackled in the meditation -- as long as you have a sense of their importance,
that they're your real priorities. If you don't have that sense, you don't want
to touch them because they're big issues and they snarl at you when you get near.
But if you really dig down, you find that they're just paper tigers. I once saw
a meditation manual that contained a drawing of a tiger. The face of a tiger was
very realistic -- all the details were very scary -- but its body was made out
of folded paper. And that's what a lot of issues are in the mind. They come at
you, looking really intimidating, but if you face them down they turn into origami.
But in order to face them down you've got to have a sense that these are the
really important issues in life and you're willing to give up an awful lot for
their sake. You're willing to give up whatever you have to give up. That's what
makes the difference between a practice that goes someplace, that really knocks
down the walls in the mind, and a practice that simply rearranges the furniture
in the room.
So when you practice meditation, you realize there is both the
"how" and the "why," and the "why" is really important.
Often the "why" gets pushed off to the side. You simply follow this
or that technique, and then what you want to do with it is up to you -- which
is true in a way, but doesn't take into account the possibilities. When you put
the possibilities into the context of the Buddha's teachings, you see the values
that underlie the practice. You see how deep the practice goes, how much it can
accomplish, and what an enormous job you're taking on. It's enormous, but the
results are enormous as well.
And the issues are urgent. Aging, illness, and
death can come at any time, and you have to ask yourself, "Are you prepared?
Are you ready to die?" Ask yourself in all honesty and if you're not ready,
what's the problem? What are you still lacking? Where are you still holding on?
Why do you want to hold on? When the mind settles down and is still, you can start
digging into these issues. And the more you dig, the more you uncover within the
mind -- layers and layers of things that you didn't suspect, that have been governing
your life since who knows when. You dig them out, you see them for what they are,
and you're free from them. You realize all the stupid things that have been running
your life, picked up from who knows where. You can't blame anyone else. You're
the one who picked them up and you played along with them.
Now, when you realize
that nothing is accomplished by playing along -- that it's better not to play
along with these things, and you don't have to -- then you can let them go. And
they let you go. What's left is total freedom. The Buddha said that it's so total
it can't even be described by words.
So that's the possibility the meditation
points to, and it's up to each of us to decide how far we want to go in that direction,
how much we do really care for our true happiness, for our own true wellbeing.
You would think that everyone would say, "Of course I care for my happiness
and true wellbeing." But if you look at the way people live their lives,
you can see that they really don't put that much energy or thought into the quest
for true happiness. People usually see other people do things in this or that
way, so they follow along without looking for themselves, as if true happiness
were so unimportant that you could leave it up to other people to make your choices
for you. Meditation, though, is a chance to look for yourself at what's really
important in life and then do something about it.
Watch What You're Doing
August 19, 2003
"Days and nights fly past, fly past: What am I doing
right now?"
The Buddha has you ask that question every day, both to keep
yourself from being complacent and to remind yourself that the practice is one
of doing. Even though we're sitting here very still, there's still a doing going
on in the mind. There's the intention to focus on the breath, the intention to
maintain that focus, and the intention to keep watch over how the breath and the
mind are behaving. Meditation as a whole is a doing. Even when you practice non-reactivity
or "being the knowing," there's a still an element of intention. That's
what the doing is.
That was one of the Buddha's most important insights: that
even when you're sitting perfectly still with the intention not to do anything,
there's still the intention, and the intention itself is a doing. It's a sankhara,
a fabrication. It's what we live with all the time. In fact, all of our experience
is based on fabrication. The fact that you sense your body, feelings, perceptions,
thought-constructs, consciousness -- all of these aggregates: To be able to experience
them in the present moment you have to fabricate a potential into an actual aggregate.
You fabricate the potential for form into an actual experience of form, the potential
for feeling into an actual experience of feeling, and so on. This element of fabrication
lies in the background all the time. It's like the background noise of the Big
Bang, which hums throughout the whole universe and doesn't go away. The element
of fabrication is always there, shaping our experience, and it's so consistently
present that we lose sight of it. We don't realize what we're doing.
What
you're trying to do as you meditate is to strip things down so you can see the
very elemental fabrications going on in the mind, the kamma you're creating with
every moment. We're not making the mind still simply to have a nice restful place
to be, a nice experience of ease to soothe our stressed-out nerves. That may be
part of it, but it's not the whole practice. The other part is to see clearly
what's going on, to see the potential of human action: What are we doing all the
time? What are the potentials contained in this doing? Then we apply that understanding
of human action to see how far we can go in stripping away the unnecessary stress
and suffering that come from acting in unskillful ways.
It's important that
we always keep this in mind as we meditate. Remember: We're here to understand
human action, in particular our own human actions. Otherwise we sit here hoping
that we don't have to do anything, that we can just wait for some Imax experiences
to come whap us upside the head, or some nice glowing sense of oneness to come
welling up inside. And sometimes things like that can come unexpectedly, but if
they come without your understanding how or why they came, they're not all that
helpful. They're restful for a while, or amazing for a while, but then they go
away and you have to deal with your desire to get them back. And, of course, no
amount of desire is going to get them back if it's not accompanied by understanding.
You can't totally drop human action until you understand the nature of action.
This is really important. We like to think that we can simply stop doing, stop
doing, stop doing, and things will settle down, get calm, and open up to emptiness.
But that's more like zoning out than meditating. There is an element of stopping
in the meditation, an element of letting go, but you can't really master it until
you understand what you're trying to stop, what you're letting go. So try to watch
out for that. When you come out of a good meditation, don't simply get up and
go back to the kitchen, have a cocoa, and go back to sleep. Reflect on what you
did so as to understand the pattern of cause and effect, to see exactly what you
fabricated in the process of bringing the mind down to a state of calm. After
all, the path is a fabricated path. It's the ultimate fabrication. As the Buddha
said, of all the fabricated phenomena there are in the world, the highest is the
noble eightfold path. This is the path we're trying to follow right now. It's
something put together, and you won't understand it until you see the putting-together
in as you're doing it.
So always have that in the back of your mind: that
you are doing something here. Sometimes it seems frustrating that the whole hour
may be spent just pulling back, pulling back, pulling the mind back to the breath.
It wanders off, so you pull it back again, and then it wanders -- when is the
peace and calm going to come? Well, before it can come you have to develop some
understanding. So when you pull it back, try to understand what you're doing.
When it wanders off, try to understand what's happening, what you did to encourage
or allow it to wander off. In particular, try to uncover all the skillful and
unskillful intentions that go into this back-and-forth process. When you understand
how the mind goes back and forth, you'll reach the point where you can keep it
from going back and forth. At the same time, you'll develop the kind of insight
we want in the meditation: insight into actions.
The Buddha said discernment
involves comprehending the process of fabrication, the process of action that's
going on in the mind all the time. And all the basic building blocks of action
are right here. There's the physical fabrication that leads to action -- in other
words, the breath. Without the breath you couldn't do any other physical actions
at all. Then there's verbal fabrication: directed thought and evaluation. Without
those you wouldn't be able to speak. And then there's mental fabrication: perceptions
and feelings. Without those, the process of mental fabrication wouldn't have any
building blocks to build with. These are all the most basic forms of activity:
physical, verbal, and mental. So we bring them all together right here when we've
got the mind with the breath. We're focused on the breath, directing our thoughts
to the breath, evaluating the breath, aware of all the mental labels that label
the breath, and all the feelings that come with the breath, pleasant or unpleasant.
All the basic building blocks are right here.
These building blocks are not
things, they're activities. You might call them basic activity units. These are
the things you have to bring together in order to get the mind to settle down.
Otherwise it goes off and elaborates all kinds of other worlds to inhabit, pulling
its attention away from the basic activity units and hoping to live in their end-products.
So you keep reminding yourself to come back to this level, this level, this level
where things are basic, and you try to manipulate these things skillfully so as
to still the mind. It's an intentional stilling, so there's an element of doing
even in the being still, but it's a doing for the purpose of knowing. Most of
our doing is for the purpose of ignorance. It comes out of ignorance and heads
toward ignorance, covering up our intentions so that we can forget the effort
that goes into the doing and simply enjoy the end-product experiences that our
doing creates.
Some people think that Buddhism is a religion of experiences.
We want to have a religious experience when we come here, we want to have an experience
of release or an experience of peace. Actually, though, the Dhamma is meant to
take us beyond our incessant habit of producing and consuming experiences. And
to do that, we have to understand the nature of action that underlies the producing
and consuming, to see exactly what it is to be a human being who acts. What does
it mean to act? How does the mind act? What is an intention? Why does the mind
have intentions? Are these process really pleasant or are they burdensome? What
would it be like if we didn't have to do them? We need to look into these things,
we need to understand these processes before we can get to where we really want
to go. If you don't understand human action, you won't be able to explore the
full limits of human action. You won't be able to understand how far human action
can take you. So we're here to study, we're here to learn from our actions.
This
teaching on action is something particular to the Buddha's teachings -- this sense
of what an action is and how far an action can go. It's easy to say that all the
great religions focus on having experiences beyond what words can describe. Sounds
nice. Very friendly. Very ecumenical. But when you compare what the various religions
say about action -- what it means to act, what the potentials of human action
are -- you see that they differ greatly. Some teachings say that we don't really
act at all, that there's an outside force acting through us, that everything's
pre-determined. Others say that we do act, but our actions have no real consequences.
Or that there are lots of limitations on what we can do to produce true happiness,
so we need some outside power to help us. You can't lump these various teachings
on action together and pretend that the differences don't count. The fact is:
They don't jibe. They're diametrically opposed. They get in one another's way.
This was why the early Buddhists kept insisting that the teaching on action
was what set Buddhism apart, that it was the most important issue where people
have to make a choice and take a stand. And this was why the Buddha's last words
were that we need to be heedful. He didn't end his teaching career with some nice
platitudes on emptiness or nibbana. He said to be heedful -- to see our actions
as important and to keep that importance in mind at all times.
So this is
where you have to make a choice: Which theory of action are you planning to place
your hopes on? That's what you're asked to commit to when you take refuge in the
Triple Gem: the teaching on action, the teaching on kamma. Taking refuge is not
a warm, fuzzy, cowardly cop-out. It's the act of taking on full responsibility
for your choices and intentions. How far are you planning to go with your actions?
How far are you willing to push the envelope? These are questions that we all
have to answer for ourselves, and no one can force the answer on us. But just
remember: The Buddha said that it's possible for human action to go to the end
of action -- in other words, to go to a dimension in the mind where ultimately
there is no more intention. He says that that's the highest happiness. Now, we
can take that statement merely as an historical curiosity or we can take that
as a personal challenge. It's up to us.
At the very least, when you're sitting
here meditating and things don't seem to be going right, don't blame it on the
weather. Don't blame it on the time of day. Just look at what you're doing. Look
at the raw material you have to work with and your skill in fashioning that raw
material into a state of calm. From the Buddhist point of view, that raw material
comes from past actions. You can't change the fact that this is the raw material
you have at hand, but you can fashion that raw material in different ways. That
freedom of choice is always present. So if things aren't going well in your meditation,
look at your intentions to see what you might change. Look at your perceptions,
at the questions you're posing in the mind. Experiment. Improvise. See what makes
a difference.
When things are going well, try to maintain them well. See how
you can develop that sense of wellness even further. This is Right Effort. This
is where we encounter the element of intention, the element of action directly
in our own minds. If you sit here complaining about how things aren't going well
in your meditation, that's your choice: You chose to complain. Is that the most
skillful thing to do? If it's not, try something else. You've always got that
freedom.
When things are going well, you can always choose to get complacent.
If you get complacent, where does that take you? You can choose to manipulate
things too much, too little, or just right. The choices are here. It's important
that we keep that in mind. Otherwise we find ourselves trapped in a particular
situation and can't think our way out, because we don't realize the range of available
possibilities.
Try to keep your sense of those possibilities as alive as possible,
so that the doing of the meditation becomes a skillful doing and not just a thrashing
around. You observe, you watch, you look into this question: "What does it
mean to have an intention? How can I see the results of my intentions? Where do
they show their results?" They show their results both in your state of mind
and in your breathing, so look right here, make your adjustments right here.
And
even if you're not consciously thinking about the nature of human action, you're
learning a lot about your own actions as you work with the breath, trying to keep
the mind with the breath, trying to make the breath a good place for the mind
to stay. You're muddling around here in the basic elements of human action, like
a young kid fooling around with a guitar: After a while, if the kid is observant,
the fooling around turns into music. The more observant you are in the way you
relate to the breath, the more your muddle will turn into a process of discovery.
The Interactive Present
August, 2002
When you try to settle into
the present moment, sometimes you find sticks, rocks, and thorns. They can be
either in the body or in the mind, and you have to do your best to deal with them.
It would be nice if you could simply follow some easy, step-by-step instructions:
1,2,3,4, first you do this and then you do that, and then the results come without
your having to figure anything out on your own. And sometimes there are instructions
like that in meditation books -- but often the mind doesn't fall in line with
them. Ideally you should be able to let the mind settle down and grow calm and
then deal with difficult issues, but sometimes before you can settle down you've
got to deal with some difficulties first.
It's not only the case that discernment
requires concentration. Concentration also requires discernment -- learning how
to bypass whatever issues you can bypass and how to deal directly with the ones
you have to deal with before you can get the mind to settle down.
If there's
rampant lust or anger in the mind, you've got to deal with it. You can't pretend
it's not there. You can't shove it off into the corner, for it'll keep jumping
out of the corner back at you. So you remind yourself of the drawbacks of that
kind of thinking; you look to see where there's a lack of reasoning or a lack
of logic in that kind of thinking. Many times that thinking simply comes at you
with a lot of force, just as a belligerent person comes at you with a lot of force
to make up for his lack of reason.
So you look at your lust, look at your
anger, look at your fears, and try to see, "What are they actually saying?"
Sometimes you have to listen to them. If you listen really carefully you'll see
that after a while they don't make any sense. When you can see that, it's a lot
easier to put them aside. When they come back at you, say, "You're not making
any sense at all." Then you've got a handle on them.
The same with physical
pain. Sometimes when you sit down to meditate there's pain in the body and it
has nothing to do with the meditation posture. It's simply there no matter what
your posture. So you have to learn how to deal with it. Focus on other parts of
the body so you get at least some sense of having a beachhead in the present moment,
a place where you can stay and you're okay. Then you work from that position of
strength. Once you get a sense of the breath going smoothly and comfortably, you
let it expand from that spot into other parts of the body, moving through the
part where there's pain and out the feet and out the hands.
You begin to realize
that those thorns in the present are not just a given. There has to be a part
of you that's playing along with them, that's making them a problem. Once you
see that, the thorns are a lot easier to deal with.
Sometimes there's a pain
in the body and the way you're breathing is actually maintaining it. Sometimes
the problem is your fear that it's going to spread, which makes you build a little
shell of tension around it -- and while that shell of tension may keep the pain
from spreading, it also keeps it in existence. The breath energy doesn't flow
smoothly there, and that helps maintain the pain. When you catch yourself doing
this, you get an interesting insight: The present moment is not just something
given. You're participating in it. An element of your intention is shaping it.
Then you can turn around and use this same principle with the mind. When there's
lust or anger, part of it may be coming from past habit, but another part from
your present participation. It's easy to understand this in the case of lust.
You're enjoying it and so you want to continue it. Actually, part of the mind
is enjoying it while another part is suffering. What you want to do is bring the
suffering part out, give it voice, give it some space to express itself.
This
is especially needed in our culture. People who don't submit to their lust are
said to be repressed and have all kinds warped beasts in the basement. So the
part of the mind that thrives when it's freed from lust doesn't get a chance.
It gets pushed into the corner of the basement. It becomes the repressed part.
But if you can ferret out the part of the mind that's really enjoying the lust
and say: "Hey, wait a minute, what kind of enjoyment is this? How about that
stress over there? How about that discomfort over there? The sense of dissatisfaction
that comes along with the lust, the cloudiness that comes into the mind because
of the lust -- how about that?" You can start to highlight the part of the
mind that really doesn't enjoy the lust. Then you have a better chance of dealing
with the lust and working your way out from under its thumb.
The same with
anger: Try to find the part of the mind that's enjoying the anger. See what kind
of happiness it gets from indulging in the anger. See how piddling and miserable
that happiness is. That way you strengthen the part of the mind that really doesn't
want to play along.
The same goes with other emotions, such as fear or greed:
Once you catch the part of the mind that's enjoying it -- participating, keeping
it going right now -- learn to undercut it. Learn how to emphasize the part that
doesn't want to play along.
Then you can start applying the same principle
to positive mind states, the ones that you're trying to develop. If you're conscious
of the part of the mind that doesn't want to stay with the breath, try to find
the part of the mind that does, that really appreciates having a chance to settle
down and let go of its burdens. The potential is there, simply that it's not emphasized.
So learn to give yourself pep talks. People who get easily discouraged are
the ones who haven't learned that talent. You have to learn how to give yourself
encouragement: "See? You did that. You brought the mind back. See if you
can do it again the next time. See if you can do it faster." That's the kind
of encouragement you need, the kind that keeps you participating in getting states
of concentration going. After all, if the present isn't just a given, why don't
you learn how to shape a good present? Emphasize the positive things, so they
really do get stronger. That way you find that you're less and less a victim of
events. You come to play a stronger, more positive role in shaping your experience
of the present.
We talk many times about how ultimately you want to discontinue
that participation in the present so that you can open up to the Deathless. But
before you do that, you've got to get skillful in how you participate in the present
moment. You can't skip straight from unskillful participation to the ultimate
skill of learning how to open up to the Deathless. You've got to go through all
of the stages of learning how to make the present a more positive experience --
through the way you breathe, the way you focus on the breath, the way you deal
with the various states, positive or negative, that come up in the mind. You've
got to learn how to be a better manager of the present moment before you can develop
the even more refined skills of learning how to take all of this participation
apart.
So when you sit down to meditate, you've got to realize that not everything
is a given. You're participating right now. What kind of participation do you
want to develop? What kind of participation do you want to discontinue, to drop?
These pains -- the stones and thorns and all the other things that make it
hard to settle down: They're not just a given. Your element of participation helps
create the stones, helps sharpen the thorns. If you can catch yourself doing that
and can unlearn the habit, you find it a lot easier to settle down and stay settled.
You can see more clearly what's going on, and your skill in dealing with the present
gets more and more refined.
Imagine
April 20, 2003
Psychologists
have done studies of people who've mastered skills, trying to figure out why some
people are simply very good at a particular skill while other people really master
it. One of their discoveries is that for people to really master a skill, it has
to capture their imagination. They like to think about it. They like to try different
ways of conceptualizing the skill, approaching the skill, applying the skill in
unusual and unexpected ways. And although we often don't think of imagination
as being involved in meditation -- in fact, we think that meditation is anti-imagination
-- actually that's not the case. To master concentration, it has to capture your
imagination, just as with any other skill.
When you practice concentration,
what are you doing? You're creating a state in the mind. That requires imagination.
The noble eightfold path as a whole is something fabricated, something put together.
It brings you into the present, but when you get into the present you discover
how much input your intentions have in each present moment. The practice of the
path is designed to make you more and more sensitive to that fact: to see how
you put things together, how you can put things together in a way that creates
suffering, or how you can get more skillful at putting things together in a way
that creates less and less suffering until finally you reach a point where the
whole thing gets taken apart and there's no suffering left.
But to get to
that last point you have to understand what you're doing. You can't simply make
up your mind that you're going to be totally uninvolved in the present moment
and simply be an observer without participating, because what happens is that
your participation goes underground. You don't see it, but it's still there. So,
instead, you have to be very open about the fact that you're shaping the present
moment simply by choosing what you focus on. That's a decision right there: The
sensations you choose to focus on, and the way you focus on them, are going to
shape your experience of the present moment. You're creating a state of becoming
-- the Pali word here is bhava -- and although one of the things we're trying
to learn to overcome is the process of becoming, we can't simply drop the process.
We have to understand it before we can let it go. We have to understand it to
the point of dispassion and then let go. To do that we have to keep creating more
and more and more of these states, but we have to create a type of state that's
comfortable to stay with, easy to analyze, easy to take apart -- which is why
we practice concentration.
A senior monk in Bangkok once asked Ajaan Lee,
"When you're practicing concentration, aren't you creating states of becoming
in the mind?" And Ajaan Lee responded, "Yes, that's precisely what you're
doing." He went on to say that you can't take the process apart until you
can do it really well. He said, "It's like having a hen that lays eggs. You
use some of the eggs to eat, while the others you crack open and take apart."
In other words, part of the role of concentration is to keep the mind nourished
on the path. The other part is to give you something to take apart, while at the
same time putting the mind in a position where it can take these present states
apart.
So when you're conscious of that fact, look at the way you put the
present moment together. You have choices you know: different things you can focus
on, different ways you can focus on them. If you focus on the breath, you discover
that there are many different ways of conceiving and monitoring the breath: your
way of labeling the breath sensations, the way you decide when an in-breath is
long enough, when it's too long, when it's too short. A lot of these decisions
get put on automatic pilot, but as you're meditating you have a chance to examine
them. You can look at them carefully and adjust them to see if there are more
skillful ways of deciding how long a good long in-breath is, what signs indicate
that the breath is just long enough. The same holds true with the out-breaths,
the depth, the rhythm, the texture of the breath.
There's a lot to play with
here, and the word "play" is important because you've got to enjoy the
process. Otherwise there's no enthusiasm for the meditation; you simply go through
the motions because it's time to meditate. And when there's no enthusiasm, no
joy in the process, you have a hard time sticking with it. The mind is going to
lose interest, get bored and try to find something else to think about, something
else to fill up the hour. And what you end up doing is filling up the hour with
filler -- straw, shredded paper, and Styrofoam peanuts -- things that are not
nearly as helpful as learning about the breath. The reason we're here is not just
to put in time. We're here to see how the mind is creating unnecessary suffering
for itself and to learn how to stop doing it.
One helpful way of understanding
the process is to look at the ways psychologists have analyzed imagination. They've
discovered that it involves four skills. The first is being able to generate an
image in the mind -- simply giving rise to an image of one kind or another. The
second is to maintain the image. The third is to inspect it, look at its details,
explore some of its ramifications. And then the fourth ability is to alter the
image, making changes and then inspecting it again to see what happens as you
alter it. And although the psychologists who discovered these four skills were
concerned primarily with mental pictures in the mind, you'll discover that any
kind of creative work -- writing, creating a tune, whatever -- involves these
same four steps.
When you compare the four steps to concentration, you find
that they apply here as well. In fact, they correspond to the four bases of success:
desire, persistence, intentness, and ingenuity.
In terms of concentration,
the first step corresponds to giving rise to a nice pleasant state right here
in the present moment. Can you do that? If you want to, you can. As the Buddha
said, all phenomena are rooted in desire. So how are you going to use desire to
give rise to that pleasant state? You can adjust the breath. You can adjust your
focus. Breathe in such a way that gives rise to a pleasant feeling in at least
one part of the body.
Then the next step, once you've learned how to generate
that state, is to maintain it, keep it going. And you'll discover that you need
mindfulness, alertness, steadiness to do that. Sometimes you find it's like surfing:
The wave changes beneath you, but you learn to keep your balance. In other words,
the needs of the body will change, but you can keep that pleasant sensation going
in spite of those changes. When you first sit down, the body may need a fairly
heavy rate of breathing in order to feel comfortable, but then as it feels more
comfortable, the body's needs will change. And so you have to learn how to ride
that change in the wave. Adjust the rate of breathing so that it's just right
for the body right now, right now, right now. This makes you more and more sensitive
to the fact that the body's needs change, but you can learn how to maintain a
particular balance as you get more and more sensitive in responding to those needs,
in giving the body the kind of breathing it wants. Of course, the body's not going
to sit there saying, "I want this. I want that," but you get more and
more sensitive to the signs, the sensations that tell you that certain parts of
the body are starved of breath energy, and you can consciously breathe into them.
The third step is inspection. You look at the state you have in the body:
Are there places where it's still uncomfortable, places where it still feels tense,
where it feels tight? Well, you can think of ways to change the breath. That's
the fourth step. The third and fourth steps play off each other in this way: Once
you change things, you inspect them again to see if the change has made any improvement
or if it's made things worse. If it's made things worse, you can try another change.
Keep inspecting, keep adjusting. In Pali this is called vicara, or evaluation.
And as things get more and more comfortable, you find that the range of comfort
you've been able to create for yourself begins to expand. You can breathe in with
a sense that the breath energy in the body is connected in all its parts. You
breathe out and the energy feels connected; your awareness keeps filling the body,
saturating the body.
After a while you get to a point where you really can't
improve the breath any further. It's just right as it is. As Ajaan Fuang once
said, it's like pouring water into a water jar. You finally reach the point where
you've filled the jar and no matter how much water you try to add after that,
you can't get it any fuller than that. So you stop adding water. The same with
the breath: When you reach the point of fullness, you stop making so many adjustments,
so many changes. You can just be with the breathing. From this point on it's more
a question of how the mind relates to the breath, whether it feels that it's separate
from the breath and watching it, or whether it's more immersed in the breathing.
As it gets more immersed, the rate of breathing is going to change, not so much
because you made up your mind to change it, but simply because you've changed
your relationship to the breath.
As you get more fully immersed in the body
and breath, you develop a sturdy feeling of unification and ease. The breathing
will grow more subtle to the point where it finally stops, not because you've
forced it to stop but because the mind has slowed down enough to the point where
it needs less and less and less oxygen. The oxygen exchange at the skin is enough
to keep the body going so that it doesn't have to keep pumping in, pumping out.
Ajaan Lee compares this state to an ice cube with vapor coming off of it: The
body feels very still, but around the edges there's a kind of effortless vapor
that you feel with the in-and-out breathing. Then after a while even that stops
and everything is perfectly still.
All of this comes from creating that spot
in the body where it feels good to stay focused. Then learning how to maintain
it. Then inspecting it to see where you can expand it, where you can make it more
stable. And then adjusting it in various ways: using your imagination to think
at least of the possibility that the breath could be more comfortable, the breath
could saturate the body. You could think of all the cells of the body being bathed
in the breath -- whatever way you have of conceiving the breath that makes it
more and more comfortable, a better and better place to stay.
In this way
the four aspects of imagination apply to what you're doing right here, even though
you're not trying to create a mental picture. Sometimes there will be mental pictures
behind it, but you're more concerned with the actual sensation of the breath as
you feel it coming in, as you feel it going out, as you play with it, as you create
a sense of very intense wellbeing right here. Even though it's something created,
something fabricated, it's a good thing to create, a good thing to fabricate.
As the Buddha said, right concentration is the heart of the path. The other factors
are its requisites. And for discernment to do its work of insight in the present
moment, the heart of the path has to stay healthy and strong. You have to create
and maintain a good solid basis through concentration.
So because it's a created
state, you have to be creative about it, imaginative about it. And you find that
the more your imagination opens up to the possibilities already present, the more
new possibilities your imagination opens up. As long as you're frank about the
process, that you're creating this state, you don't have to worry about getting
attached to it -- even though you probably will get attached to it -- because
deep down inside you know it's something you've created, and eventually you'll
have to take it apart. But in the mean time, learn how to do it well. The more
solid the concentration, the more you want to stay here. The more you stay here,
the more familiar you get with the territory. And it's through that familiarity
that the practice of concentration turns into the practice of insight, the kind
of insight that can liberate you. Without this stability and familiarity, your
insights are simply ideas you've heard from Dhamma talks, read in books, notions
you've picked up from outside. They don't seep deep into the mind because the
mind hasn't softened up the territory here in the present moment. Only through
the practice of concentration can the hardness in the present moment begin to
soften up and give the insights a chance to seep deeper and deeper.
So when
you have this kind of understanding about what you're doing, you find it a lot
easier to go about it. And you begin to realize it's not a mechanical process.
It's a creative process. That way it can capture your imagination. When it captures
your imagination, you get more interested in what you can do with the breath,
not just when you're sitting here with your eyes closed, but any time of the day.
How you deal with the breath, how you get centered in the breath can help you
deal with anger. It makes you more sensitive to what anger does to the body, and
you can breathe through the physical manifestations of the anger so that you don't
feel like they've taken over.
When there's fear, you can try using the breath
to deal with fear. Get in touch with the physical side of the fear and breathe
right through it. Notice how the breath can help deal with boredom, how it can
help deal with illness, how it can help deal with pain. There's a lot to explore
here. And as the possibilities of the breath capture your imagination, you find
that this skill is useful, not only when you're trying to sit with your eyes closed,
but also wherever the present may be, wherever you may be in the present. Whatever
the context, whatever the situation, you find that the breath has something to
offer -- if you explore it. And to explore it, you have to get a sense that it
can capture your imagination. It gives you that kind of challenge, along with
the sense of reward that comes when you've explored something and discovered something
new, a valuable skill.
This is how meditation can start permeating your whole
life. When it permeates your whole life, when you're more and more familiar with
it, that's when the insights arise: unexpected insights sometimes, insights that
you won't always find in the books, but very personal, very much relevant to how
you relate to events in the body and mind. And you realize that they've come to
you because you've opened up your imagination to what's possible with the raw
materials of the present.
In the Mood
November 23, 2002
Ajaan
Suwat often recommended putting yourself in a good mood each time before you meditate.
This may sound a little backwards for many of us because we meditate in order
to put ourselves in a good mood, and yet he says to start out with a good mood.
But when you stop to think about it, there's really no way you can get good results
out of the meditation unless the mind has at least some good qualities in it,
some cheerfulness, some patience, some wisdom. These are qualities that act as
seeds, that allow the meditation to develop. We're not totally empty-handed when
we come to the meditation. We do have good qualities in the mind, and there are
plenty of things we can think about to put the mind in a good mood.
This is
why we have the chant on goodwill to start out the meditation each and every time.
Goodwill is a good thing to think about. You look at yourself spreading thoughts
of goodwill and you feel good about yourself. You're not totally selfish, not
totally angry, vindictive, whatever. There's at least some goodness inside you.
You take that as your starting capital. As with any investment, you need to have
something to begin with. If you don't have money, at least you've got strength,
or you've got your intelligence. You take whatever good things you've got and
you invest them. That's how they grow.
So when we sit here to meditate we
do our best to make the mind patient, to lift it above its ordinary cares and
concerns of the day, and then bring it to the meditation object. That way you
can relate to the breath, or whatever your object, in a friendly way.
Being
in a good mood puts the breath in good shape as well. If you feel frustrated about
your breathing or frustrated about your meditation, that's going to do funny things
to your breath, make it harder and harder to stay with the breath. So think in
whatever way helps the mind get ready to meditate, in the mood to meditate. This
is part of the first basis of success: chanda, the desire to meditate. You want
to meditate. You feel an inclination, an attraction to the meditation.
If
you sit down and you feel yourself totally disinclined to meditate, don't just
force yourself to do it. Remind yourself of the good reasons for why you're doing
it. Think of ways to make it interesting, ways to make it entertaining. You can
do all kinds of things with the breath. Look at Ajaan Lee's Dhamma talks: When
he defines the different levels of breathing in the body, he hardly ever repeats
himself. There's always something new, something different that he's found from
his meditation. We don't have to memorize all his ways of analyzing the breath.
We should give them a try, of course, but we should also look at our ways of analyzing
the breath energy and see what works for us. When you feel depressed, what kind
of breathing feels uplifting and energizing? When you feel manic, what kind of
breathing feels grounding? When you feel lazy, what kind of breathing energizes
you? When you feel tense, what kind of breathing relaxes you? There's a lot to
explore, and in the exploration you get absorbed in the breath without even thinking
about forcing yourself or holding a whip over the mind.
This way the mind
can be on good terms with the breath, the breath can be good, and it's easier
and easier to settle down. So always take stock of your mind before you meditate,
to see what kind of shape it's in.
Don't let thoughts of frustration or discouragement
take charge of the mind. The Dalai Lama once said the thing he found most surprising
about Westerners was their self-hatred. In Tibet, he said, only the village idiots
feel self-hatred. Of course, he said that smiling, but it's a pretty harsh judgment.
And it's also true, I noticed, in Thailand. Perhaps not so much any more: As modern
culture moves in, it really does teach people to hate themselves, to feel bad
about themselves. It holds up all sorts of images of physical and financial perfection
that nobody can live up to. But in traditional culture, one of the basic skills
of being a human being was, essentially, how to feel good about yourself, how
to love yourself, how to wish yourself well, and how to act intelligently on that
wish. Only really stupid people would hate themselves, and yet that kind of stupidity
is rampant now in the modern world. Be careful not to pick it up.
The mind
has the potential for all kinds of moods. Sometimes simply sitting and taking
stock of things for a few minutes, learning how to use our powers of thought --
not to destroy ourselves as many of us do, but as an assistance to the meditation
-- can make all the difference. We often think that to meditate is to stop thinking.
Well, you have to learn how to think properly before your thoughts can stop in
a skillful way.
If you're thinking in ways that are self-destructive, in ways
that are really harmful to yourself, and you simply stop, it's like running a
truck into a wall. You can get thrown through the windshield or suffer whiplash.
But if you learn how to think in ways that are for your own true benefit -- like
the things we chant about every evening, which are always beneficial to think
about -- then when the time comes for the mind to settle down and think less and
less and less and get more and more absorbed in the present moment, it's a lot
easier. There's a natural deceleration.
So the way you prepare yourself to
meditate, the attitudes you bring to the meditation, are very important. This
doesn't mean that you should meditate only when you're in a good mood. If you're
in a bad mood, think in ways that will improve your mood, that will improve your
attitude toward the meditation, your attitude toward the object that you're going
to be focusing on. Remind yourself that the breath is your friend, and you're
here to develop the friendship even further. In that way your thinking, instead
of being a distraction, is actually a component part of the meditation. It's an
important step that can't be overlooked.
The Story-telling Mind
June,
2001
We've all read how the practice of meditation can dismantle our sense
of self as we take a good hard look at the things we identify as me or mine. When
you meditate you're supposed to come into the present moment and drop all reference
to the future or the past and simply look at things as they arise. But some futures
and pasts are easier to drop than others. Even if you can drop them for the time
you're in meditation, you've got to come back and live with them when you come
out of meditation.
This whole issue of the narratives of our lives, the stories
we tell ourselves: If we could just drop them and be done with them, life would
be awfully easy. Meditation would be easy. But some narratives are stickier than
others. We know that the Buddha's teachings involve learning to drop a lot of
things, but in some cases, before you can drop them, you have to learn how to
do them skillfully. The stories you tell yourself about your life are among the
things you have to learn how to do skillfully. Otherwise, you can come out of
a nice, peaceful meditation, and meet up with the same old rotten story all over
again. You'll find yourself relating to it and getting tied up in it again and
again and again. Or else you find that you can't even get into the meditation
to begin with, because no matter how hard you try to drop the story it stays stuck
to your hand.
So a good part of the meditation is often not just being with
the breath but -- if you find you've got a story that keeps obsessing the mind,
stirring up greed, anger, delusion, fear, whatever -- learning how to deal with
that story, learning how to tell yourself new stories. Learn a corrective to the
old stories. One of the basic ways of doing this is to reflect on the passage
we chanted just now, developing thoughts of goodwill, compassion, appreciation,
and equanimity. Try to develop these attitudes with respect to those stories so
that you can tell yourself new stories that are easier to let go of in a liberating
way.
In other words, you don't just push the stories away. You weave a new
story and then you get to the point in the story where it's time to settle down
and meditate. That way the story will leave you alone. When you come back out
of meditation, the story may still be there but it's not the kind of story that's
going to get you all worked up. It's been refashioned.
Learn to get more and
more skillful at the way you tell stories in the mind, starting out with an attitude
of goodwill. First, goodwill for yourself. You realize that if you sit here telling
yourself bad stories over and over again, you're going to suffer. Do you want
to suffer? Well, no. Do you want other people to suffer? Well, maybe. You may
think about people who've wronged you, and of how much you'd like to see them
get their just desserts. In cases like this, you have to ask yourself what you're
going to gain from their suffering. You don't benefit in any way from their suffering.
The fact that you're sitting there wishing suffering on them is harming you right
now, getting in the way of your meditation.
So what you want is a story for
yourself that ends up with your being happy and their being happy. That's your
wish. That's the basic foundation for all the rest of the sublime attitudes.
Now
in some cases you see where people are actually harming themselves, harming you,
harming others. That's where you need compassion. Think about it. You really wish
they could stop. And of course the same thing applies to you. When you're harming
yourself, you wish you could stop causing that harm. "It would be good for
that harm not to happen. It would be good for those people not to suffer."
Remind yourself of that attitude.
For appreciation, you remind yourself of
your goodness, of the goodness of other people, the things you've done that make
you deserve to be happy, the things that other people have done that make them
deserve to be happy. You're not jealous or resentful of their happiness and you
don't downplay their good points.
Finally, equanimity, when you realize that
some things are simply beyond your control: No matter how much goodwill you feel
for other people, no matter how much appreciation and compassion you feel, some
things lie totally beyond what you can change. Number one, the past cannot be
changed. You have to develop equanimity toward the past. Look at what the Buddha
has you think about to develop equanimity: the principle of kamma. Old kamma is
old kamma and cannot be undone. What's important is your new kamma, what you're
doing right now. Now, that can effect some things, but there are other things
beyond the power of new kamma, largely through the continuance of old kamma. You've
got to think about that and learn how to develop equanimity in cases where equanimity
is appropriate.
The Buddha isn't saying that equanimity is better than the
other three attitudes. You just learn which situations require which attitude:
which situations require goodwill, which require compassion, which require appreciation,
which require equanimity. In this way, equanimity is not simply passive acceptance.
It's an ordering of your priorities, telling you to stop wasting energy on things
that can't be changed, and to focus it instead on areas where good will, compassion,
and appreciation can make a difference.
So you look at the stories you're
telling yourself and try to inject them with these attitudes, and especially the
teaching on kamma. There's no wrong that goes unpunished, no good that goes unrewarded.
That's simply the way kamma is. Therefore, we don't have to carry around ledger
sheets -- which person did this, which person did that -- with the fear that if
the ledger sheet disappears then that person's not going to get the retribution
he or she deserves. The principle of kamma takes care of that. But remember that
it also takes care of you as well.
When you look at the satisfaction you get
out of unskillful storytelling, you realize that it's pretty miserable. It's nothing
you really want. It's nothing that stands up to any real scrutiny. When you see
this, you find it easier to let go. You've got these other attitudes that will
bring you into the present moment in a way that allows you to feel good about
yourself. You're not allowing yourself to be victimized. At the same time you're
not wishing ill on anybody. You do what can be done given the situation. And when
the time comes where the mind needs a rest, the mind needs to settle down, that's
what should be done right now. That's the best thing you can do right now. And
that way the narrative leads you into the present moment.
You want to look
at the attitudes you're fostering in your mind and make sure they're skillful
ones -- because the whole issue of kamma boils down to this: What you do right
now is important. What was done in the past may have some influence on what you
can do right now, but what you do right now is what's really important. And the
possibility of doing something skillful right now is always present. When bad
things come, you accept them as the results of past kamma, but if you realize
you're doing bad kamma in the present as well, that's something you can't have
equanimity for. You've got to change it. You can do your best in whatever the
situation is, confident that it will work out -- that if you keep on doing and
saying and thinking skillful things, the results will have to be good.
So
no matter how bad the situation, your hope lies in what you're doing right now.
And the more you think about this, the more it brings the mind into the present
moment. That's when it's ready to meditate.
If you look in the texts where
the Buddha talks about the past, some of them go back many aeons, many cycles
of the universe, describing how this happened, how that happened, where this came
from, where that came from: long stories about past lives or cycles of lives.
But these texts all end up by pointing to the basic principle that has shaped
these things and is going to shape the future: the principle of kamma. And where's
kamma being made? Right here, right now. So focus right here.
The same with
all the cosmologies. When the Buddha describes the levels of being, the discussion
comes down to where these levels of being come from. They come from the mind,
from what the mind is doing in the present. Right here, right now.
Whatever
the narratives are, when you tell them skillfully they bring you back to the present
moment. So learn how to be a good storyteller, telling yourself the right stories,
stories that will bring you into the present with a sense of confidence in your
own abilities, with a sense of wellbeing, a sense of the importance of stilling
the mind. No matter what the stories are -- no matter what other people have done,
no matter what you've done -- there's a way of looking at them that can put the
mind at rest. To try to find that way: This is what all the teachings on kamma,
all the teachings on the sublime attitudes, are about. You weave new stories in
the mind, stories in which you have a change of heart, new stories that come together
right here, enabling you to stay right here with a sense of wellbeing, clarity,
concentration, mindfulness, and discernment. Without anything tugging you back
into the past, pulling you into the future, you're able to just be right here,
right now, aware right here, right now, healing the mind right here, right now.
That's how you use the mind's storytelling ability to bring it to a point
where it can just stop telling stories and look at what you've got. Learn to be
skillful with what you've got right here, right now.
That's what the Buddha's
teachings all come down to, this principle of skillfulness. How skillfully can
you relate to the different things going on in your mind, for your own wellbeing,
for the wellbeing of others around you? Meditation doesn't mean that you're cutting
off any mental faculties. The mind has to tell stories. Even arahants can tell
stories, can reflect on the past and plan for the future. They've simply learned
to do it in a way that doesn't cause any suffering. And it's not just from their
bringing the mind into the present moment. It also comes from reflecting on things
in a certain way, using the Buddha's teachings as proper tools to weave skillful
narratives. Let all the ways that the mind relates to itself in terms of past,
future, narratives, stories, worldviews, cosmologies -- all your views -- become
skillful. Let them no longer be a cause for suffering.
Think of the practice
as an all-around way of training the mind. You're not here just to get very skillful
at noting or at being with the breath. You want the mind to become very skillful
in all its activities. Ajaan Fuang once said to me, when I went back to reordain,
that being a meditator requires being skillful in everything, not just sitting
here with your eyes closed.
You approach everything as an interesting challenge:
"What's the most skillful way of dealing with this? What's the most skillful
way of dealing with that?" When you have that attitude, when you've developed
it and trained it in your daily life, then when you come to the meditation, things
go a lot easier.
How to Fall
December, 2002
A frequent question
is: How can you tell if you're making progress in your meditation? And one of
the answers is: When the mind slips off its object, you get faster and faster
at bringing it back. Notice, the answer isn't: The mind doesn't slip off at all.
It's: You're expected to slip off; it's a normal part of the practice, a normal
part of the training. The point lies in being more alert to what's going on and
quicker to remedy the situation when you've slipped off the breath.
So an
important part of learning how to meditate is learning how to fall. They say that
when you start learning Aikido, the first thing they teach is how to fall without
hurting yourself. The purpose is that it makes you less and less afraid to fall,
less and less damaged, of course, by the fall, and also less likely to fall, more
willing to take chances.
So the trick when you meditate is learning how to
bring the mind back with a minimum amount of recrimination, a minimum amount of
self-criticism, with just the simple observation, "I haven't come here to
think about next week's schedule or last night's fiascoes or whatever. I'm here
to focus on the breath." Simply leave those other things and come back. Learn
how to do it without tying your mind up in knots.
In our modern educational
system, we're quickly channeled into the activities where we have a natural talent.
As a result we don't learn how to become good at things that don't come easily.
So when we make an effort at something that doesn't come naturally, the easiest
thing in the world seems to be to slip and fall and then just go with the fall
and plop down, fallen. That's called not knowing how to fall. The trick, when
you fall, is to notice that there is a certain amount of momentum, but you don't
have to give in to the momentum.
You can notice this when you've made a vow
to give up something for a particular period of time. Last summer it was popular
here at the monastery to give up chocolate in the evening. But then came the temptation:
"What's wrong with a little bit of chocolate?" Well, there's nothing
really wrong with chocolate per se, so it was easy to rationalize and come to
the decision to drop the vow, to go for the chocolate. The problem, of course,
is that the important part of the vow wasn't the chocolate, it was the training
in sticking to your vow no matter what. All too often we assume that once that
decision to drop a vow has been made, it can't be unmade; you're powerless and
have to follow through with the momentum. But it is possible to unmake that decision
-- in the next moment or two moments later, three moments later. This is called
learning how to fall properly. In other words, you don't give in to the momentum
that leads you away. You realize that you're always free to change your mind immediately
and come back.
When you notice yourself slipping off the breath, don't just
give in to the momentum of having slipped. Catch yourself: "I can just turn
around," and you'll be amazed at how quickly you can turn around. Now, the
mind may come up with other reasons: "Oh no, you can't turn around now; you've
committed yourself." Well, that's interesting! You've suddenly committed
yourself to the distraction -- which isn't committed to you -- and you don't feel
you've committed yourself to your meditation. This is one of the many tricks the
mind plays on itself. The important point is learning how to see through those
tricks, not to believe them, and to have a few tricks of you own.
There's
a part of the mind that says it's a lot more natural to take the easy way out,
but that begs the question of nature versus nurture. If you go to a psychotherapist,
you learn very clearly how your particular habits got developed by a particular
way your parents raised you or by particular experiences you had when you were
a kid. That means those habits are not necessarily natural. They were learned.
They're there, they're ingrained, but you can unlearn them. You can nurture the
mind in the other direction, which is what we're doing as we train it in meditation.
We're re-educating the mind.
And not only are we teaching it how to stay on
one topic as we stay with the breath, but we're also teaching it how to come back
to the breath more quickly: how to catch yourself as the mind begins to let go
of the breath and latch on to something else, and to just turn right around, without
any problem at all, and latch back onto the breath. This way you learn to discipline
yourself without the harshness that we usually associate with the word "discipline."
We're learning a more matter-of-fact way of dealing with our own mind.
You
find that this cuts through a lot of the garbage. And as a result, there are fewer
hooks for your defilements to hang on to. Instead of dealing with abstractions
such as "my personality," "my character," "the way I
am," just keep focused on the present moment. Whatever decision was made,
it was made in total freedom, and if you see it's a bad decision, you have total
freedom to make another decision. When you clear away your self-image -- which
is another hiding ground for all kinds of defilements -- the playing field is
a lot clearer, and there are a lot fewer places for the defilements to hide.
A
woman I know in Laguna Beach once went to a meditation retreat where she was taught
to bring meditation practice into daily life by viewing daily life as an interplay
between the absolute and the relative. Those are pretty big abstractions, about
as big as you can get. And after trying to think in these terms for a week, she
came to the Sunday sitting group with a very convoluted question about how to
manage her life in those terms. I must admit the question was so convoluted that
I couldn't follow it, but the problem was obvious: The more abstract the abstraction,
the more difficult it is to see your way clearly in the path, and the easier it
is to get tied up in knots. We tend to think of abstractions as being clean and
neat and Mondrian, but actually they leave room for lots of convolutions. They
place lots of veils over what's really happening. When you clear away the abstractions,
you have the mind right here with the breath. It can decide to stay with the breath
or it can decide to move away. It's as simple as that.
The same principle
applies throughout the practice. Once you've made up your mind to stick with the
precepts, you keep deciding with every moment whether you're going to stick with
that vow. Once you've made up your mind to stick with the breath, you keep deciding
with every moment whether you're going to stick with that intention. And the more
you keep things on simple terms, basic terms, down-to-earth, no-nonsense, straight-talking
terms in the mind -- without bringing in issues about your past, without bringing
in issues about your self-image to complicate matters -- you find it's a lot easier
to stay on the path. It's a lot easier to bring yourself back when you fall off,
because there are fewer convolutions in the terrain you're falling on. So not
only when you're meditating, but also when you're practicing every aspect of the
path, try to keep things as simple as possible, as down-to-earth, moment-to-moment
as possible.
When I was staying with Ajaan Fuang he would sometimes ask me
to do things like, "Tonight sit up and meditate all night long." "Omigosh,"
I responded the first time he said that, "I can't do that; I didn't get enough
sleep last night and had a long, tiring day." And so on. And he said, "Is
it going to kill you?" "Well, no." "Then you can do it."
As simple as that. Of course, it wasn't easy, but it was simple. And when
you keep things simple, they eventually do become easier. You just stay with that
moment-to-moment decision, not thinking about, "All night, all night, I've
got to keep this up all night." You just think about, "This breath,
this breath, this breath." Find ways to keep yourself interested in each
breath as it comes, and you'll make it to morning.
That's how you bring the
meditation into daily life: Keep things simple, strip them down. Once things are
stripped down in the mind, the defilements don't have many places to hide. And
when you do fall, you fall in a place that's easier to get up from. You don't
have to give in to the momentum of the fall or get stuck in a quagmire. You catch
yourself and regain your balance right away.
My mother once said that the
event that first attracted her to my father happened during a meal at her home.
My uncle, her brother, had invited my dad home from college for a visit. Then
one day, during a meal, my dad knocked a glass of milk off the table but he caught
the glass before it hit the floor. And that's why my mother married him. I know
it sounds kind of crazy -- I owe my existence to my father's quick reflexes --
but it says something very interesting. And it's the kind of quality you want
as a meditator: If you knock yourself over, well, you can pick yourself right
back up. If you can do it before you hit the floor, so much the better. But even
when you're flat on the floor, you're not a glass. You haven't shattered. You
can still pick yourself up.
Try to keep it as simple as that.
Tuning-in
to the Breath
December, 2002
When I first went to stay with Ajaan Fuang,
one of the questions I asked him was, "What do you need to believe in order
to meditate?" He answered that there was only one thing: the principle of
kamma. Now when we hear the word "kamma," we usually think, "kamma-and-rebirth,"
but he meant specifically the principle of action: that what you do shapes your
experience.
If you're convinced of this, you can do the meditation because,
after all, the meditation is a doing. You're not just sitting here, biding your
time, waiting for the accident of Awakening to happen. Even in very still states
of meditation, there's an activity going on. Even the act of "being the knowing"
is still a doing. It's a fabrication, a sankhara. In one of the suttas, the Buddha
says that all the different khandhas, all the different aggregates that make up
experience as a whole, have to get shaped into aggregates by the process of fabrication.
In other words, there's a potential for a form, a potential for a feeling, potential
for perception, fabrication, consciousness; and the act of fabricating is what
turns these potentials into actual aggregates.
It sounds abstract, but it's
a very important lesson for the meditation even from the very beginning. You sit
here in the body -- and of course, that's a fabrication right there: the idea
that you're sitting in the body -- but given all the many different things you
could focus on right now, there's the possibility of choice. This possibility
of choice is where kamma comes in. You can choose any of the sensations that are
coming into your awareness. It's as if there were a buzz in all the different
parts of the body. There's a potential for pain here, a potential for pleasure
over there. All these different sensations are presenting themselves to you for
you to do something about them, and you have the choice as to which ones you'll
notice.
Doctors have done studies showing that pain isn't just a physical
phenomenon. It isn't totally a given. There are so many different messages coming
into your brain right now that you can't possibly process them all, so you choose
to focus on just some of them. And the mind has a tendency to focus on pain because
it's usually a warning signal. But we don't have to focus there. In other words,
there can be a slight discomfort in a part of the body, and you can focus on it
and make it more and more intense, more and more of an issue. That's one thing
you can do right now, but -- even if you may not realize it -- you have the choice
of whether or not to do that. You can choose not to make it more intense. You
can choose even to ignore it entirely. Many times we have habitual ways of relating
to sensations, and they're so habitual and so consistent that we think there's
no choice at all. "This is the way things have to be," we think, but
they don't.
That's the other implication of the principle of kamma: You can
change your actions. If some parts of experience are dependent on choice and fabrication,
you can choose to change. You see this really clearly when you focus on the breath.
The breath is always there in the body, and if you look carefully you'll discover
that it has many levels. It's like looking up in the sky: Sometimes you feel a
breeze coming from the south, but you look up in the sky and see a layer of clouds
moving east, and another higher layer of clouds moving west. There are lots of
different layers of wind in the atmosphere and, in the same way, there are lots
of different layers of breath in the body. You can choose which ones to focus
on.
It's like having a radio receiver: You can choose to tune-in to different
stations. The radio waves from all the nearby radio stations, all the different
frequencies, are all in the air around us. There are radio waves from Los Angeles,
radio waves from San Diego, even short wave radio waves from who-knows-where,
all over the place. They're going through this room right now. They're going through
your body right now. And when you turn on the radio you choose which frequency
you want to focus on, which one you want to listen to. The same with the body.
You sort out, of all the possible sensations, just one type of sensation to focus
on: the breath-ness of the breath. Wherever you feel the sensation of the in-and-out
breath most clearly, you focus right there. Now some of us have a radio we haven't
taken very good care of, and as soon as we tune it in to one station it slips
over to another. So you've got to keep tuning it back, tuning it back.
But
the problem isn't just the tuning. It's what you do with the sensation once you've
tuned-in to it. Again, you can focus on the breath in a way that makes it painful,
or you can focus on it in a way that makes it comfortable. You're not faced just
with the given-ness of the breath. What you do with it can make it more or less
painful, more or less comfortable. To continue the analogy, it's like having a
volume control on the radio: You can turn it way up loud so that it hurts your
ears, or you can turn it way down soft so that you can hardly hear it at all.
But as you get more skillful with your volume control, you get a sense of what's
just right so that you can adjust the level and the pressure of your focus for
maximum enjoyment.
As you get tuned-in more and more precisely, you discover
there are other subtleties as well. Again, like the radio, when you really get
tuned very precisely onto the frequency, the static goes away and you can hear
subtleties in the signal that you couldn't hear before. You can play with them,
turn up the treble, turn up the base, whatever you want. So even though the radio
signal is a given, you can do a lot with it. That's the element of kamma in your
meditation right now: It's what you're doing with the breath.
You can learn
how to be more skillful in how you relate to it so that you can sense not only
the very obvious breath of the air coming in and out of the lungs, but also the
sensations that go through the whole body as you breathe in, as you breathe out,
the patterns of movement in the body that actually bring the air into the lungs
and let it go out. There's a wave going through the body each time you breathe.
As you become sensitive to it, you begin to sense where there's tension in the
body, and where there's not; where the subtle breath flows properly, and where
it doesn't.
And, again, it's not just a given. You can do things with that
flow. You can improve the flow. If you notice tension in a certain part of the
body, you relax it; and oftentimes doing this improves the breath flow not only
at that one spot but also in other parts of the body as well. You begin to have
a sense of the body as a whole series of different interconnected energy patterns.
A tightening up here may lead to a tightening up over there, and it all gets connected
in a feeling of overall constriction, of bands of tension squeezing the body.
Or you can loosen it up. That's your choice. You can relax this bit of tension
here and find that it leads to an unraveling of tension over there. Or you might
find that everything gets so loose that you drift off. This means that you've
got to learn how to gain a sense of "just right" so that you can stay
with the sensation, keep your focus, and even if the radio signal begins to drift
a little bit, you can follow it precisely and stay right with it.
At this
point you can let go of the sensation of the in-and-out breath -- the coarse breath,
the obvious breath -- and focus more on the subtle breath flow in the body. As
you work through all the different parts of the body where it feels tense or blocked
or sort of squeezed out, you let the breath sensations fill all those little nooks
and crannies, and there comes a greater and greater sense of fullness, refreshment.
That's what piti means. It's the drinking-in of the good sensation. We normally
translate piti as rapture, but it's also related to the word for drinking, pivati.
You drink-in this nice sensation. It feels full, it feels refreshing all the way
through the body because you've opened up all the little cells in the body and
allowed the breath to enter. When you get that sense of fullness, it's easier
to relax.
This may not be a pretty image, but the mind at this point is like
a mosquito when it's finally hit a big vein in your body. It sticks its little
proboscis in and just stays right there, bathed in bliss. Its wings go weak, its
feet go weak, and no matter how much you try to brush it away, it just doesn't
want to go. It's just drinking-in what it wants. The same with the mind: As soon
as that refreshing breath sensation begins to fill up in the body, you let go
of everything else. No matter what other disturbances come, you're not the least
bit interested because you've got something really satisfying. You could almost
say that it's a sensation to die for. You let down your guard, let go of everything
else, because this sensation is so totally absorbing. You've opened up every part
of the body, every part of your awareness for this sensation to come in.
As
you stay there and the mind grows more and more still, you become aware of a deeper
sensation of absolute fullness with no sense of flowing back and forth -- a real
stillness in the body. There's a slight sense of air exchange on the very surface
of the body, the surface of your awareness, but deep down inside there's a great
stillness. There's no longer the sense of drinking-in because you're absolutely
full. Ajaan Lee uses the image of an ice cube: There's a vapor coming off the
cube -- a very vaporous movement around the edge of your awareness -- but everything
else is solid and still.
And then finally even that vapor stops, and the solidity
fills your whole awareness. It's accompanied by a sense of brightness, even though
you may not sense this brightness as a light. It's a peculiar quality: a physical
sensation, a feeling tone, of brightness, clarity, filling the whole body, and
you're just sitting there in the middle of it.
There's no need to rush through
these stages, no need to go jumping through hoops. In fact, it's best if you not
try to rush. Just find one sensation you can tune-in to. Stay right there and
it will develop on its own, simply because of the consistency of your focus. When
you finally reach that sense of solid stillness and stay there, you begin to realize
that you can choose to give a shape to it or not. You can focus on the sensations
that give you a sense of the shape of the body or you can choose to ignore them.
This is where you really see the principle of kamma coming into play in the meditation.
It's almost as if the various sensations of the body have turned into a mist.
There are these little breath droplets just shimmering there, and you sense the
space in between them. The whole body is filled with this space, which also extends
outside the body in every direction. Instead of focusing on the little droplets,
you can focus on the space. This gives you a really clear lesson in how much choice
you have in how you experience the present moment. Just the simple sensation of
having a body here comes from subconscious shape-giving choices you've made. You
realize there are lots of different sensations you can focus on, and there's a
skill in how you choose your sensations, in how you magnify the ones you want,
and how you just put aside the ones you don't.
So even though this is just
training in concentration, there's also a lot of discernment involved. As the
Buddha once said, both tranquility and insight are required for getting good strong
states of absorption. And he never talked about insight without framing it in
terms of kamma, in terms of the skillfulness of what you're doing.
So this
practice is what lays the groundwork so that -- when the time comes to consider
issues of inconstancy, stress, and not-self -- you've got the proper context.
You've created a good space inside, a good space in the present moment, so that
there's no hungry sense of having to grasp after this or grasp after that. When
you've drunk your fill of the fullness and stillness, you're in a much better
mood to consider things for what they actually are -- so that when insight comes
it's not destabilizing. Without this solid foundation, thinking about inconstancy,
stress, or not-self can get really disorienting. But when you start thinking about
these issues in the context of what you're doing in the meditation, they make
it even more stabilizing. This is where concentration, tranquility, insight, and
discernment all come together in a healthy and balanced way.
Bathed in
the Breath
December, 2002
When there's a Dhamma talk, you don't have to
listen. The important thing is to stay with your breath. When the breath comes
in, you know it's coming in; when it goes out, you know it's going out. Try to
make that experience of the breath fill your awareness as much as possible. The
Dhamma talk here is a fence to keep you corralled with the breath. When the mind
wanders off, here's the sound of the Dhamma to remind you to go back to the breath,
but when you're with the breath you don't need reminding. You do your own reminding.
That's what the mindfulness does in the meditation. Each time you breathe in,
each time you breathe out, remind yourself to stay with the breath. Make just
a little mental note: "This is where you want to stay, this is where you
want to stay."
And try not to think of yourself as inhabiting one part
of the body watching the breath in another part of the body. Think of the breath
as all around you. It's coming in and out the front, coming in and out the back,
down from the top, all the way out to your fingers, all the way out to your toes.
There's a subtle breath energy coming in and out of the body all the time. If
you're in one part of the body watching the breath in the other part, you're probably
blocking the breath energy to make space for that sense of "you" in
the part of the body that's watching. So think of yourself as totally surrounded
by the breath, bathed in the breath, and then survey the whole body to see where
there are still sections of the body that are tense or tight, that are preventing
the breath from coming in and going out. Allow them to loosen up.
This way
you allow for the fullness of the breath to come in, go out, each time there's
an in-breath, each time there's an out-breath. Actually the fullness doesn't go
in and out. There's just a quality of fullness that's bathed by the breath coming
in, bathed by the breath going out. It's not squeezed out by the breath. It's
not forced out by the breath. Each nerve in the body is allowed to relax and have
a sense of fullness, right here, right now. Simply try to maintain that sense
of fullness by the way you breathe. Your focus is on the breath, but you can't
help but notice the fullness.
If you can't get that sense of fullness going
throughout the whole body, find at least some part of the body that doesn't feel
squeezed out, that feels open and expansive, and then see if you can copy that
same feeling tone in other parts of the body. Notice the other different parts
of the body where it feels open like that and allow them to connect. At first,
nothing much will happen from that sense of connection, but allow it to stay open,
stay open. Each time you breathe in, each time you breathe out, maintain that
sense of openness, openness, and the sense of connection will get stronger.
This
is why the ability to stay with these sensations is so important, for your staying
with them is what allows them to grow. If you move off to someplace else, if you're
thinking of something else, there will have to be a tensing-up in the body to
allow that thought to happen. Whatever sense of fullness might have developed
-- say, in your arms or your legs, in different parts of the body, down your back
-- doesn't have a chance to develop. It gets squeezed off because you're not paying
attention to it any more.
This is why the Buddha talks about concentration
as mahaggatam cittam: an enlarged awareness. If your awareness is limited just
to one little spot, everything else gets squeezed out, everything else gets blotted
out -- and what is that if not ignorance? You're trying to make your awareness
360 degrees, all around in all directions, because the habit of the mind is to
focus its awareness in one spot here, then one spot there, moving around, but
there's always the one spot, one spot, one spot. It opens up a little bit and
then squeezes off again, opens up a little bit, squeezes off again, and nothing
has a chance to grow. But if you allow things to open up throughout the whole
body, you realize that if you think about anything at all you destroy that openness.
So you've got to be very, very careful, very, very still, to allow this open fullness
to develop.
So these qualities of consistency, care, and heedfulness are important
in allowing this state of concentration to develop. Without them, nothing much
seems to happen. You have a little bit of concentration, then you step on it,
a little bit of concentration, then you squeeze it off as you go looking at something
else, thinking about something else. And so whatever little bits and pieces of
concentration you do have, don't seem very remarkable. They don't get a chance
to be remarkable. Concentration takes time -- and our society's pretty extraordinary
in fostering the expectation that things should happen quickly. If anything's
going to be good, it has to happen quickly, it has to be instant. And so, by and
large, we've lost the ability to stay with things as they develop slowly. We've
lost the ability to keep chipping away, chipping away, chipping away at a large
task that's going to take time and can't be speeded up.
When the Buddha gives
images for practicing concentration, he often relates them to skills. Skills take
time, and he was teaching people who had taken the time to master many useful
skills. In Thailand, they still sharpen knives against stones, and it's a skill
you have to learn: how not to ruin the knife as you're sharpening it. If you get
impatient and try to speed things up, you'll ruin the sharpness, the straightness
of the blade. So you have to be very still. The mind has to be still, and you
have to maintain just the right amount of pressure constantly as you sharpen the
blade. At first it may seem like nothing is happening, but over time the blade
does get sharper and sharper. The consistency of your pressure is what guarantees
that the blade won't get worn in one particular spot -- too sharp in one spot
and not sharp enough in another, too sharp in the sense that the blade is no longer
straight. You've worn it down too much in one spot. There are a lot of things
you have to watch out for, simply in the act of sharpening a blade. But if you
have that skill in your repertoire, then when the time comes to meditate, it's
easier to relate to what you're doing: that same kind of consistency, that same
evenness of pressure, the continual mindfulness and alertness that are needed
to maintain the proper pressure.
Another skill sometimes used as an analogy
is that of a hunter. A hunter has to be very quiet so as not to scare the animals
off, and at the same time very alert so as not to miss when a particular animal
comes by. In the same way, we as meditators have to be careful not to slip off
in either direction: into too much stillness or too much mental activity. You
have to find the proper balance. I was once talking to an anthropologist who said
that of all the skills in primitive societies that anthropologists try to learn,
the hardest is hunting. It requires the strongest concentration, the most sensitivity.
So here we're not hunting animals, but we're hunting concentration, which is even
more subtle and requires even more stillness and alertness.
Sometimes we in
the West think that we come to the Dhamma with an advantage: We've got so much
education, we're so well-read. But we have a major disadvantage in that we lack
the patience and consistency that come with mastering a skill. So keep that in
mind as you're meditating, when you find yourself getting impatient for results.
You have to be watchful and consistent. You need that sense of being bathed by
the breath, being open to the breathing sensations in all parts of the body down
to every little pore of your skin. Then you learn the sensitivity that's required,
the consistency that's required, to maintain that. That way the sense of fullness
can grow and grow and grow until it becomes really gratifying, really satisfying,
to give your concentration the kind of strength, the sense of refreshment, the
sense of nourishment it needs in order to keep going.
Ajaan Fuang once said
that without this sense of fullness, refreshment, or rapture, your meditation
gets dry. You need this lubricant to keep things smooth and running: the sense
of well-being and refreshment, the immediate visceral pleasure of being in a concentrated
state.
At the same time, it heals all our mental wounds: any sense of tiredness,
of being stressed-out, mistreated, abused. It's like medicine for these mental
wounds. Now, medicine often takes time to work, especially soothing and reconstituting
medicine. Think of the creams you put on chapped skin. The skin isn't immediately
cured when you first rub on the cream. It takes time. The skin has to be exposed
to the cream for long periods of time to allow the cream to do its work. The same
with concentration. It's a treatment that takes time. Your nervous system needs
to be exposed to the sense of fullness for a long period of time, giving it a
chance to breathe in, breath out all around so that the mindfulness and the breath
together can do their healing work.
So don't get impatient. Don't feel that
nothing is happening. A lot of things that are very important require time, and
they do their work subtly. If you give them the time they need, you find that
you're more than repaid. After all, you could be sitting for the whole hour planning
next week, planning next month, planning next year. What will you have at the
end of the hour? A lot of plans. And part of you may feel satisfied that you've
provided for the future, but when you reflect on how many of your past plans have
actually borne results, you'll realize the odds against your new plans' ever amounting
to much. What would you have to show for your hour then? Nothing very certain.
Maybe nothing but mouse-droppings and straw. But if you give the breath an hour
to do its healing work, totally opening up the body to allow the breath to bathe
every nerve out to every pore, you know that you'll come out at the end of the
hour with a body and mind in much better shape. The body will be soothed; the
mind, bright and alert.
And you don't need to stop being bathed in the breath
when the hour is up. You can keep it going in all your activities. That way, even
though you may not be armed with a whole set of plans for facing the future, at
least you're in a position where you don't need that kind of armor. You've got
the armor of a healthy body and mind. You've got an invisible armor: the force-field
of this all-encompassing breath, continually streaming out from your center to
every pore, protecting you on all sides. That's something you feel in every cell
of your body, something you know for sure, for you can sense it all around you,
right here, right now. And you know that whatever the future brings, you're prepared.
You can handle it.
This sense of fullness, brightness, alertness: That's all
you'll need to keep the mind capable, healthy, and strong.
The Steps
of Breath Meditation
November, 2002
When the Buddha teaches breath meditation,
he teaches sixteen steps in all. They're the most detailed meditation instructions
in the Canon. And the breath is the topic he recommends most highly, most frequently
-- because the breath is not only a place where the mind can settle down and gain
concentration, but it's also something the mind can analyze. It's where all the
insights needed for Awakening can arise -- while the mind is being mindful of
the breath, alert to the breath, and also conscious of how it relates to the breath.
In the later stages of breath meditation the emphasis is focused less on the
breath than on the mind as it relates to the breath. In the beginning stages,
though, the emphasis is on the breath itself, on using the breath to snare the
mind and bring it into the present moment. In the first two steps you're simply
with long breathing and short breathing, sensitizing yourself to what long and
short breathing feel like. Beginning with the third step, though, there's an element
of volition. You train yourself, and the first thing you train yourself to do
is to be aware of the whole body as you breathe in, aware of the whole body as
you breathe out.
When the Buddha describes concentration states, he doesn't
use images of single-pointedness. He uses images of whole-body awareness. When
a sense of rapture and pleasure comes from the breath, he tells you to knead that
sense of rapture and pleasure through the whole body, the way you would knead
water into flour to make dough. Another image is of the rapture welling up from
within the body and filling the body just like a spring of cool water coming up
from within a lake, filling the entire lake with its coolness. Another image is
of lotuses standing in a lake: Some of the lotuses don't go above the water but
stay totally immersed in the water, saturated from their roots to their tips with
the stillness and coolness of the water in the lake. Still another image is of
a person wrapped in white cloth, totally surrounded by the white cloth from head
to foot, so that all of his body is covered by the white cloth.
These are
all images of whole-body awareness, of a sense of rapture, pleasure, or bright
awareness filling the entire body. That's what you want to work on when you get
to know the breath, because the type of awareness that allows insight to arise
is not restricted to one point. When you're focused on one point and blot out
everything else, that leaves a lot of blind spots in the mind. But when you try
to get a more all-around awareness, it helps eliminate the blind spots. In other
words, you want to be immersed in the breath, aware of the breath all around you.
One of the phrases they use for this -- kayagatasati -- is mindfulness immersed
in the body. The body is saturated with awareness, and the awareness itself gets
immersed in the body, is surrounded by the body. So it's not that you're up in
one spot -- say, in the back of the head -- looking at the rest of the body from
that one spot, or trying to block awareness of the rest of the body from that
one spot of awareness. You've got to have a whole-body awareness, all-around,
360 degrees, so as to eliminate the blind spots in the mind.
Once you have
this type of awareness, you work at maintaining it -- although the "work"
here is not like other work. You work at not moving your attention, at not letting
it shrink. You work at not taking on other responsibilities. With time, though,
the work becomes more natural, more second-nature. You feel more and more settled
and at home. As the mind settles in, its usual nervous energy begins to dissolve.
The body actually needs less and less oxygen, because the level of your brain
activity begins to grow calm, and so the breath gets more and more refined. It
can even grow perfectly still, for all the oxygen you need is coming in through
the pores of your skin.
At this point the breath and your awareness seem to
have melted into each other. It's hard to draw a line between the two and, for
the time being, you don't try. Allow the awareness and the breath to interpenetrate,
to become one.
You have to allow this awareness, this sense of oneness, to
get really solid. Otherwise it's easily destroyed because the tendency of the
mind is to shrink up. As soon as we think, we shrink up the energy field in certain
parts of the body to block them out of our awareness, which is why there's tension
in the body every time a thought occurs. This part of the body gets tense so you
can think that thought; that part of the body gets tense so you can think this
one, back and forth this way. It's no wonder that the simple process of thinking
takes a lot out of the body. According to some Chinese medical treatises, a person
whose work is mental tends to use up energy at three times the rate of a person
whose work is totally physical. This is because thinking involves tension in the
body. And, in particular, thoughts that go off into the past or into the future
have to create whole worlds for themselves to inhabit.
When we're getting
the mind concentrated, we're thinking in a different way. In the beginning stages
we're still thinking, but we're thinking solely about the present moment, observing
solely the present moment, being alert and mindful to what's going on here, so
we don't have to create worlds of past and future. This imposes less stress on
the body. In order to maintain that present focus and not go slipping off to your
old habits, you've got to keep your awareness as broad as possible. That's what
keeps you rooted in the present moment, all the way down to your fingers and toes.
When your awareness stays broad, it prevents the kind of shrinking up that allows
the mind to slip out after thoughts of past and future. You stay fully inhabiting
the present. The need to think gets more and more attenuated.
When fewer and
fewer thoughts interfere with the flow of the breath energy, a sense of fullness
develops throughout the body. The texts refer to this fullness as rapture, and
the sense of ease accompanying it as pleasure. You let this sense of easy fullness
suffuse the body, but you still maintain your focus on the breath energy, even
if it's totally still. Eventually -- and you don't have to rush this -- the point
will come when the body and mind have had enough of the rapture and ease, and
you can allow them to subside. Or there may be times when the rapture gets too
overpowering, in which case you try to refine your awareness of the breath so
that it can come in under the radar of the rapture, and you move to a level of
total ease. Then even the ease -- the sense of imbibing the pleasure -- subsides,
leaving you with total stillness.
After you've become settled in the stillness,
you can start looking for the dividing line between awareness and the breath.
Up to this point you've been manipulating the breath, trying to get more and more
sensitive to what feels comfortable in the breathing and what doesn't, so that
your manipulation gets more and more subtle, to the point where you can drop the
manipulation and just be with the breath. This allows the breath to grow more
and more refined until it's absolutely still. When things are really solid, really
still, your awareness and the object of your awareness naturally separate out,
like chemicals in a suspension that's allowed to stay still. Once the awareness
separates out, you can begin directly manipulating the factors of the mind, the
feelings and perceptions that shape your awareness. You can watch them as they
do this, for now the breath is out of the way.
It's like tuning-in to a radio
station: As long as there's static, as long as you aren't precisely tuned-in to
the station's frequency, you can't hear the subtleties of the signal. But once
you're right at the frequency, the static goes away and all the subtleties become
clear. When you're tuned-in to the mind, you can see the subtleties of feeling
and perception as they move. You can see the results they give, the impact they
have on your awareness, and after a while you get the sense that the more refined
that impact, the better. So you allow them to calm down. When they're calmed down,
you're left with awareness itself.
But even this awareness has its ups and
downs, and to get you past them the Buddha has you manipulate them, just as you
manipulated the breath and the mental factors of feeling and perception. The text
talks about gladdening the mind, steadying the mind, and releasing the mind. In
other words, as you get more and more used to the stages of concentration, you
begin to gain a sense of which kind of concentration your awareness needs right
now. If it seems unstable, what can you do to steady it? How do you change your
perception of the breath or adjust your focus to make the mind more solid? When
the meditation starts getting dry, what can you do to gladden the mind? And as
you're moving from one stage of concentration to the next, exactly what do you
let go that releases the mind from the weaker stage of concentration and allows
it to settle in a stronger one?
When the Buddha talks about releasing the
mind at this point in the practice, he's not talking about ultimate release. He's
talking about the kind of release that occurs as you let go, say, of the directed
thought and evaluation of the first jhana, releasing yourself from the burden
of those factors as you move into the second jhana, and so on through the different
levels of concentration. As you do this, you begin to see how much those levels
of concentration are willed. This is important. Insight can come while you're
in concentration as you move from one stage to the next, as you notice out of
the corner of your mind's eye what you do to move from one way of experiencing
the breath to the next, one level of solidity to the next. And you see how much
this is a produced phenomenon.
This finally leads to the stages of breath
meditation associated with insight. First there's insight into inconstancy, both
in the breath, but more importantly in the mind, as you see that even these stable,
very refreshing levels of concentration are willed. Underlying all the refreshment,
all the stability, is a repeated willing, willing, willing to keep the state of
concentration going. There's an element of burdensomeness there. Insight into
inconstancy or impermanence has less to do with how you consume experiences than
it does with how you produce them. You see all the effort that goes into producing
a particular type of experience, and the question becomes, "Is it worth it?
Isn't this burdensome, having to keep making, making, making these experiences
all the time?"
Then the problem becomes, "What are you going to
do to let go of this burden?" If you don't fabricate these states of concentration,
is your only choice to go back to fabricating other kinds of experiences? Or is
it possible not to fabricate any experience at all? All of our normal experiences
from moment to moment to moment, whether in concentration or out, have an element
of intention, an element of will. And now you've come to the point where that
element of will, that element of intention, begins to stand out as an obvious
burden. Particularly when you look around to ask, "Who am I producing this
for? Exactly who is consuming this?" You come to see that your sense of who
you are, who this consumer is, is difficult to pin down, because it's all made
out of the aggregates, and the aggregates themselves are inconstant, stressful,
and not-self. This consumer is something produced as well. This gives rise to
a quality the texts call nibbida, which can be translated as disenchantment or
disillusionment. Sometimes the translation gets stronger: revulsion. In all cases
it's a sense that you've had enough of this. You feel trapped by this process.
You no longer find any satisfaction here. You want to find a way out.
So you
focus on letting go. According to the texts, first there's a focus on dispassion,
then a focus on cessation, then finally a focus on total relinquishment. In other
words, in the final stage you let go of every kind of doing, every kind of volition,
of the producer, of the consumer, of the observer, even of the perceptions and
the thought-fabrications that make up the path. When the path-factors have done
their job you can let them go as well.
All of this takes place right at the
breath, at the point where the mind and the body meet at the breath. This is why
the Buddha never has you totally drop the breath as your theme of meditation.
Progress along the path comes simply from staying right here and growing more
and more aware of what's going on all around right here. You develop a more all-around
awareness, not only all-around in the body, but also all-around in the mind. You
see through the blind spots that allowed you to consume experiences obliviously,
forgetting the fact that you had to produce them. It's like watching a movie --
two hours of lights flashing up on a screen -- and then later seeing a documentary
about how they made the movie. You realize that months, sometimes years of labor
went into it, and the question becomes, "Was it worth it?" A few brief
hours of empty enjoyment and then you forget about it -- despite all the work,
all the suffering that went into making it.
So when you look at all your experiences
in the same way, seeing all the effort that goes into their production and asking
if it's worth it: That's when you really get disillusioned, disenchanted, when
you can really let go. You let go not only of perceptions or feelings as they
come and go, but also of the act of creating these things. You see that this act
of creating is all-pervasive, covers all your experiences. You're always creating,
either skillfully or unskillfully. There is constant production every time there's
an intention, every time there's a choice in the mind. This is what begins to
seem oppressive; this is what finally impels you to let go.
You let go of
the producing, you let go of the creation, and the letting-go really opens things
up. The mind opens to another dimension entirely: one that's not made up, that's
not created, where there's no arising or passing away. And that too is touched
right here, although at that moment there's no sense of breath, no sense of the
body, no sense of the mind as a functioning, creating consumer or producer. When
the Buddha talks about it, all his words are analogies, and all the analogies
are of freedom. That's about all that can be said when you try to describe it,
but there's a lot that can be said about how to get there. That's why the Buddha's
teachings are so extensive. He goes into a lot of detail on how to get there,
outlining all of the steps. But if you want to know what the goal is like, don't
go looking for extensive descriptions. Just follow the steps and you'll know for
yourself right here.
The Observer
August 5, 2003
Sometimes meditation
is easy; sometimes it's hard. But whether it's easy or hard, we have to keep our
minds on an even keel. When it gets easy, don't get complacent. If you get complacent,
things start loosening up, like screws loosening up in your car. After a while
things begin to rattle and then they fall off. At the same time when things don't
go well, don't get upset. Rule number one in either case is to keep the mind on
an even keel. Have a strong sense of the observer, the part of the mind that's
simply watching what's going on, and identify as much as you can with that.
Ajaan
Suwat once mentioned that when he first went to stay with Ajaan Mun his mind seemed
to be all over the place. He'd sit and mediate and be thinking about this, thinking
about that, and he was afraid to tell Ajaan Mun for fear of what Ajaan Mun might
say. But then he realized, "I'm here to learn." So he went to see Ajaan
Mun, to see what kind of advice he would give.
And Ajaan Mun's response was
this: "Well, at least you're aware of what's happening. That's better than
not being aware of your distractions at all." Then he quoted the Discourse
on the Foundations of Mindfulness: Being aware of a scattered mind when it's scattered
counts as one of the foundations of mindfulness.
Ajaan Suwat handled that
lesson really well. He realized that Ajaan Mun was not praising him but simply
giving him some comfort, giving him some encouragement. He wasn't saying that
where he was was just fine, but he was reminding him that it wasn't a total disaster,
that the fact that he was meditating was better than not meditating at all.
This
often happens with people: Things don't go well in their meditation and they say,
"Well, tonight's just not my night to meditate. I'd do better to stop."
Not meditating is not the answer. Even though it may not be pleasant, sitting
through a bad meditation is better than not meditating. There may be some point
in the course of the meditation when you finally come to your senses, when you
see something in there that you didn't see before. This is why that sense of the
observer is so important.
In the Canon they talk about the person who's got
his or her theme of meditation well in hand, and the image they use is of a person
sitting who's watching someone lying down, or of a person standing who's watching
someone sitting. In other words, you place yourself a little bit above what's
going on and you watch it. You step back to see what's happening from a better
perspective, to get a sense of where the imbalance is in your mind, to watch what
you're doing, and to think about what you might do differently.
Exactly why
is the meditation going poorly? What's lacking? Ajaan Fuang once advised making
a mental note of the seven factors that Ajaan Lee sets out in his Method #2, and
then comparing your meditation with them, to see what's lacking. If you've got
all seven component factors, then the mind is going to settle down for sure: mindful,
solid, and still. So check to see what's lacking. Are you not clear about the
lengths of the breaths? Are you not clear about whether the breath is comfortable?
Are you not spreading the comfortable breath sensations? Do you not have a resting
place for the mind, for the breath in the body? Just go down the list, and if
you find that any of the component factors are missing, try to make up for the
lack.
But again, to do this you need that sense of the observer, the person
who's watching and doesn't get upset by what's happening, doesn't get carried
away, but just watches in total neutrality. When you can watch in this way, then
even a bad meditation isn't a total disaster. You take it as a challenge. Tonight's
meditation may be a little bit different from last night's. Last night's went
well, but you start out tonight and things don't seem to be going so well. Instead
of getting flustered, just ask: "Is it a question of the body? Is something
wrong with the breath? Is something wrong with your energy level? Are you too
manic? Too depressed?" Lots of different factors can be playing a role here,
either factors in the mind or factors in the body. If your energy level is too
low, you can change the way you breathe to energize yourself. If your energy is
too frenetic, you can breathe in a way that calms you down.
Try to be as precisely
observant as possible. Many times what makes a difference in the meditation is
the details, the little things, and if you're not paying careful attention, simply
going through the motions, you miss a lot. You may be missing something important
even though it seems minor. Try to go through every aspect very meticulously,
try to be very observant, be close in your powers of observation.
There's
a word in Thai, thii, that's used to describe the closeness, say, of the teeth
in your comb or the pickets in a fence -- any series of things. It's also used
to describe the frequency of a radio signal. The higher the frequency the closer
the frequency. So you want your acts of mindfulness, your acts of alertness, to
be very close: right next to each other, with no gaps. Otherwise, if you leave
a lot of gaps there's plenty of time for the curtains to come down in the mind.
The backstage crew can change the scenery, and when the curtain comes up again
you're off someplace else. But if your mindfulness is close like this, then they
have no time to bring down the curtain. If they change the scenery you see it
happening, and that destroys the illusion that otherwise would carry you away.
So whatever happens in the meditation, always stop and take stock of, "Where's
the observer right now?" -- in other words, the part of the mind that can
simply watch and not be moved by events at all. We're so used to living in the
part of the mind that's constantly pushed around by events that it almost seems
traitorous to step back and be in the part that's not moved by anything at all,
not touched by anything at all, that just watches, seeing what's going on. There's
always that corner in the mind. So try to locate it, get familiar with it. Learn
how to make that the basis of your stance, so that no matter what happens you
see the events clearly for what they are. You clearly see the connection between
cause and effect. That puts you in a position where you can use your ingenuity
to make changes, adjust things here, adjust things there, try this, try that.
Even if what you try doesn't work out, you've learned something. You've learned
that that particular tactic doesn't work here, which is something worth knowing.
If you take this attitude then no matter how well the meditation goes, no
matter how poorly it goes, it's always an opportunity to learn.
Judicious
vs. Judgmental
May, 2003
One of the most difficult but necessary skills
we need to develop as meditators is learning how to be judicious without being
judgmental. And as a preliminary step to developing that skill, it's good to reflect
on the difference between the two.
Being judgmental is basically an effort
to get rid of something we don't understand and probably don't want to understand.
We see something we don't like and we try to dismiss it, to stamp it out without
taking the time to understand it. We're impatient. Whatever we're being judgmental
about, we just want to get rid of it quickly.
Being judicious, however, requires
patience together with understanding. A judicious choice is one you've made after
understanding all the options, all the sides of a question. That way your choice
is based on knowledge, not on greed, aversion, or delusion.
This is why the
Buddha, in his analysis of the four truths, said that our task with the regard
to the first truth -- the truth of suffering or stress -- is to comprehend it.
All too often we treat pain in the same way we treat anything we don't like: We
want to get rid of it as fast as possible without taking the time to understand
it. So what we're learning as we practice is how not to be judgmental about the
things we don't like inside ourselves. We develop the patience and the skill we
need in order to stop and take a good long look at these things so that we can
deal with them judiciously, so we can deal with them through understanding. We
give them space so that we can watch them, can understand them, so that when we
finally decide that they really are unskillful, that we really don't want to have
them going on in our mind, we can get rid of them neatly, effectively.
The
problem with being judgmental is that it's not effective. We try to stamp out
things here and they go springing up someplace else, as in the old movie, The
Thing. The Thing would go underground and suddenly spring up someplace else. If
you cut off one head here, one identity here, its underground roots and tentacles
would spring up with a new, even more horrific identity someplace else. The same
thing happens when we try to get rid of anything in the mind when we don't understand
its roots, don't understand where it's coming from.
Being judicious, though,
is more effective. It's more precise. We see what's really skillful, what's really
unskillful in the mind, and we learn how to disentangle the two. Often our skillful
and unskillful habits get entangled. The things we don't like within ourselves
actually do have some good in them, but we don't notice it. We focus instead on
what we don't like, or what we're afraid of, and we end up trying to stamp it
all out, the good along with the bad.
So this is why we meditate: to step
back a bit, to watch things patiently so that we can see them for what they are
and deal with them effectively. Our concentration practice gives us a comfortable
center in our awareness where we can rest, where we feel less threatened by things.
When we feel less threatened and less oppressed, we have the resilience to be
more patient, to look into what's going on in the mind, and to develop the proper
attitudes toward what is skillful and what isn't.
This is where the four sublime
attitudes come in. Back in the 70's I read a book about Buddhism whose author
tried to organize everything around the four noble truths but couldn't figure
how the four sublime attitudes fit into the framework of the four truths. They
just didn't seem to connect anyplace at all, so the author ended up treating them
as an entirely separate topic. But actually the four sublime attitudes underlie
the whole practice. They're the reason the Buddha focused his teaching on the
four noble truths. You need a sense of goodwill to be even interested in the question
of trying to understand suffering, because you want to find an effective way of
dealing with it. You want to be rid of suffering, to experience wellbeing, precisely
because you have goodwill for yourself and for others. So as meditators we try
to use that attitude, that desire, as a way of developing the center we need in
order to work toward that wellbeing from a position of strength. If you don't
have that basic sense of goodwill, you'll have a hard time trying to stir up the
energy needed to master the concentration, to keep with the breath, to keep coming
back to the breath no matter how many times you wander off.
Now, you may want
to be at a more advanced stage than trying to rein in the mind. You want to sit
down and Bung, there it is: the first jhana. But when it doesn't happen quickly
you get frustrated. So put that frustration aside. Put away all the pride and
the shadow side of pride, which is the shame. Just put those things aside, and
remind yourself that this is the way things are, this is where you are, and be
willing just to keep coming back, coming back, to stick with those simple tasks.
The people who master any kind of skill are the ones who are willing to step back
and master the simple steps, to practice them over and over again, because it's
in doing the simple steps and being observant that you learn many of your most
important lessons.
These steps are not just a mechanical process that you
have to bulldoze your way through as quickly as possible. You have to pay attention
to what you're doing even when things are not going well. Pay attention to how
the mind slips off, pay attention to how you bring it back, and you'll learn an
awful lot right there. Underlying all this has to be an attitude of good-natured
goodwill. If there's a sense of frustration, remember that you're here because
of goodwill, not for the sake of frustration, not for the sake of finding some
new thing to beat yourself over the head about or to be judgmental about. You're
here for the sake of goodwill, for the sake of giving the mind a place where it
can settle in and be at ease.
Develop compassion for yourself. Think of all
the suffering you could be causing yourself if you weren't meditating. Think of
all the suffering you might be causing others if you weren't meditating. This
helps to remind you that when things aren't going all that well in the meditation,
it's still a lot better than most of the things that people do in their lives.
It's a good, beneficial use of your time.
Then develop an attitude of sympathetic
joy, appreciating the happiness you can develop through the practice, appreciating
the happiness of others. Of all the four sublime attitudes, sympathetic joy gets
the least press. It's often the hardest to develop. There seem to be voices in
our heads that resent happiness -- either the happiness of other people or, if
other people have resented our happiness, we've picked up their voices someplace
and can even be distrustful of our own happiness. So we have to counter those
voices by realizing that there is nothing wrong with happiness. It comes through
our actions. If the happiness that someone is experiencing right now doesn't seem
to be deserved in terms of his or her present actions, there must be something
in the past to account for it. At the same time, remind yourself that an attitude
of resentment doesn't help you or anyone else at all. Sometimes it seems unfair
that some people are happy and others are not. But for the time being, just put
the question of fairness or unfairness aside. Wherever there's a sense of wellbeing
in the mind, learn how to appreciate that sense of wellbeing. It has its uses.
Most people, when they experience happiness, get complacent, which is one
of the reasons why the quest for happiness is often branded as selfish. People
enjoying power or beauty or wealth tend to get complacent and as a result of their
complacency start doing very unskillful things. But if you approach happiness
from the attitude of someone who's practicing as the Buddha taught, there is a
use for happiness. It's a quality in the mind that, if properly used, can bring
about peace of mind. After all, the concentration we're looking for in our practice
has to have some basis in wellbeing. Otherwise the mind wouldn't be able to stay
here. So if you learn how to use that sense of wellbeing properly, without complacency,
it has no drawbacks.
The Buddha, when he was practicing austerities all those
years and years in the wilderness prior to his Awakening, had a very unhealthy
attitude toward happiness. He was afraid of it. He was afraid of pleasure, afraid
that it would lead to all kinds of detrimental things in the mind. Only by reflecting
carefully on the sense of pleasure in jhana and realizing that there was nothing
to fear, that there were no drawbacks in that type of pleasure, was he able to
give himself wholeheartedly to the practice of jhana.
It's good to remember
that whatever issues we have in the practice, the Buddha went through them all.
It's not that there's something especially wrong with us. These are natural human
tendencies. The Buddha was a human being and had to overcome natural human tendencies,
too. So we're in good company. We've got his example to show that they can be
overcome, and his assurance that we as human beings have what it takes to do it.
Finally there's the attitude of equanimity, which is useful in many ways.
When we're working here in the meditation and the results aren't coming as fast
as we'd like, equanimity teaches patience. It reminds us that the principle of
action often requires that things take time. If you're working on something that
takes time, try to develop equanimity. That makes it easier to be patient. Realize
that things don't necessarily have to go the way you want them to right away.
When you're willing to admit what the situation actually is, then you can actually
act more effectively with it. Again, this is a matter of being patient, taking
the time to understand what's going on.
So when we work at these sublime attitudes
and bring them to the meditation, we find that they create a sense of patience,
a sense of wellbeing, an ability to work at a task that takes time. Sometimes
the practice seems to require that we do mindless things over and over again:
Just bring the mind back to the breath, bring the mind back to the breath. Why?
Don't ask questions right now, just bring the mind back to the breath. But be
observant while you do it, because as you catch the mind going off, you can learn
some very interesting things. You come to a point where you can see the mind beginning
to move and you have the choice to go with it or not. Once you catch yourself
at that point, then it's a lot easier to stay with the breath. You've learned
an important lesson about how to read the movements of your mind.
The same
principle applies to how you bring the mind back when you realize it's wandered
off. Do you bring it back in a judgmental way or in a more judicious way? If you
find that your attitude is judgmental, can you find other ways of simply bringing
it back without all the extra baggage? Just very matter-of-factly bring it back
and leave it at that. Just this simple process in and of itself teaches you a
lot of lessons about the difference between being judgmental and being judicious.
In other words, you try to understand, you try to look for patterns, so that the
way you order the mind around or try to create some sense of control in here is
actually effective.
The reason control freaks have a bad reputation is because
they're ineffective. They're judgmental, they're not judicious in how they control
things. Actually, control isn't a bad thing. But -- as with being judicious --
it has to be done skillfully. And that takes time, requires powers of observation.
Watch what you're doing, watch the results. If things don't work, admit the fact
and try something else. When you do this, you find it easier and easier to tell
the difference being judgmental and being judicious. At the same time, you start
getting better results from your meditation, because you've taken the time to
watch, to observe, to understand what's going on.
One of the main problems
in modern life is that people have so little time. When they meditate, they want
to cram as much of their meditation as possible into their little bits and pieces
of spare time. Of course that aggravates the whole problem of being judgmental.
So keep reminding yourself that meditation is a long-term project. When you have
a sense of that long arc of time, it's a lot easier to sit back and work very
carefully at the basic steps. It's like learning any skill. If, in one afternoon,
you want to gain all the skills you're going to need to play tennis, you end up
doing them all very sloppily and won't get the results you want. But if you realize
that this may take time, you can work on one skill at a time: How do you keep
your eye on the ball? How long is your backswing? Take the skill apart step by
step by step and be willing to work on small things like this bit by bit by bit
so that you really understand them deep down in your bones. That way, when the
time comes to make choices, they'll be judicious choices, not judgmental choices,
and you'll get the results you want.
Impossible Things
November,
2002
There's a character in Through the Looking Glass who says that he likes
to think about two or three impossible things every morning before breakfast.
It helps air out his mind. That's a good strategy for us as meditators -- think
about a couple of impossible things every day: that you're going to master the
concentration, you're going to taste the Deathless.
Of course these things,
strictly speaking, are not impossible, but a lot of voices in our minds seem to
insist that they are. So it's good to think about impossibilities every now and
again to change the tone of the conversation.
Remind yourself that your life
isn't already written in stone, that you're not a slave to fate or a little nameless
cog in the big machine. You're actually a doer, a mover, a shaper. You can shape
your life in the direction you want it to go.
The Buddha said that there are
four types of action in the world: things we like to do that give good results,
things we don't like to do that give bad results, things we like to do that give
bad results, and things we don't like to do that give good results. The first
two are no-brainers. Without even thinking, you do the things that you like to
do and give good results. There's no conflict in the mind. The same holds true
for things you don't like to do that give bad results. You don't want to do them.
There's no discussion. The committee is unanimous.
The difficult actions are
the ones you like to do but give bad results and the ones you don't like to do
but give good results. The Buddha had an interesting comment on these two. He
said they're a measure of a person's wisdom and discernment. He didn't say they're
a measure of your willpower. You need to use discernment to do the things you
don't like to do but give good results and to not do the things you like to do
but give bad results. The discernment lies not only in seeing the connection between
cause and effect in each case, but also in outmaneuvering the committee members
who just want to do what they want to do regardless. It learns to see through
the blockades that the mind puts up for itself, the difficulties it creates for
itself, and figures out how to get past them.
One of the biggest difficulties
we create for ourselves is our self-image. We notice that it's difficult to do
things that are good for us and easy to do things that are not good for us, and
we come to think that our nature is to be lazy, or that the lazy side of the mind
is our true self, because the other side obviously takes effort. The lazy side
of the mind is the one that just goes with the flow, so that must be who we truly
are. That's what we think, but that kind of thinking is really self-destructive.
We may remember the times when we've done the right thing -- when we've meditated,
followed the precepts, lived in line with the Dhamma -- but all we can think about
is how much effort it took. So we say, "That must not truly be me. That must
be somebody else. I must be the person who does things that are easy, I must be
lazy, I must have very poor willpower." That kind of attitude is a huge misunderstanding.
The things that are difficult are hard for everybody. Rather than creating a self-image
about it, though, wise people just think, "How can I maneuver around this
laziness? How can I maneuver around this negative attitude?" They experiment
and try different approaches until they find what works.
This is what you
have to try to do in your meditation. If you find yourself up against that kind
of obstacle, learn to take your self-image apart. Realize that your self is not
a given, the image itself is not a given. It's a pattern, it's a habit, this kind
of self-imaging you have. If it gets in the way of what you really want, then
no matter how much it screams that "this is your true self," you have
to question it. You have to take it apart. Don't believe it.
No matter how
much the mind may say it doesn't want to struggle, that's just one part of the
mind. There's another part that does want to attempt the struggle, does want to
have the strength, does want to see things through. The lazy side has sabotaged
that by saying, "That's not really me." Well, who is this lazy side?
Why would you want to identify with it? You have the choice.
Try to find the
holes in its arguments, learn how to take things apart. You have to learn to deconstruct
the negative habits in the mind. The first step is to question their truth, their
validity. After all, the Buddha said that the mind can be trained, and that happiness
comes from the training. If people couldn't change, there'd be no point in teaching
the Dhamma. There'd be no point in trying to practice. The truth of the matter,
though, is that we all have the potential for change. Each moment is a new moment,
a moment with an element of freedom.
Then there's the part of the mind that
says, "Okay, you can choose to do the right thing right now, but it's not
going to last very long." You have to question that, too. The best way to
question it is to choose to do the right thing for at least the next moment and
the next moment and the next moment and then say, "See? I can do it."
The negative side will come up with all kinds of other arguments, but you have
to be determined not to listen to them, not to believe them. Try to figure out
ways to undercut the part of the mind that does believe them.
It's kind of
like internal politics. There are certain voices that come screaming at you all
the time, and you've learned to give in to them, sometimes simply because of their
force. If you stop and really look at them, though, you see that there's not much
there that you'd really like to give in to. So you have to create other voices
in the mind. The path is something you create, after all. It's something you put
together. In technical terms it's sankhata dhamma, something you put together.
The question is not whether you naturally like it or not. That's one of the
main, common misunderstandings in American Buddhism right now: this sense that
you can choose whichever path you like and it won't matter because all the paths
come out the same in the end. Well, there are paths that work, and there are paths
that don't. A path you happen to like isn't necessarily going to take you where
you really want to go.
So there has to be an element of struggle. There has
to be an element of putting something new together, of not falling back into old
ways. When you stop to think of it, when you fall into old ways there's an element
of construction, you're creating that old sense of self over and over every time
you give in to it. Is that the kind of self you want to create? You have the option
to create something else.
For many of us, we don't like the responsibility
because if we're responsible that means we're going to be responsible for our
mistakes. So you have to ask, "Well, so what?" Everybody makes mistakes.
Even the Buddha made mistakes before he became the Buddha. This is where we're
all coming from.
This is why sanghanussati, recollection of the Sangha, is
such a useful contemplation. Sometimes it's hard to compare yourself to the Buddha,
but you can compare yourself to members of the noble Sangha. People who followed
the Buddha's teachings were of all kinds. There were lepers, poor people, rich
people, all kinds of people. One famous pair was Mahapandaka and Culapandaka.
They were brothers. Mahapandaka was the older brother; Culapandaka, the younger
brother. Mahapandaka was very smart, Culapandaka was very dumb, yet both of them
became arahants. There are all kinds of people in the noble Sangha. Everyone in
the noble Sangha has been where you are now, in terms of the strengths and weaknesses
of their minds. What made the difference is that they finally decided that they
were going to use those strengths to overcome those weaknesses. And the first
step was simply thinking that it could be done. If they could do it, so can you.
It may seem impossible, but you can get used to thinking impossible things.
After
all, the Buddha was told that it was impossible, the idea that there could be
a Deathless, that there could be something better than what he already had. There
he was: wealthy, educated, good looking, powerful. He had all the sensual objects
and pleasures that anyone could imagine, and he still wasn't satisfied. His family
and friends said, "Don't kid yourself. The Deathless isn't possible. This
is as good as it gets."
He said, "Well, if this is as good as it
gets, then life is pretty miserable, because it's all going to fall apart someday."
So he set out to find the impossible -- and he found it. We may not feel up to
comparing ourselves to the Buddha, but there are lots of noble disciples who must
have felt at some point that true happiness must be an impossibility, that for
them to change must be an impossible thing. But then one day they decided to do
the impossible. That's how they ended up being members of the noble Sangha. The
point being, of course, that what we think is impossible is not necessarily impossible.
We've just allowed ourselves to be limited.
When I first ordained, I found
that the scariest part of being ordained was that so much more was demanded of
me. When you live in normal society, people's expectations, people's standards,
are not all that high. It's not all that difficult to live up to them. But suddenly
when there's the possibility of working for the Deathless, it seems overwhelming.
There's part of the mind that wants to run back to the shelter of what seems easier
to handle. But of course what's easier to handle also brings on more suffering.
As the Buddha said, "Lay life is hard. Life as a renunciate is hard."
But at least life as a renunciate takes you someplace really worth going to. When
you finally make up your mind that you're really going to train yourself, it makes
that goal less of an impossibility.
So try to overcome that barrier in your
mind that deep down someplace says, "I can't do this." Question it.
Why would you want to believe that? Who in your mind is saying that? It's the
part of the mind that doesn't want to make an effort. Do you want to identify
with that part of the mind? You can if you want to, but you don't have to. You
have the opportunity of identifying with better voices in the mind. It's your
choice. No matter how impossible it may seem, it is your choice.
Contentment
in the Practice
July, 2001
Every time you sit down to work with the breath,
remember the story of the foolish, inexperienced cow. The cow is in a nice meadow
on the hillside, has plenty of green grass and water, but sees another meadow
over on another hillside and starts wondering, "What's the grass like over
there? What's the water like over there?" And so because she's a foolish,
inexperienced cow, she sets out. She doesn't know how to go down the hillside,
cross over the ravine and go up the other hillside, so she gets lost in between.
She doesn't get to the other hillside and can't get back to where she originally
was.
This stands for the mind that, once it gets into a state of concentration,
wonders where to go next to get something better. The trick is to learn how to
stay in your meadow, so the grass has a chance to grow, so you have a chance to
enjoy the water right where you already are. And the place where you are will
develop into deeper and deeper states of concentration. This is why it's so important
that before you start working with the breath here or there, adjusting it here
or there, you find at least some spot where it's comfortable and focus on that.
To make another comparison, it's like starting a fire on a windy day. You
have your tiny little flame, so you cup it in your hands and make sure that it
doesn't get blown out. At the same time, you don't cut off the oxygen. You cup
it in your hands just right, keeping that one little flame going, and after a
while it will catch. Then it will spread throughout all the timber you've piled
up. But it's important that you get that first little flame going.
The same
with the breath: Find at least one little spot and stay right there for a while.
It doesn't have to be a big spot, just a small spot. And content yourself with
that small spot for the time being. Allow it to be comfortable. After a while
it will catch. Then you can start spreading that sense of comfort throughout the
body because you're working from a position of strength. You're working from a
position of comfort, not a position of desperation or anxiety or restlessness,
thinking that this has to be like that, or that has to be like this. Just content
yourself with what you've got and allow it to grow. Content yourself at first
with the small things, and ultimately, with practice, they'll grow into a greater
and greater sense of wellbeing.
Remember that the word jhana comes from the
verb jhayati, or burning. This verb isn't used to describe just any kind of burning;
it's used to describe the burning of an oil lamp. When an oil lamp burns, the
flame is steady. It may not be a big flame, but its steadiness is what helps it
illuminate the room. You can read by it. If it were a flickering flame, you couldn't
read by it, no matter how bright it was, for the shadows would be jumping all
over the place. But the steadiness of the oil-lamp flame is what enables you to
read even in an otherwise dark room.
It's the same with the state of your
concentration. You stay steadily with one spot. The steadiness, the consistency
of your gaze is what allows this one spot to become really comfortable. In the
beginning it may not be all that comfortable, just an okay spot someplace in the
body. The breath feels okay coming in, feels okay coming out. No big deal, nothing
special. But you find, if you allow yourself to settle into it, that it solves
a basic problem in the mind: the underlying tension where it's ready to jump at
a moment's notice, like a cat settled in one spot but coiled up ready to spring.
If you could take a picture of the mind, that's what it would look like: a cat
coiled ready to spring. When it lands on an object, part of it is ready to spring
away from that object as soon as it doesn't like the object, as soon as the object
turns into something unpleasant, because that's the way it's been dealing with
objects all along.
But here you allow it to settle into one little spot and
let that sense of tension in the mind melt away. You melt into the object of your
concentration and then let that melting sensation spread into the body, all the
way down to your fingers and toes. This way the meditation goes a lot better than
if you're constantly fighting and figuring things out too much. You've got to
learn how to apply just the right amount of pressure, just the right amount of
pushing, not too much, not too little. The more sensitive you are in your meditation,
the better it goes.
So you've got a meadow someplace in your body. It may
not be a big one, but it's there. You don't sit around worrying about where the
next meadow's going to be or what other meadows you have around you. Just stay
right where you are and the grass will grow. The water will flow. And you find
that the place where you are starts to develop. That's the kind of concentration
you can really live with.
In other words, it's the kind of concentration you
can pick up and take with you wherever you go, not where you prefashion things
too much and preconceive things too much and have to do this and have to do that
and adjust this and adjust that and it all becomes very theoretical. Just an inner
sense of allowing it to feel just right, right here, to feel good right here,
and wherever you go, you're still with "right here." You can identify
where that good feeling is and carry it with you wherever you go. That's the kind
of concentration that grows. It's the kind of concentration that seeps into your
life and begins to make a difference in how you think, how you act, and how you
speak, because it's there all the time. It doesn't require too much fashioning.
It may require a little bit of looking after, but not based on what you've read
in books. It's just a sense of wellbeing right here. You've got your little spot
and you take it with you.
Ajaan Fuang once said that mindfulness and concentration
are little tiny things but you've got to keep at them all the time. The statement
sounded better in Thai because it was a pun. There's the word nit, which means
little, but there's also the word nit -- spelled differently but pronounced the
same way -- which means constantly. So concentration is a little tiny thing that
you do constantly. When it comes from this beginning sense of wellbeing, it's
a lot more stable. You can maintain it a lot longer. The sense of wellbeing begins
to glow throughout the body and the mind when you allow it to happen, when you
allow the grass to grow and the water to flow. Or, in terms of the image of the
flame, when you give it enough space and protection to allow it to catch hold.
In one of Ajaan Lee's talks he says that big things have to start from little
things. Sometimes you have to content yourself with just a little bit of concentration,
a little comfortable spot, but you stick with it constantly. You plant one banana
tree, and after a while it will grow and provide you with the seeds to plant more
banana trees. So you take the seeds out of the banana -- in Thailand they have
bananas with seeds -- you plant them, and after a while you've got a whole banana
orchard. Or even better, mangoes: You've got one tree that you take really good
care of. You don't yet worry about planting the rest of your land. You've got
your one tree and after a while it gives mangoes, and bit by bit you can plant
a whole orchard with the seeds you got from the fruit of the one tree. At the
same time, you get to eat the flesh of the mangoes. You can enjoy yourself. After
all, this is a part of the path, the part where the Buddha explicitly mentions
rapture, pleasure, and ease as factors of the path. If you don't have that sense
of wellbeing, the practice gets very dry.
As you're planting the mangoes and
eating their flesh, you find that the path becomes a really nice place to be,
a good path to follow -- not only because you know it's going to take you to a
good place, but also because it's a good path to be on while you're there. You're
not going through the desert. You're going through orchards and lush countryside.
If you learn to recognize which plants are food and which ones are medicine for
which disease, there's plenty to keep you healthy and energized all along the
way.
Patience
November, 2002
We're an impatient society. Everything
has to be done fast, the results have to come fast, or else we lose interest quickly.
It's because we're so impatient that we don't understand what patience is all
about. When we're told to be patient, many times we think it's a sign that we
shouldn't care about the results, that we don't have to be so committed to the
practice, that we can let things take their course whenever they want to. We think
that patience means a lack of resolution, a lack of dedication, that you're a
carefree and indifferent about when things are going to come together, when the
results are going to show.
That's not what patience means. Patience means
sticking with the causes of your practice, no matter how long it takes to get
the results. In other words, you're resolute in doing the practice, you stick
with it, you stay with it, slow and steady.
Khanti, the Pali word we often
translate as patience, also means endurance. It means that you stick with things
even when they take a long time to show results. You don't get frustrated. You
remind yourself: This a path that takes time. After all, we're unlearning a lot
of habits that we've been indulging for who knows how long. So it only stands
to reason that it's going to take time to unlearn those habits. The only way to
unlearn them is to actually stick with the practice, to be resolute in what you're
doing. This firm resolution is what's going to make the difference.
Ajaan
Thate talks about being patient like farmers. Those of you who've never lived
on a farm, even you know that farmers don't have an easy life. They work hard,
especially in Thailand, where they don't have a lot of labor-saving devices. When
the time comes to do what needs to be done, they have to do it quickly. In other
words, when the rice grains are ready, you have to harvest them quickly before
the mice get to them. You have to take care of them quickly, winnow the rice quickly
before any late season rain comes to spoil it. So it's not a matter of being slow
or casual, this patience of a farmer. The patience of a farmer is the sort that
knows you can't plant the rice today and expect to have the grains ripened tomorrow.
It's going to take time, and during that time it's going to require work.
Fortunately
for farmers, they have experience. They know from previous years how long it takes.
We, however, don't have that kind of experience. We're working on something new,
developing new habits in the mind. Sometimes we read the passages in the Satipatthana
Sutta about how you can gain Awakening in seven days if you're really dedicated,
and we come away with unrealistic ideas about how quickly we should see results
in order to deem our practice successful. This is not to say that it's not possible,
but just that most of the people who could get results in seven days have already
gotten results and gone to nibbana. That leaves the rest of us here muddling along
-- which doesn't mean we should be any less dedicated in our practice. We should
just realize that it's going to take time.
Good things always take time. The
trees with the most solid heartwood are the ones that take the longest to grow.
So we do the practice, focusing on what we're doing, rather than getting into
an internal dialogue about when the results are going to come, what they're going
to be like, and how we can speed up the practice. Many times our efforts to speed
things up actually get in the way. Our practice is pretty simple. Stay with the
breath, allow the mind to settle in with the breath, be friends with the breath.
Allow the breath to open up and get more and more gentle, more and more porous,
so your awareness can seep into the breath. That's all you have to do.
Of
course, we want to add things on top of that to make the results come faster,
but the things we add on top get in the way. So try to keep things simple. Just
stay with the breath. If the mind is going to get into any dialogue, engage in
a dialogue about how the breath feels right now, reminding yourself to stay with
breath, catching the mind when it's going to slip off. There's a lot of work to
do, even when you try to keep it simple, just keeping the mind with the breath.
As for whether the results are coming as quickly as you'd like or, when they come,
whether they're going to stay as long as you'd like: That's going to depend on
what you're doing right here with the breath. Our desire to have the results come,
our desire to have them stay, is not going to keep them here. The actual doing
of the practice is what will make the difference.
There's a passage in the
texts where the Buddha talks about a hen incubating her eggs. Whether or not the
hen has a desire for the eggs to hatch, they're going to develop. Whether or not
she has a little dialogue about how quickly she wants them to come, and why aren't
they coming any faster than this, all those little questions that she probably
doesn't have the brain to ask... Our problem is that we do have brains that ask
those questions and they get in the way. If you're going to ask questions, ask
questions about what you're doing right now. "Is that you wandering off?
Where are you going? Are you looking for trouble? Or are you staying right here?"
That's all you have to ask. Just be really consistent and resolute in sticking
with what you know you have to do.
If you find yourself flagging, learn how
to give yourself pep talks, encouraging yourself along the way. Do what you can
to keep the mind right here as consistently and steadily as possible. Consistency
is what builds up momentum. Although we'd like momentum to build up fast, sometimes
our minds are pretty massive, and the massive minds are the ones that take time
to accelerate. So try to streamline things as much as you can. Stay focused. Stay
resolute in what you're doing.
As for the results, that's what you're patient
about. Don't allow yourself to be patient or tolerant about vagrant thoughts that
will pull you away from the breath. Patience relates to the process of causality
in the sense that you can't push the results to appear unless the causes are right.
Sometimes the causes take a while to come together. But you can rest assured that
when they do they'll bring the results, without your having to concoct a lot of
preconceived notions about them.
When they do come, don't abandon the causes.
When the mind finally does get a sense that it's settling in, feeling comfortable,
don't leave the breath to focus on the comfort. The comfort's there, you can think
of it spreading through the body, but spread it through the body by means of the
breath. If you abandon the breath, it's like letting the foundation of a house
rot away. You like the house, it's a comfortable place, but if you don't look
after the foundation you'll soon have no place to stay.
So the focus should
always be on the causes, and you should apply yourself to the causes with as much
commitment and resolution as you can muster. Let go of your thoughts about how
long you've been practicing, what the results used to be in the past. Focus on
what you're doing, totally on what you're doing, right now.
Training
the Whole Mind
June, 2001
When we train the mind, it's not just a question
of using a meditation technique to bludgeon the mind into the present moment.
If that's our approach, the mind is going to start rebelling, finding ways of
slipping around our defenses, because there are times when the meditation technique
is right for the situation and times when it isn't. The times when it isn't: That's
when the mind is going to rebel if you single-mindedly use just that one technique
and don't have other techniques or approaches up your sleeve as well.
Meditation
is not just a question of technique. In training the mind, you have to remember
there's a whole committee in there. In the past the committee has had its balance
of power, its likes and dislikes, and the politics among the various voices in
your mind. Each of them has different tricks for pushing its agenda on the rest.
So just as these defilements have lots of tricks up their sleeves, you as a meditator
need to have lots of tricks up your sleeve, too.
One really basic trick is
for when the mind says, "I've got to do this. I want to do that. I don't
want to meditate." You've got to ask, "Well why?" And play kind
of dumb, so that the mind really has to explain itself. It's like lesson number
one in any journalism class: If you really want to get a good interview out of
people, you have to play dumb, ask stupid questions, so that they think they have
to explain things to you very carefully. And oftentimes they reveal all kinds
of things they wouldn't have otherwise.
It's the same with your own mind.
When greed, anger, and delusion come into the mind, they usually barge in with
a lot of force and expect to push you right over. So one thing you have to do
is to ask, "Well, why? Why should we follow that? Why should we want instant
gratification?" And there will be an "of course-ness" to their
answer the first time around. "Of course you want it this way. Of course
you want it that way." "Well why?" If you're persistent in being
block-headed like this, all the defilements will start revealing themselves. You'll
see how shabby they are. You'll be able to get around them more easily.
It's
like training a little child. Sometimes you have to be strict with the child,
other times you have to offer rewards, patiently explain things. Other times you
have to make up little games. In other words, you have to use your full psychology
with the mind. But this time around you're not using it for the purpose of deception,
which is what the mind ordinarily does with itself. You're using it for the purpose
of truth and honesty, for what's really in your own best interest.
What does
the wandering mind do for you? It gives a little bit of instant gratification
and then that gratification goes, with nothing left to show for itself. If you
keep allowing this to happen, where are you going to pick up the skills you'll
really need when aging, illness, and death hit with full force? This is why the
Buddha stressed the principle of heedfulness all the time. We can't just spend
our time sniffing the flowers and looking at the sky. There's work to be done.
When the mind is untrained, it causes us a lot of unhappiness. If the mind is
well trained, if it's more tractable, it can bring a lot of happiness our way.
In order for that to happen, you have to learn how to psyche yourself into
the mood to meditate. Once it starts meditating and begins to see the results,
it gets more willing and tractable -- most of the time. Then there are times it
starts rebelling all over again, totally irrationally. So you've got to sit down
with it again, work things through with it again, to see exactly what issue got
covered up the last time around and is only now getting exposed.
This is one
of the ways in which you learn a lot about your defilements. It's not that you
have to wait for a totally solid concentration before you can see the defilements
clearly. A lot of learning about the defilements lies in learning how to struggle
with them as you bring the mind to stillness. You begin to see: "Oh, this
is how greed works, this is how aversion works, this is how I've fallen for this
stuff before in the past. Well, this time around I'm not going to fall."
Sometimes it's like a battle. Other times it's more a question of learning
how to work together in a way that's for your own best interests: how to be a
mediator, a negotiator, or a patient teacher. You've got to have lots of ways
of relating to the different elements in your mind. The times when you can win
the defilements over to your side: That's when it's best. Your desire turns into
a desire to practice. Your hatred turns into a hatred of the defilements. You
learn how to use the energy of these things for your own true benefit.
That's
when you can be said to be a discerning mediator. You can't gain insight simply
by following the rules. Somebody says, "For insight you need to do one, two,
three, four, five, six, and seven. So you do one, two, three, four, five, six,
seven without any thinking, without any reflection on what you're doing, and yet
that doesn't give you any true insights. It gives you pre-programmed insights
sometimes, but the actual startling new understandings that can come through the
meditation don't happen because you're too busy following the directions.
The
directions are there for you to apply to the mind and then to observe, to look
at what happens, to reflect on what happens, to make adjustments. Make the meditation
your own and not just somebody else's bulldozer running through your head. After
all, the big issue is how you relate to yourself, how you relate to the body,
how you relate to feelings, perceptions, thought-fabrications, and consciousness.
That's the area where you're causing yourself suffering, so that's the area where
you've got to gain sensitivity and insight. Nobody else can get into your head
and straighten these things out for you. You use the techniques of meditation
to see what they reveal about the mind. Then you build on those lessons so that
the meditation becomes your own.
In Thai, they have a word for practice --
patibat -- which also means looking after someone, to attend to someone's needs.
In the practice of the Dhamma you're looking after your own mind, attending to
your own mind's needs. It's not so much that you're learning about Buddhism. You're
learning about your own mind, looking after your own mind. That's when the meditation
really starts showing its value. It rearranges all the power balances in the mind
so that truth begins to take over, wisdom begins to take over, discernment begins
to take charge. These become the big powers in your mind, the ones in charge of
any discussion.
When that's the kind of mind you have, it's a really good
mind to live in. We live in physical places only for a certain amount of time
but in our own minds all the time. Try to make the mind a good place to live so
that, no matter what else happens outside, at least the mind is on proper terms
with itself, not fighting itself, not doing stupid things that aren't in its own
best interest. Get so that it really does know how to deal with the aggregates
as they arise, how to deal with pain so it doesn't turn it into suffering, how
to deal with pleasure so it doesn't turn it into suffering. Get so that the mind
develops a basic intelligence in sorting itself out, managing itself, so that
all your mental powers suddenly become powers you can truly put to good use.
As
we were saying today, there are times when, for your own good, you don't want
to be focused on the breath. There are things you have to think about, things
you've got to plan for, things you have to ponder, where you take all the powers
of the mind you've trained in concentration and put them to other uses. That way
the benefits of the concentration permeate your whole life, everything you do.
So it's an all-around training, not just learning to relate to the breath,
but learning how to relate to everything else going on in the mind as well, so
that skillful thoughts take over and unskillful thoughts get left behind. That's
when you can say that the meditation is a whole-mind process. That's when it gives
results penetrating throughout your whole life. The committee members learn how
to live together. The unskillful ones get outvoted. The ones who should be in
charge, the skillful qualities, take over and run the show in such a way that
nobody suffers.
The Grain of the Wood
November 9, 1996
The Buddha
teaches that there are two sides to the path of practice: the side of developing
and the side of letting go. And it's important that you see the practice in both
perspectives, that your practice contains both sides. If you practice just letting
go, you'll throw away the baby with the bath water. Everything good will get thrown
out because you let go of everything and leave nothing left. On the other hand,
if yours is just a practice of developing and working and doing, you miss the
things that happen on their own, that happen when you do let go.
So an important
part of the practice is realizing which is which. This is what discernment is
all about, realizing which qualities in the mind are skillful, the ones that are
your friends, and which qualities are unskillful, the ones that are your enemies.
The ones that are your friends are those that help make your knowledge clearer,
make you see things more clearly -- things like mindfulness, concentration, and
discernment, together with the qualities they depend on: virtue, morality, persistence.
These are the good guys in the mind. These are the ones you have to nurture, the
ones you have to work at. If you don't work at them, they won't come on their
own.
Some people think that practice is simply a matter of letting the mind
go with its own flow, but the flow of the mind tends to flow down, just as water
flows downhill, which is why the mind needs to be trained. In training the mind,
we're not creating the unconditioned or unfabricated in the mind. It's more like
polishing wood. The grain is already there in the wood but, unless you polish
it, it doesn't shimmer, it doesn't shine. If you want to see the beauty of the
grain, you have to polish it, to work at it. You don't create the grain, but the
polishing is what brings out the grain already there. If you don't polish it,
it doesn't have the same shimmer, it doesn't have the same beauty as it does when
it's polished.
So practicing the Buddha's path is like polishing away at the
mind to see what's of real value there within the mind. That's what the mindfulness,
the persistence, the ardency, and all the other terms the Buddha uses that suggest
effort and exertion: That's what they're for. This is why we have rules in the
practice: rules in terms of the precepts, rules for the monks to follow. They
provide work for the mind, and it's good work. They're not just "make-work"
rules. When you hold by the rules, when you hold by the precepts, the result is
that you learn an awful lot about the mind at the same time you're making life
a lot easier for yourself and the people around you. In the beginning it may seem
harder to have the rules to follow, but once you start living by them, they open
up all kinds of possibilities that weren't there before when everything was confined
by the riverbanks of your old habits, going along with the flow.
This is why
there has to be effort. This is why there has to be work in the practice. As the
Buddha said, right effort has four sides. Abandoning is only one of the four.
There's also preventing -- preventing unskillful things from arising. When unskillful
things have arisen, those are the things you abandon. Then there's the effort
to give rise to skillful qualities, and the effort to maintain them once they
are there. You develop these skillful qualities and then you keep them going so
that they develop to higher and higher levels. So sometimes, when you're reflecting
on your practice, it's useful to focus on exactly what you're developing here
-- the good qualities like mindfulness and alertness. At other times it's helpful
to focus on the things you have to let go of, the things you have to work at preventing.
You see right effort very easily when doing concentration practice because
you have to focus on where you want the mind to be, to be aware of where you don't
want it to be, and also to be ready to fight off anything that's going to come
in to disturb your stillness of mind. When you're focusing on your meditation
topic, you pick it up and say that this is what you're going to focus on for the
next hour. By doing this you're giving rise to skillful qualities. And then you
try to keep your focus there. You've got to keep reminding yourself that this
is what you're doing here. You're not just sitting; you're sitting here to develop
the mind. So you keep your mind on the topic you've chosen, like the breath, and
then you work at bringing the mind back whenever it slips off, bringing it here,
keeping it here, at the same time being aware that any moment it can slip off
again. This second level of awareness is what keeps you from drifting off obliviously
and then coming back to the surface five minutes later, suddenly realizing that
you were off who-knows-where in the mean time. If you're prepared for the fact
that the mind can leave at any point, then you can watch for it. In other words,
you're watching both the breath and the mind, looking for the first sign that
it's going to leap off onto something else. This is a heightened level of awareness
that allows you to see the subtle stirrings in the mind.
The mind is often
like an inchworm standing at the edge of a leaf. Even though the inchworm's back
feet may still be on this leaf, its front feet are up in the air, swaying around,
searching around for another leaf to land on. As soon as that other leaf comes,
boomph, it's off. And so it is with the mind. If you're not aware of the fact
that it's getting ready to leave the breath, it comes as a real surprise when
you realize that you've slipped off someplace else. But when you have a sense
of when the mind is beginning to get a little bit antsy and ready to move, you
can do something about it.
In other words, you can't be complacent in the
practice. Even if the mind seems to be staying with the breath, sometimes it's
ready to move on, and you've got to have that second level of awareness going
as well so that you can be aware both of the breath and of the mind together --
so that you have a sense of when the mind is snug with its object and when it's
beginning to get a little bit loose. If you see it loosening its grip, do what
you can to make it more snug. Is the breath uncomfortable? Could it be more comfortable?
Could it be finer? Could it be longer, shorter, whatever? Explore it. The mind
is telling you on its own that it isn't happy there anymore. It wants to move.
So look at the quality of the breath and then turn around and look at the
quality of the mind -- this sense of boredom, this wanting to move. What's actually
causing it? Sometimes it comes from the breath, and sometimes it's just a trait
that arises in the mind, a trait that stirs up trouble. Try to be sensitive to
what's going on, to see whether the problem is coming from the mind or the object
the mind is focused on. If it's coming from a simple sense of boredom that's moved
in, let the boredom move on. You don't have to latch onto it. You don't have to
identify with it, saying that it's your boredom. As soon as you identify with
the boredom, the mind has left the breath and is on the boredom. Even though the
breath may be there in the background, the boredom has come into the forefront.
Your inchworm has moved off to the other leaf.
So if the mind is getting antsy
and saying, "Well, move. Find something new," refuse for a while and
see what happens. What is the strength lying behind that need to move? What's
giving it power? Sometimes you'll find that it's actually a physical sensation
someplace in the body that you've overlooked, so work on that. Other times it's
more an attitude, the attitude that you picked up someplace that said, "Just
sitting here not thinking about anything is the most stupid thing you can do.
You aren't learning anything, you aren't picking up anything new. Your mind isn't
being exercised." Ask yourself, "Where is that voice coming from?"
It's coming from somebody who never meditated, who didn't understand all the good
things that come from being still in the present moment.
Only when the mind
is really still right here can it begin to resonate with the body. When there's
a resonance between the breath and the mind, it gives rise to a much greater sense
of wholeness and oneness. This is the positive aspect of the practice that you
want to focus on, because if the mind is one place and the body someplace else,
there's no resonance. It's as if they were singing two completely different tunes.
But if you get them together, it's like having one chord with lots of overtones.
And then you come to appreciate how, when there's this sense of resonance between
the body and mind, you begin to open up. You begin to see things in the mind and
in the body that you didn't see before. It's healing for both the body and the
mind. It's also eye-opening in the sense that the more subtle things that were
there suddenly appear. You gain a sense of appreciation for this, that this is
a very important thing to do with the mind. The mind needs this for its own sanity,
for its own health.
So when the mind starts getting antsy and wants to move
around and think about things and analyze things, and it starts telling you that
you're stupid to sit here and not think, remind it that not everything has to
be thought through, not everything has to be analyzed. Some things have to be
experienced directly. When you analyze things, where does the analysis come from?
It comes mostly from your old ignorant ways of thinking. And what we're doing
as we get the mind to settle down is to put those ways of thinking and those ways
of dividing up reality aside. For a state of concentration you want to get the
mind together with the body and to foster a sense of oneness, a sense of resonance
between the two.
Once they've had chance to be together, then you can begin
to see how things begin to separate out on their own. And this is a totally different
way of separating. It's not the kind of separating that comes from ordinary thinking.
It's actually seeing that even though the body and mind are resonating, they are
two separate things, like two tuning forks. You strike one tuning fork and put
another one next to it. The second tuning fork picks up the resonance from the
first one, but they're two separate forks. Once the body and mind have had a chance
to resonate for a while, you begin to see that they are two separate things. Knowing
is different from the object of knowing. The body is the object; the mind is the
knowing. And this way, when they separate out, they don't separate out because
you have some preconceived notion of how they should be. You watch it actually
happening. It's a natural occurrence. It's like the grain of the wood: When you
polish it, the grain appears, but not because you designed the grain. It's been
there in the wood all along.
The same with your meditation: You're simply
giving yourself a chance really to see your experience of body and mind for what
it is instead of coming in with preconceived notions about how things should get
divided up, how things should be analyzed. There's a natural separation line between
name and form, body and mind. They come together, but they're separate things.
When you learn how to allow them to separate out, that's when real discernment
comes in.
This is why the discernment that comes with concentration is a special
kind of discernment. It's not your ordinary mode of thinking. It comes from giving
things a chance to settle down. Like a chemical mixture: If everything gets jostled
around, the two chemicals are always mixed together and you can't tell that there
are two in there. There seems to be just the one mixture. But if you let the mixture
sit for a while, the chemicals will separate. The lighter one will rise to the
top; the heavier one will settle to the bottom. You'll see at a glance that there
actually are two separate chemicals there. They separate themselves out on their
own because you've created the conditions that allow them to act on their own.
The same with the mind: A lot of things begin to separate out on their own
if you simply give the mind a chance to be still enough and you're watchful enough.
If you're not watchful, the stillness drifts off into drowsiness. So you need
the mindfulness together with the stillness for this to happen properly.
With
the stillness, you're letting go of a lot of nervous activity, you're letting
go of a lot of unskillful things in the mind. With the mindfulness you're developing
the skillful qualities you need to see clearly. This is how the letting-go and
the knowing come together. When the Buddha discusses the four noble truths, he
talks about the duty appropriate to each. Your duty with regard to craving, the
second noble truth, is to let it go. Then there's a third noble truth, which is
the cessation of suffering. And what is that? It's the letting-go of the craving
at the same time you're aware of what's happening. So the task appropriate to
the cessation of suffering is a double process: knowing together with the letting-go,
and this makes all the difference in the world. Most of the time when we let go
of craving we're not aware of what's happening, so it's nothing special. It's
just the ordinary way of life as we move from one craving to another. But when
the mind has been still enough, and the mindfulness well-developed enough, then
when the craving gets abandoned you're aware of it as well, and this opens up
something new in the mind.
This is why the factors of the noble eightfold
path fall into two types: the ones that develop and the ones that let go. The
ones that let go abandon all the mind's unskillful activities that obscure knowledge.
The developing ones are the ones that enable you to see clearly: right view, right
mindfulness, right concentration. They all work at awareness, so that you can
know clearly what's actually happening in the present moment.
So there are
these two sides to the practice, and you want to make sure that you're engaged
in both sides for your practice to be complete. It's not just a practice of relaxing
and letting go, and it's not just a practice of staying up all night and meditating
ten hours at a stretch, really pushing, pushing, pushing yourself. You have to
find a balance between clear knowing and effort, a balance between developing
and letting go, knowing which is which and how to get that balance just right.
That's the skill of the practice. And when you have both sides of the practice
perfectly balanced, they come together and are no longer separate. You've got
the mind in a perfectly clear state where the knowing and the letting-go become
almost the same thing.
But the balance doesn't occur without practice. You
may ask, "Why do we keep practicing? When do we get to perform?" Well,
we're practicing for the time when ultimately we can master these things. When
the practice gets balanced, the path performs, and that's when things really open
up in the mind.
A Good Dose of Medicine
November 13, 1996
The
Buddha often compared himself to a doctor, healing the diseases of the hearts
and minds of his listeners. Now, we normally think about heart disease as meaning
hardening of the arteries, and mental disease as insanity, but he said the real
diseases of the heart, the real diseases of the mind, are three: passion, aversion,
and delusion. They burn like a fever in the heart, a fever in the body. And the
reason he taught about these diseases is because there is a way to gain release
from them. If they were impossible to cure, he wouldn't have bothered to teach.
So we have to learn to take his teaching as treatment for our own hearts, our
own minds. That's when we're using them properly.
Treating these kinds of
diseases is in some way similar to treating ordinary mental diseases, ordinary
bodily diseases. And in some ways it's different.
With ordinary diseases,
the doctor can give you medicine, you take the medicine, and that's it. With the
Buddha's treatment, though, you are the one who administers the cure. You simply
learn about the cure from the Buddha. As he says, he simply points out the way,
but you're the one who actually has to carry through and administer the treatment
to yourself. So you're both the doctor and the patient -- you're a student doctor.
You're learning the treatment. Sometimes the symptoms of the disease don't quite
match what's printed in the texts, don't quite sound like the things you've heard
people say: That's why you need an experienced doctor to help you along. But also
you need your own ingenuity because there are times, as in a hospital, when the
experienced doctor isn't on call. Sometimes a really drastic case comes in and
there's nobody but interns around. The interns have to figure out what to do on
their own. So it's not simply a matter of following what's in the books. You also
have to learn how to apply the teachings to all kinds of unexpected situations,
to learn which teachings are the basic principles and which are secondary details.
The similarity between the two types of diseases -- outer diseases and inner
diseases -- is that in both cases there are two kinds of sources for the disease:
inner and outer. Some bodily diseases you can blame on germs. They come in from
the outside and they wreak a lot of havoc in the body. But on a more basic level
the question is, "Why do the germs take over?" -- because sometimes
you have enough resistance to fight them off and sometimes you don't. In this
sense the basic cause comes from inside, from your inner lack of resistance.
The
same holds true with the mind. Many times we blame problems within the mind on
things from outside -- what other people do, what other people say, the general
atmosphere around us, the values we grew up with, the things we learned as children.
And these do play a role, but the most important problem is what comes from the
mind. Why is it susceptible to those influences? After all, you find some people
staying in a certain environment and they're perfectly okay, they pick up no negative
influences, while other people get into the same environment and come out all
warped. Two kids growing up in the same family hear the same lessons from their
parents but take away totally different messages. This is because of what you
bring to life when you come, what weak points and what strong points are already
there in the mind.
So you have to focus in on the mind as the main problem.
You can't go blaming things outside. If the mind had really good powers of resistance,
a really good immune system, nothing could stir it to passion, nothing could stir
it to anger, nothing could stir it to delusion. Fortunately, you can train the
mind develop that immunity. That's the kind of mind you want to develop. That's
the mind that the Buddha defines as health. This is why the training focuses inside,
looking at your own mind and seeing where things set it off. When germs come into
the mind, where is your resistance strong and where is it weak? What is your line
of resistance? This is what we're developing in the meditation: lines of resistance.
Concentration, virtue, generosity: these are all our first lines of resistance
against the invading germs.
Sitting here with our eyes closed, instead of
trying to change things outside, we change things inside. Some people think that
the practice is simply a matter of learning how to accept everything just as it
is. Well, some things you do accept and some you don't. You learn to accept the
fact that the outside world is going to be the way it is. There are always going
to be external problems. And the phrase "outside world" here doesn't
refer just to other people. Your own body is part of the outside world from the
point of view of the Dhamma. And the body contains aging, illness, and death.
That's the nature of the body. You can't change that, but what you can change
is the mind. This is where you can't just sit around and be equanimous, accepting
the mind as it is. You've got to accept that the mind has the potential to change.
So you've really got to stir yourself to look into the mind, to see which potentials
need to be weakened and which ones need to be enhanced.
This is where right
effort comes in -- when you learn how to distinguish skillful and unskillful states
in the mind. The skillful ones are the ones that can keep up your resistance against
greed, anger, and delusion. The unskillful ones are the ones that give in, the
ones that are susceptible to infection. And because delusion is part of the problem,
the first thing you need to learn how to do is to distinguish which states are
skillful and which ones aren't. This is why you need instructions. This is why
you need a technique in your meditation -- you've got a focal point, the breath,
as a measuring stick for the movements of the mind. You watch the breath as it's
coming in and going out, and you notice when you get pulled away from it: That's
a good measure of when the mind is being influenced by something. If you don't
have this kind of focus, it's hard to tell when anger comes and when it goes.
There's nothing to measure it against. Like the clouds in the sky: You can't tell
how fast they're moving unless you've got something still and solid on the ground
to use as your reference point -- a tree, a telephone pole. If you focus on that
one point, then you can see whether the clouds are moving north or south, and
how fast they're going in relation to that point.
It's the same with the mind
once it has a focal point like the breath: As soon as your attention gets pulled
away from the breath, you know something has happened. Then you check to see what
it is. In the beginning you simply notice what it is and -- realizing that if
you follow that, you're drifting away from where you want to be -- you bring the
mind back. This is on the basic level of just getting the mind to learn how to
be still for a while, how to stick with your original intention to stay centered,
and how to settle down. But as your powers of concentration, your powers of mindfulness
get stronger and stronger, you find you can actually investigate what's pulling
you away -- or what would have pulled you away if you hadn't caught yourself in
time. This is when your powers of resistance are getting stronger: when you begin
to see exactly how you get hooked to that pull.
It's as if your mind is covered
with Velcro hooks and you investigate to see what comes along and ends up stuck
in them. Actually, those little Velcro hooks are choices. They're not necessary.
You don't have to get stuck on things. There is actually a place in the mind where
you're making a choice to latch on. Only when things get really still in the mind
and your awareness is really clear can you see that choice as an act -- that you
made the choice to lower your resistance and latch onto the germs when you didn't
have to. That's where you can let go. One, you see the drawbacks of the diseases
caused by the germs and, two, you realize that you don't really have to come down
with those diseases. They're not really necessary. When you can identify the particular
disease patterns, they will never be necessary. They seem necessary only when
you can't conceive of anything else. "Things have to be that way," or
so the mind tells itself. If the mind had to be that way, there would be no purpose
in meditating, there would be no purpose in the Buddha's teaching. He could have
sat around under the Bodhi tree for the rest of his life and just enjoyed the
bliss of Awakening. He realized, though, that teaching would serve a purpose.
So that's what we're doing -- we're carrying out that purpose, putting his teachings
into practice so we can gain the results that he wanted to see from the effort
he put into his teaching.
All this comes under right effort, realizing when
you have skillful states, realizing when you have unskillful states, and being
determined that once an unskillful state has arisen you're not going to feed it,
you're not going to follow along with it. Some people have problems with this,
especially with the issue of struggling or effort or having a goal. The problem,
though, doesn't lie with effort or goals in and of themselves. It lies with your
attitude toward them. You need to have a healthy attitude toward this struggle.
You need to have a healthy attitude toward the effort, toward the goal, because
the goal is what gives you a direction in life. Without goals, life would just
be floundering around, like fish flopping around in a puddle.
So you need
to have a direction. You realize that maybe this is a bigger task than other tasks
you have taken on, so you don't berate yourself for not getting to the goal immediately
or not catching on right away. You learn through experience what your pace is
and you stick to it. Sometimes you push yourself a little too hard in order to
know what it means to push yourself too hard, and then you let off. And you find
that you tend to vacillate back and forth between pushing too hard and not pushing
enough, but as long as you're sensitive to this fact you begin to get a better
and better sense of what "just right" is.
When the Buddha talks
about the Middle Way, it's not necessarily what our preconceived notions of the
Middle Way are. You have to test them. And the effort required is not blind effort.
Right effort involves using your eyes: knowing what's skillful in the mind, what's
unskillful, being determined to let go of anything unskillful that arises in the
mind, and trying to prevent more unskillful things from arising in the mind. At
the same time, you try to realize when skillful qualities have appeared. You try
to maintain them, develop them, make them strong.
So there's both the letting-go
and the developing, and the function of discernment is to tell when which is appropriate.
You have to listen very carefully to what's happening in the mind, watch things
in the mind, be observant. This is why a lot of the meditation instructions throw
things back on you, on your own powers of observation, because only by developing
those powers can you develop the discernment you're going to need. Sometimes in
the Buddha's teachings, it's almost as if he purposely leaves a few blanks, doesn't
explain everything, leaves things for you to figure out on your own, because if
everything were handed to you on a platter where would your discernment get engaged?
How would it develop? You'd be a restaurant critic, picky and choosy about what's
served to you, but totally ignorant about how to fix the food yourself. So sometimes
the Buddha gives the teachings as riddles, and your willingness to try to figure
them out, make mistakes, come back and try again, is what will make you grow.
This is the healthy attitude toward right effort, realizing that sometimes it's
going to take a lot of persistence, a lot of endurance, a lot of tenacity.
But
not always. There are times when it gets very easy and enjoyable, and everything
seems to flow. So you learn to adjust your effort so that it's just right for
whatever the situation. That's when right effort is really right, when you start
getting your own sense of how things vary and how things need to be adjusted.
That's when the practice becomes more and more your own practice, the practice
you've made your own, not just something that somebody outside is telling you
to do. And this is where you turn from a student doctor into an experienced doctor.
Luckily with the diseases of the mind, it's not the case that your patients
are all going to die. This particular patient, the mind, keeps coming back. So
there's room for mistakes -- but you can't be too complacent. After all, you're
the patient. You're the one who suffers from the mistakes. Some of those mistakes
can lead you down a path that ends up far away, and it'll be a long time before
you find your way back. So again you need an attitude of balance: You don't berate
yourself for not attaining the goal, but at the same time you don't get complacent.
Much of the practice is this one issue: figuring out where that balance is.
Other people can help give you pointers, but you yourself really have to listen
to your own practice, look carefully at the results as they come -- because this
ability to see cause and effect in the mind is what lies at the essence of discernment,
and discernment is what makes all the difference. It's the ultimate medicine in
the Buddha's medicine box -- and yet he can't just hand it to you. It's like an
herbal medicine that you have to grow yourself. He describes it and tells you
how to find it, how to grow it, and then how to take it.
So get used to this
image that you're both the doctor and the patient, and learn to have a very strong
sense of the doctor looking after the patient. Don't identify totally with the
patient because if you do it's hard to see a cure, hard to see even the possibility
of a cure. But if you have the attitude of the doctor, there has to be a notion
of what health is and how to recognize illness whenever it shows its face. At
the same time, you have to develop the ability to step back and look at the whole
situation to figure out the cure.
Here's another image: Ann Landers. People
who write letters to Ann Landers are so thoroughly immersed in their problems
that they can't step back. They have trouble even formulating a letter. But all
Ann Landers has to do is read the letter once it's formulated and usually she
can give an answer right off the bat because she's not immersed in the situation.
From her perspective, the issue is already formulated. Her job is not all that
hard. You'll find your own practice gets a lot easier too when you can step back
to recognize the problem and articulate it to yourself. Once the problem is clearly
delineated, you've got your answer. As in the case of the doctor, the real difficulty
lies in learning to diagnose the illness. Once you've got the diagnosis right,
the choice of medicine is easy.
So the first step is learning how to be the
doctor. Identify at least part of your mind as the doctor. This is the part you
want to train. And the funny thing is that in training the doctor, the patient
gets cured.
Life in the Buddha's Hospital
March, 2002
The Dhamma
is like medicine. You can see this from the way the Buddha teaches. He starts
off with the four noble truths, which are very much like an analysis of how to
care for a disease. In his case, he's offering a cure for the basic disease of
the mind: the suffering that comes from craving and ignorance. That's what we've
got to cure. So he analyzes the symptoms of the disease, diagnoses it, explains
its causation, discusses what it's like to be free of the disease, and then shows
a path of treatment that leads to the end of the disease, to a state of health.
It's important that we keep this in mind as we practice here together: We're
working on the diseases of our own minds. Each of us has illnesses. And although
the basic causes of illness are the same -- craving, ignorance -- our cravings
are different. Our particular brands of ignorance are different as well. This
is why we have to make allowances for each other, because different people have
to undergo different courses of treatment.
It's like going into a hospital.
It's not the case that everyone in the hospital has the same diseases. Some people
have cancer, some have heart diseases, some have liver diseases. Some people have
diseases from eating too much, some from eating too little. There are all kinds
of different diseases in the hospital. And it's the same way here in the monastery.
We each have our own particular diseases. And our duty here is to take care of
our own diseases without picking up diseases from other people -- and at the same
time not getting upset that somebody else is taking a different kind of medicine
than you are. Each of us has his or her own diseases requiring specific kinds
of medicine. Some medicines are bitter and unpleasant to take; other medicines
are a lot easier to swallow. So each of us has his or her own course of treatment.
It's important that we pay attention to our own course of treatment, and not worry
about the treatments of others.
If some people don't seem to be recovering
from their diseases as fast as you would like them to, well, again, it's their
disease. Try to keep this is mind. Remember what Ajaan Lee says: "When you
look inside, it's Dhamma. When you look outside, it's the world." And it's
not just that you're a detached observer looking at the world. Your whole mind
becomes the world as well when you start focusing outside. "This person does
that, this person does this": That's the world, even if you use the categories
of the Dhamma to judge the person. You've taken the Dhamma and you've turned it
into the world. So you've got to keep your gaze focused inside.
In other words,
when you get upset at someone else, what is this quality of being upset? Focus
on that. The events in the mind are the important issues. Those are the things
causing your own illness. Do you want to cure your own illness or to aggravate
it? Keep this question in mind as you practice.
As we live together and practice
together, we see each other a lot, but try to make that fact have the least possible
impact on the mind. Try to turn your gaze inside. Even when you're looking outside,
you want your focus to be inside: "How is your mind reacting to this? How
is your mind reacting to that?" This is part of restraint of the senses.
Several years back we had an elderly visitor from Thailand who was very serious
about practicing restraint of the senses. She kept her eyes down and hardly talked
to anyone. And then she overheard other people talking about how stuck up and
unfriendly she was because she was trying to be so quiet and unresponsive. So
she came to me to complain about how other people were not respecting her restraint
of the senses. Of course, what kind of restraint is that, getting upset over what
other people are saying about you?
Restraint is purely an internal matter.
As you go through life you have to hear things, see things, taste things, touch
things, think about things. The point of restraint is that you don't make those
things the main focus. The process of how the mind reacts to the seeing, how it
directs the seeing, and so on with the other senses: that should be your focus.
If issues come up and aggravate the illness in the mind, how are you going to
deal with it? The Buddha laid out a lot of medicines for us to choose. The chant
on the 32 parts of the body: That's basically a reminder of his medicines for
dealing with attachment to your own body and lust for the bodies of others. The
chant on the four sublime attitudes: That's for dealing with not only anger but
also with resentment, jealousy, any cruel intentions in your mind. Many times
you can get worked up about things totally beyond your control: That's when you
should reflect on the principle of kamma to develop equanimity.
There are
antidotes for all these diseases, and our duty here is to use them. Because, after
all, who's suffering because of our diseases? Other people may be suffering to
some extent, but we're really suffering. We suffer very little from what other
people do, and a great deal from the lack of skill in our own minds.
In the
Canon the Buddha talks about how people should not give in to craving and conceit,
and when we look at other people it's obvious that he's right. Their craving and
conceit are obviously causing trouble. The trick, though, lies in seeing our own
craving, our own conceit. If you find yourself using these teachings to judge
other people, stop and ask yourself: "Well, wait a second. Am I the National
Bureau of Standards?"
Then turn around and look at yourself. What about
your own craving? You want things to be a certain way and then they aren't the
way you want them to be. This is a very important lesson I learned with Ajaan
Fuang. He always seemed to fall sick at times that were extremely inconvenient
for me. I'd have some project going on around the monastery, and it always seemed
that just when I was really getting into the project, he got sick and I had to
drop everything to look after him. I began to notice the sense of frustration
growing within me and I finally realized, "Hey, wait a minute. If I let go
of the desire to finish that project, things go a lot more easily." At the
same time, if I let go of my desire for him to care for his illness in the way
I thought best, it made things a lot easier around the monastery. Especially for
me, and -- probably in no small measure -- for him as well.
When you start
running into that reality, realize: Your cravings are the things that are making
you suffer, so those are the things you have to let go of. When you let go, you
find you can live with all kinds of situations. Not that you become lazy or apathetic,
just letting things be whatever way they want to be. You become selective: Where
can you make a difference? Where can you not make a difference? Where is your
craving helping you in the path? Where is it getting in the way? You have to learn
how to be selective, how to be skillful in where you direct your wants, where
you direct your aspirations. Again, the problem is not outside. The problem is
inside. We do suffer to some extent from things outside, but the reason we suffer
is because things inside are unskillful. That's what we have to work on. Once
the inside problem is dealt with, the outside problems don't touch us at all.
Conceit is another troublemaker. Conceit is not just puffing yourself up and
thinking you're better than other people. According to the Buddha, it's the tendency
of the mind to compare itself with others. Even if you say, "I'm worse than
that other person," or, "I'm equal to that other person," that's
conceit. There's an "I" there: the "I-making, mine-making, and
tendency to conceit." That's a lot of the problem right there, a major cause
of disease.
The Buddha describes the sense of "I am" as the underlying
cause for the mind's tendency to proliferate ideas, its tendency to make differentiations,
to complicate things, and all the categories and conflicts that come from those
complications: These all start with the "I am." The basic verbalization
of craving also starts with "I am." It then goes on to "I was,"
"I will be," or "Am I? Am I not?" and all the other questions
that come up from putting the "I" and the "am" together and
then identifying with them. You start comparing this "I am" to other
people's, to your sense of what they are. So either you're better than they are,
or you're equal, or you're worse. Whichever side you come down on, though, it's
just a big troublemaker all around.
Just keep remembering: Other people's
diseases are their diseases. They've got to cure them. They've got to take their
medicine. Your diseases are yours -- your prime responsibility. And if the person
next to you in the hospital room is not taking his medicine properly, that's his
problem. You can be helpful and encourage him, but there comes a time when you
have to say, "Okay, that's his issue. I've got my own disease to take care
of." This way it's a lot easier for all of us.
When these attachments,
cravings, and conceits don't get in the way, then any place you practice becomes
an ideal place to practice. People often ask, "Where is the best place to
practice?" And the answer is, "Right here in the here-and-now."
It's actually the only place you can practice. But you can do things to make the
here-and-now a better place to practice wherever you are, both for yourself and
for the people around you. It's dependent not so much on changing things outside
as it is on changing your inner attitudes. That way the place where we're practicing
becomes a good place to practice for us all.
Vows
October, 2002
When
you read Ajaan Lee's autobiography, you notice the number of times he made vows:
vowing to sit all night, vowing to meditate so many hours, vowing to do this,
vowing to do without that. The word for vow in Thai is "adhithaan,"
which is also translated as determination. You make up your mind, you're determined
to do something. Making determinations like this gives strength to your practice.
Otherwise you just sit and meditate for a while and when the going gets tough
-- "Well, that's enough for today." You don't push your limits. As a
result you don't get a taste of what lies outside the limits of your expectations.
As the Buddha said, the purpose of the practice is to see what you've never
seen before, realize what you've never realized before, and many of these things
you've never seen or realized lie outside the limits of your imagination. In order
to see them, you have to learn how to push yourself more than you might imagine.
But this has to be done with skill. That's why the Buddha said that a good determination
involves four qualities: discernment, truth, relinquishment, and peace.
Discernment
here means two things. To begin with, it means setting wise goals: learning how
to recognize a useful vow, one that aims at something really worthwhile, one in
which you're pushing yourself not too little, not too much -- something that's
outside your ordinary expectations but not so far that you come crashing down.
Second, it means clearly understanding what you have to do to achieve your goals
-- what causes will lead to the results you want.
It's important to have specific
goals in your practice: That's something many people miss. They think that having
a goal means you're constantly depressed about not reaching your goal. Well, that's
not how to relate to goals in a skillful way. You set a goal that's realistic
but challenging, you figure out what causes, what actions, will get you there,
and then you focus on those actions.
You can't practice without a goal, for
otherwise everything would fall apart and you yourself would start wondering why
you're here, why you're meditating, and why you aren't out sitting on the beach.
The trick lies in learning how to relate to your goal in an intelligent way. That's
part of the discernment that forms this factor in determination.
Sometimes
we're taught not to have goals in the meditation. Usually that's on meditation
retreats. You're in a high-pressure environment, you have a limited amount of
time, and so you push, push, push. Without any discernment you can do yourself
harm. So in a short-term setting like that it's wise not to focus on any particular
results you want to brag about after the retreat: "I spent two weeks at that
monastery, or one week at that meditation center, and I came back with the first
jhana." Like a trophy. You usually end up -- if you get something that you
can call jhana when you go home -- with an unripe mango. You've got a green mango
on your tree and someone comes along and says, "A ripe mango is yellow and
it's soft." So you squeeze your mango to make it soft and paint it yellow
to make it look ripe, but it's not a ripe mango. It's a ruined mango.
A lot
of ready-mix jhana is just like that. You read that it's supposed to be like this,
composed of this factor and that, and so you add a little of this and a pinch
of that, and presto! -- there you are: jhana. When you set time limits like that
for yourself, you end up with who-knows-what.
Now, when you're not on a retreat,
when you're looking at meditation as a daily part of your life, you need to have
overall, long-range goals. Otherwise your practice loses focus, and the "practice
of daily life" becomes a fancy word for plain old daily life. You need to
keep reminding yourself about why you're meditating, about what the meditation
really means in the long-term arc of your future. You want true happiness, dependable
happiness, the sort of happiness that will stay with you through thick and thin.
Then, once you're clear about your goal, you have to use discernment both
to figure out how to get there and to psyche yourself up for staying on the path
you've picked. What this often means is turning your attention from the goal and
focusing it on the steps that will take you there. You focus more on what you
do than on the results you hope to get from what you do. For example, you can't
sit here and say, "I'm going to get the first jhana," or the second
jhana, or whatever, but you can say, "I'm going to stay here and be mindful
of every breath for the next whole hour. Each and every one." That's focusing
on the causes. Whether or not you reach a particular level of jhana lies in the
area of results. Without the causes, the results won't come, so discernment focuses
on the causes and lets the causes take care of the results.
The next element
-- once you've decided on your goal and how you're going to approach it -- is
to stay true to that determination. In other words, you really stick to your vow
and don't suddenly change your mind in mid-course. The only good reason for changing
your mind would be if you find that you're doing serious damage to yourself. Then
you might want to reconsider the situation. Otherwise, if it's just an inconvenience,
or a hardship, you stick with your determination no matter what.
This is your
way of learning how to trust yourself. Truthfulness, "sacca," is not
simply a matter of speaking the truth. It also means sticking truly to what you've
made up your mind to do. If you don't stick truly to that, you've become a traitor
to yourself. And when you can't rely on yourself, who will you rely on? You go
hoping for someone else to rely on, but they can't do the work you have to do.
So you learn to be true to your determination.
The third element in a good
determination is relinquishment. In other words, while you're being true to your
determination there are things you're going to have to give up. There's a verse
in the Dhammapada: "If you see a greater happiness that comes from forsaking
a lesser happiness, be willing to forsake the lesser happiness for the sake of
the greater one."
A famous Pali scholar once insisted that that couldn't
possibly be the meaning of the verse because it was so obvious. But if you look
at people's lives, it's not obvious at all. Many times they give up long-term
happiness for a quick fix. If you take the easy way out for a day, then you take
the easy way out for the next day and the next, and your long-term goal just never
materializes. The momentum never builds up.
The things that really pull you
off the path are those that look good and promise a quicker gratification. But
once you've got the results of the quick fix, many times you don't get any gratification
at all -- it was all an illusion. Or you get a little bit, but it wasn't worth
it.
That's one of the reasons why the Buddha presents those strong images
for the drawbacks of sensual pleasure. A drop of honey on a knife blade. A burning
torch you're holding in front of you, upwind, as you're running. A little piece
of flesh that a small bird has in its claws, while other, bigger birds are coming
to steal it, and they're willing to kill the smaller bird if they don't get it.
These are pretty harsh images but they're harsh on purpose, for when the mind
gets fixated on a sensual pleasure it doesn't want to listen to anybody. It's
not going to be swayed by soft, gentle images. You have to keep reminding yourself
in strong terms that if you really look at sensual pleasures, there's nothing
much: no true gratification and a lot of true danger.
I once had a dream that
depicted the sensual realm as nothing more than two types of people: dreamers
and criminals. Some people sit around dreaming about what they'd like, while others
decide that they won't take no for an answer, they're going to get what they want
even if they have to get violent. It's a very unpleasant world to be in. That's
the way the sensual realm really is, but we tend to forget because we're so wrapped
up in our dreams, wrapped up in our desires, that we don't look at the reality
of what we do in the process of our dreaming, what we do in the process of trying
to get what we want.
So learn to reflect often on these things. This is one
of the reasons why your determination should start out with discernment. You have
to use discernment all the way along the path to remind yourself that the lesser
pleasures really are lesser. They're not worth the effort and especially not worth
what you're giving up in terms of a larger pleasure, a larger happiness, a larger
wellbeing.
The fourth and final element in a proper determination is peace.
You try to keep the mind calm in the course of working toward your goal. Don't
get worked up over the difficulties, don't get worked up over the things you're
having to give up, don't get worked up about how much time you've already spent
on the path and how much remains to be covered. Focus calmly on the step right
ahead of you and try to keep an even temper throughout.
The second meaning
of peace here is that once you've reached the goal there should be a steady element
of calm. If you've reached the goal and the mind is still all stirred up, it's
a sign that you chose the wrong goal. There should be a deeper pacification, a
deeper calmness that sets in once you've attained the goal.
As the Buddha
said, it's normal that while you're working toward a goal there's going to be
certain amount of dissatisfaction. You want something but you're not there yet.
Some people advise that, in order to get rid of that dissatisfaction, you should
just lower your standards. Don't have goals. But that's really selling yourself
short, and it's a very unskillful way of getting rid of that sense of dissatisfaction.
The skillful way is to do what has to be done, step by step, to arrive at the
goal, to get what you want. Then the dissatisfaction is replaced, if it's a proper
goal, by peace.
So, as you look at the goals in your meditation, in your life,
try to keep these four qualities in mind: discernment, truthfulness, relinquishment,
and peace. Be discerning in your choice of a goal and the path that you're going
to follow to get there. Once you've made up your mind that it's a wise goal, be
true to your determination; don't be a traitor to it. Be willing to give up the
lesser pleasures that get in the way, and try to keep your mind on an even keel
as you work toward your goal. That way you find that you stretch yourself -- not
to the point of breaking, but in ways that allow you to grow.
As you learn
to push yourself a little bit more, a little bit more, a little bit more than
you thought possible, you find that each little bit becomes quite a lot. It all
adds up, and you find that the practice can take you to places that you otherwise
wouldn't have imagined.
The Dignity of Restraint
September, 2001
It's
always interesting to notice which words disappear from common usage. We have
them in our passive vocabulary, we know their meaning, but they tend to disappear
from day-to-day conversation -- which usually means that they've disappeared from
the way we shape our lives. Several years back I gave a Dhamma talk in which I
happened to mention the word "dignity." After the talk, a woman in the
audience who had emigrated from Russia came to me and said that she had never
heard Americans use the word "dignity" before. She had learned it when
she studied English over in Russia, but she never heard people use it here. And
it's good to think about why. Where and why did it disappear?
I think the
reason is related to another word that tends to disappear from common usage, and
that's "restraint": foregoing certain pleasures, not because we have
to, but because they go against our principles. The opportunity to indulge in
those pleasures may be there, but we learn how to say No. This of course is related
to another word we tend not to use, and that's "temptation." Even though
we don't have to believe that there's someone out there actively tempting us,
there are things all around us that do, that tempt us to give in to our desires.
And an important part of our practice is that we exercise restraint. As the Buddha
says, restraint over the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, and body is good, as is restraint
in terms of our actions, our speech, and our thoughts.
What's good about it?
Well, for one thing, if we don't have any restraint, we don't have any control
over where our lives are going. Anything that comes across our way immediately
pulls us in its wake. We don't have any strong sense of priorities, of what's
really worthwhile, of what's not worthwhile, of the pleasures we'd gain by saying
No to other pleasures. How do we rank the pleasures in our lives, the happiness,
the sense of wellbeing that we get in various ways? Actually, there's a sense
of wellbeing that comes from being totally independent, from not needing other
things. If that state of wellbeing doesn't have a chance to develop, if we're
constantly giving in to our impulse to do this or take that, we'll never know
what that wellbeing is.
At the same time, we'll never know our impulses. When
you simply ride with your impulses, you don't understand their force. They're
like the currents below the surface of a river: Only if you try to build a dam
across the river will you detect those currents and appreciate how strong they
are. So we have to look at what's important in life, develop a strong sense of
priorities, and be willing to say No to the currents that would lead to less worthwhile
pleasures. As the Buddha said, if you see a greater pleasure that comes from forsaking
a lesser pleasure, well, be willing to forsake that lesser pleasure for the sake
of the greater one.
Sounds like a no-brainer, but if you look at the way most
people live, they don't think in those terms. They want everything that comes
their way. They want to have their cake and enlightenment too, to win at chess
without sacrificing a single pawn. Even when they meditate, their purpose in developing
mindfulness is for the sake of an even more intense appreciation of the experience
of every moment in life. That's something you never see in the Buddha's teachings,
though. His theme is always that you have to let go of this in order to gain that,
give this up in order to arrive at that. There's always a trade-off.
So we're
not practicing for a more intense appreciation of sights, scents, sounds tastes,
smells, tactile sensations. We're practicing to realize that the mind doesn't
need to depend on those things, and that it's healthier without that dependency.
Even though the body requires a modicum of the requisites of food, clothing, shelter,
and medicine, there's an awful lot that it doesn't need. And because our use of
the requisites involves suffering, both for ourselves and for everyone else involved
in their production, we owe it to ourselves and to others to keep pushing the
envelope in the direction of restraint, to give up the things we don't need, so
as to be as unburdensome as possible.
This is why so much of the training
lies in learning to put this aside, put that aside, give this up, give that up.
Developing this habit on the external level makes us reflect on the internal level:
What attachments in the mind would be good to give up? Could our mind survive
perfectly well without the things we tend to crave? The Buddha's answer is Yes.
In fact, it's better off that way.
Still, a very strong part of our mind resists
that teaching. We may give up things for a certain while, but our attitude is
often, "I gave up this for a certain while, I gave up that for so long, now
I can get back to it." That's a typical pattern. Like with the Rains retreat
that's winding down right now: People tend to make a lot of vows -- "Well,
I'll give up cigarettes for the Rains, I'll give up newspapers for the Rains"
-- but as soon as the Rains is over they go back to their old ways. They've missed
the whole point, which is that if you can survive for three months without those
things, you can probably survive for the rest of the year without them as well.
Hopefully during those three months you've seen the advantages of giving them
up. So you can decide, "Okay, I'm going to continue giving them up."
Even though you may have the opportunity to say Yes to your desires, you remind
yourself to say No.
This principle of restraint, of giving things up, applies
to every step of the path. When you're practicing generosity you have to give
up things that you might enjoy. You realize the benefits that come from saying
No to your greed and allowing other people to enjoy what you're giving away. For
example, when you're living in a group there's food to be shared by all. If you
give up some of your share so others can enjoy a bigger share, you're creating
a better atmosphere in the group. So you have to ask yourself, "Is the gratification
I get from taking this thing worth the trade?" And you begin to see the advantages
of giving up on this level. This is where dignity begins to come back into our
lives: We're not just digestive tracts. We're not slaves to our desires. We're
their masters.
The same with the precepts: There may be things that you'd
like to do or say, but you don't do them, you don't say them because they're dishonest
or hurtful. Even if you feel that you might get ahead or gain some advantage by
saying them, you don't say them because they go against your principles. You find
that you don't stoop to the activities that you used to, and there's a sense of
honor, a sense of dignity that comes with that: that you can't be bought off with
those particular pleasures, with the temptation to take the easy way out. At the
same time, you're showing respect for the dignity, the worth, of those around
you. And again, this gives dignity to our lives.
When you're meditating, the
same process holds. People sometimes wonder why they can't get their minds to
concentrate. It's because they're not willing to give up other interests, even
for the time being. A thought comes and you just go right after it without checking
to see where it's going. This idea comes, that sounds interesting, that looks
intriguing, you've got a whole hour to think about whatever you want. If that's
your attitude toward the meditation time, nothing's going to get accomplished.
You have to realize that this is your opportunity to get the mind stable and
still. In order to do that, you have to give up all kinds of other thoughts. Thoughts
about the past, thoughts about the future, figuring this out, planning for that,
whatever: You have to put them all aside. No matter how wonderful or sophisticated
those thoughts are, you just say No to them.
Now if you've been practicing
generosity and have really been serious about practicing the precepts, you've
developed the ability to say No skillfully, which is why generosity and the precepts
are not optional parts of the practice. They're your foundation for the meditation.
When you've made a practice of generosity and virtue, the mind's ability to say
No to its impulses has been strengthened and given finesse. You've seen the good
results that come from being able to restrain yourself in terms of your words
and deeds. You've seen that restraint means the opposite of deprivation. Now,
as you meditate, you've got the opportunity to restrain your thoughts and see
what good comes from that. If you really are able to say No to your vagrant ideas,
you find that the mind can settle down with a much greater sense of satisfaction
in its state of concentration than could possibly come with those ideas, no matter
how fantastic they are.
You find that the satisfaction of giving in to those
distractions just slips through your fingers as if it were never there. It's like
trying to grab a handful of water or a fistful of air. But the sense of wellbeing
that comes with being able to repeatedly bring your mind to a state of stillness,
even if you haven't gone all the way, begins to permeate everything else in your
life. You find that the mind really is a more independent thing than you imagined
it could be. It doesn't need to give in to those impulses. It can say No to itself.
Even more so when you develop the discernment that's able to dig out the source
of those impulses to see where they come from, to the point where the whole issue
of temptation is no longer an issue because there's nothing tempting. You look
at the things that would pull the mind out of its stillness, out of its independence,
and you realize they're just not worth it. In the past you were training the mind
in a sense of hunger -- that's what we do when we keep giving in to impulses:
We're training ourselves in hunger. But now you train the mind in the direction
of having enough, of being free, and you realize that the sense of hunger that
you used to cultivate is really a major source of suffering. You're much better
off without it.
It's important that we realize the role that restraint plays
in overcoming the problem of suffering and finding true wellbeing for ourselves.
You realize that you're not giving up anything you really need. You're a lot better
without it. There's a part of the mind that resists this truth, and our culture
hasn't been very helpful at all because it encourages that resistance: "Give
in to this impulse, give in to that impulse, obey your thirst. It's good for the
economy, it's good for you spiritually. Watch out, if you repress your desires
you're going to get tied up in psychological knots." The lessons our culture
teaches us -- to go out and buy, buy, buy, be greedy, be greedy, give in, give
in -- are all over the place. And what kind of dignity comes from following those
messages? The dignity of fish gobbling down bait. We've got to unlearn those habits,
unlearn those messages, if we want to revive words like dignity and restraint,
and to reap the rewards that the realities of dignity and restraint have to offer
our minds.
Fears
April, 2003
We're afraid of so many things. There's
so much fear in our lives. And yet the texts don't treat fear all that much, largely
because there are many different kinds of fear -- fear associated with greed,
fear associated with anger, fear associated with delusion -- and the texts focus
more on the emotions behind the fears than on the fears themselves. The implication
here is that if you want to understand your fears, you have to understand the
emotions behind them. You have to analyze fear not as a single, solid thing, but
as a compound of many different factors, to see which part of the fear is dependent
on the greed or passion, which part is dependent on the aversion, and which part
is dependent on the delusion. Then, when you've taken care of the underlying emotions,
you've taken care of the fear.
If there's greed for something, or passion
for something, there's the fear that you're not going to get it, or the fear that
once you have got it you're going to be deprived of it.
Then there's fear
based on anger. You know that if a certain thing happens it's going to hurt, you're
going to suffer. You're averse to it, so you're afraid of it.
And then there's
the whole area of delusion, of what you don't know, of the great unknown out there.
Fear based on delusion can range anywhere from fear of a ghost in the next room,
or a strange person in this room, to general existential angst: a sense that something
is required of you and you don't know what it is. Human experience seems like
such a huge void, something very alien. There's the big sense of fear that there
may not be any meaning or purpose to life, that it's just pointless suffering.
So you have to divide out the different kinds of fear, because you need to
work not so much on the fear as on its root. Unless you dig down to the different
factors, you won't know what kind of fear it is. You won't be able to get to its
root causes.
Now, fear is complicated by the fact that it's such a physical
emotion. When fear arises there are all kinds of reactions in the body. The heartbeat
speeds up, the stomach juices get churning, and we often confuse the physical
reactions for the mental state. In other words, a single flash of fear floods
the mind and then recedes, but it sets into motion a huge series of physical reactions
that sometimes will take a long time to settle down. And because they don't settle
down right away, there's a sense that "I must still be afraid because here
are all the physical symptoms of fear." So the first thing in dealing with
fear, especially strong fear like this, is to separate the mental state from the
physical state.
Some people say they have no trouble reasoning themselves
out of the fear, but find that they're still afraid. That may be based on a misunderstanding,
on mistaking the physical symptoms of fear for the actual mental state. We have
to separate the physical side of the fear from the mental state, because if you're
reasoning through the issue, the actual fear itself may be at bay. What seems
to live on, or seems to be unwilling to go away, is the physical side, and of
course it takes a while to go away because of the hormones churned up in your
blood stream. It's going to take a while for them to wash out. So your first line
of defense is to learn to know when there actually is fear in the mind and when
there's no fear in the mind, even though there may be the signs of fear in the
body. When you can make this distinction, you don't feel so overwhelmed by the
emotion. You breathe as best you can through the physical manifestations of fear,
the tension, the feelings that come with that shortened breath or the constricted
breath that result from the fear. Then consciously expand that sensation of physical
relief and open it up to counteract the fear's physical symptoms.
At the same
time, ask yourself, "Exactly what is this fear?" "What's being
threatened?" "Where do you feel weak?" "What is the danger?"
Learn to take the reasons for the fear apart, because a lot of the fear lies in
the confusion. You don't know exactly what you're afraid of, or you don't know
exactly what to do. All the avenues seem closed and you can't analyze what's going
on. And that multiplies the fear.
So you have to sit down, if you have the
chance to sit down, or at least mentally make a note: "What is this fear?
Exactly what sparked it?" Learn to look at the fear not as something that
you're feeling but something that's simply there. And try to look at why it keeps
shouting at you over and over and over in the brain.
Some fears are neurotic.
They're based on gross delusion and they're relatively easy to deal with. Those
are the ones that psychotherapists can handle. You had a really bad experience
as a child and you've instinctively been avoiding that particular issue, that
particular feeling, ever since, but it's gotten to the point where it's totally
unrealistic. And because the fear is unrealistic, the treatment is to simply look
at the situation for what it really is. You confront it, you try not to avoid
it, but actually put yourself into circumstances that will bring up that fear
again and watch the disjunction between the fear and the reality. You learn that
the reality was not as bad as you thought it would be. As this disjunction grows
clearer, the fear gets calmer, weaker, more and more manageable. That's how you
handle neurotic fear.
Realistic fears require deeper practice. One of the
members of our community lost her mother in a war, came to the States, and became
a psychotherapist. As part of her training she had to undergo psychotherapy. After
a couple of years of psychotherapy, the therapist said, "It looks like your
fears are very realistic. There's nothing I can do for you." This is where
Dhamma practice comes in: facing our realistic fears, our fears of aging, illness,
separation, and death. These things are real and they do cause suffering -- if
you don't work your way down into exactly where your attachments are. This is
precisely the Buddhist take on fear: It comes from clinging and attachment. And
the clinging is threatened by impermanence, by stress and suffering, by the fact
that these things are beyond your control. The purpose of our training here is
to learn how not to let our happiness be based on things beyond our control, because
as long as we entrust our happiness to them, we're setting ourselves up for suffering,
setting ourselves up for fear.
This is how the meditation in and of itself
is a way of dealing with the fears -- the deeper fears, the realistic fears. Ask
yourself, "What exactly does my happiness depend on?" Normally, people
will allow their happiness to depend on a whole lot of conditions. And the more
you think about those conditions, the more you realize that they're totally beyond
your control: the economy, the climate, the political situation, the continued
beating of certain hearts, the stability of the ground beneath your feet, all
of which are very uncertain. So what do you do? You learn to look inside. Try
to create a sense of wellbeing that can come simply with being with the breath.
Even though this isn't the total cure, it's the path toward the cure. You learn
to develop a happiness less and less dependent on things outside, and more and
more inward, something more under your control, something you can manage better.
And as you work on this happiness you find that it's not a second best. It actually
is better than the kind of happiness that was dependent on things outside. It's
much more gratifying, more stable. It permeates much more deeply into the mind.
In fact, it allows the mind to open up, because for most of us the mind jumps
around like a cat. Wherever it lands, it's always going to stay tense, for it
knows it has to be ready to jump again at any moment. But when you find something
you can stay with for long periods of time, the mind can allow itself to relax.
When it knows that it won't have to jump anytime soon, it can soften up a bit.
When it softens up you find it easier to know the mind in and of itself: what
it's like, where its attachments are, where it's still clinging. That allows you
to go deeper still.
And we find that our ultimate fear is fear of death, which
is an extremely realistic fear. It's going to happen for sure, and for most of
us it's a huge mystery. This is where the solution has to lie in the meditation,
for only meditation can take you to something beyond death, beyond space and time.
Death is something that happens within space and time, but there is something
that can be experienced outside of those dimensions. That's what we're looking
for.
As the texts say, there are four reasons why people fear death. One,
they're attached to their bodies -- they know they're going to lose their bodies
at death. Two, they're attached to sensory pleasures -- they know they're going
to lose them at death. These two types of fear are based on passion: passion for
the body, passion for our sensual appetites. The third type of fear is based on
aversion, when people know that they have done cruel things in the past and that
they may have to face punishment for those cruel things after death. The fourth
type of fear is based on delusion, when people are uncertain about the true Dhamma:
"Was the Buddha right? Is there really a Deathless?" As long as you
don't know these things directly for yourself, there's always going to be an uncertainty,
a large amount of ignorance and delusion surrounding death, creating fear.
The
whole purpose of the practice is to counteract these causes for fear, so that
you aren't dependent on the body, you don't have to cling to the body for your
happiness, you don't have to cling to sensory pleasures for your happiness, you
train yourself to do good things, and you reach the point where you taste the
Deathless and know for sure that you're on the right path to the right goal.
To
do this you have to take apart the basic building blocks of experience, as you
encounter them in concentration: form, feeling, perceptions, thought-fabrications,
and consciousness. You look to see where these things are inconstant. Where they're
inconstant, you realize they're stressful. There's stress right there in the inconstancy.
Then when you look at stress, look at suffering -- although at this level it's
more stress than suffering -- you ask yourself, "What am I doing to cause
that stress, to aggravate that stress? What activities are accompanying the stress?"
You look for the cause, and it's right there in your intentional actions.
When
you can take those intentions apart, things open up. Once they open up, you realize
that you've come to something totally different, a totally different dimension,
outside of space and time. And you realize that death can't touch that. Only with
that direct experience can you say that you've overcome your fear of death. The
only fear you're left with is the fear you might have lapses of mindfulness where
you might do something unskillful. So there is still work to be done. At the very
least, though, in the gross sense of the five precepts, you wouldn't intentionally
do anything unskillful.
So this is how the meditation deals with fear. It
breaks the fear down into other emotions, looking for the underlying causes in
terms of the greed, passion, anger, and delusion that give rise to the fear and
keep it going. At the same time, the meditation points directly at the way we
pin our hopes for happiness on undependable things, and opens the way for us to
pin our hopes, not on something changeable or out of our control, but on a dimension
beyond the reach of things that could harm it. So the cure for fear is not just
a matter of talking yourself out of it, but of putting yourself in a position
of strength, where there really is no danger, nothing to fear.
So these are
a few thoughts on dealing with the emotion of fear as it comes.
-- Learn to
separate the physical from the mental side, so you don't misunderstand what's
happening in the body, so it doesn't stir up more confusion in the mind.
--
Learn how to focus directly on the mind, to see exactly what the problem is, where
the sense of weakness is, where the clinging is, because wherever there's clinging
there's weakness. And that's what constitutes fear.
-- Then look to see if
that danger is realistic. If it's not, there's one way of dealing with it; if
it's realistic, there's another deeper way of dealing with it.
This way you
find you can not only get a handle on your fear or learn to cope with fear but
ultimately put yourself in a position where there truly is nothing to fear. And
that's what makes this practice so special. Freud once said that the purpose of
psychotherapy is to take people out of their neurotic suffering and leave them
with the ordinary miseries of daily life. The Dhamma, however, takes you from
the ordinary miseries of human life and leads you beyond, to a dimension where
there is no misery, no suffering, at all. It deals not only with unrealistic fears
or fears that are way out of proportion, but also with the fears that are genuinely
realistic and well founded. It can take you beyond even those to a point where,
in all reality, there is nothing to fear.
Skills to Take with You
November
12, 1996
When we come out to the monastery like this, we come to a place cut
off from human society -- not totally cut off, because there are other human beings
here, but it's a different kind of society: a society where the bottom line is
the practice, the growth of the mind, the growth of the heart, the development
of mindfulness, concentration, and discernment. That's not the bottom line in
the world at large, but it is the bottom line here, because the mind needs this
kind of environment to develop its best qualities. When we live in the world we
tend to pick up the values of the world -- and what do those values say? They
say it doesn't matter what you do as long as you succeed, as long as you get ahead,
as long as you get money. That's the important thing. People try to dress these
values up to sound a little better than that, but that's basically what they come
down to. And when you live with people who hold to these values and you don't
have a good solid basis within yourself to withstand that kind of thinking, you've
got to give in. You tend to follow along with them whether you like it or not.
But the Buddha teaches us that true happiness isn't found that way. He says
that true happiness comes from developing good qualities in the mind. It has nothing
to do with money, nothing to do with status, nothing to do with the opinions of
other people. It's something totally inner, and it has to come from inner goodness.
This is revolutionary, because the world tells you if you want to get ahead you
have to develop all sorts of qualities you can't really be proud of: the qualities
you need to stab people in the back, make a quick buck, take advantage of other
peoples' weaknesses. But the Buddha says that true happiness requires you to develop
things like persistence, perseverance, endurance, integrity, mindfulness, kindness,
reliability. These are things you can be proud to develop. There's a dignity to
the practice that you don't find in the world outside. But if you're living in
a worldly environment, what the Buddha says sounds like a dream, lots of nice
ideas but not all that realistic. That's why you need places like this where the
values that the Buddha teaches are realistic. It's what life here at the monastery
is all about.
So being here gives the mind a chance to develop these qualities
and to see that they really do lead to happiness. They really are important, much
more so than the things the world holds to be important. This is why physical
seclusion is so essential. You get in touch with yourself out here. You get in
touch with what's really important in your life. The issues of birth, aging, illness,
and death become very large out here. In the world -- the ordinary world -- these
issues get shunted aside. People don't have time for them, and so when aging,
illness, and death do hit, it's like a big surprise. The mind isn't prepared.
People get blown away even though everyone knows, deep down inside, that these
things have to happen. Yet when you live in a society that doesn't give you time
to look at these things, to reflect on them, and to prepare for them, you really
get knocked to pieces when they come. So you need a chance to get out and look
at what's really important in your life and how you're going to prepare for these
things.
That's what the meditation is all about -- developing a good solid
basis in the mind that can withstand these things when they come. The image the
Buddha gives for this basis is of a stone column, eight cubits long. Four cubits
are buried down in the ground in a good solid mountain. Four cubits are above
ground. When the wind comes, the column doesn't shake at all. It doesn't even
shiver. No matter how strong the wind, no matter which direction it's coming from,
the stone column stays put. That's the kind of mental state you need in order
to withstand these things -- and that's what you develop in the course of the
meditation.
Then, as we all know, it's important that you don't cultivate
this skill only while you're here, this place of physical solitude, but that you
also take this skill back with you. Many times people come to the monastery and
say that it's such a relief for the mind to be out here and they'd like to take
that state of mind with them when they go back. Well, you can't take a state of
mind like that with you. It's a result. What you can take back is the skill, the
cause of that state of mind. It's not just the environment that allows it to develop.
People can come out here and still have their minds a total mess. What makes the
difference is that you learn how to make use of the environment to develop the
skills you need to straighten out things inside. The skills are the things you
can take back with you when you go home -- the skillful attitudes, the skillful
approaches to bringing the mind under control, giving it a sense of stability
inside. These are the important parts of the practice that train the mind to stand
on its own two feet.
When you ask yourself, "Where is the best place
to meditate?", your answer should be, "Right here, wherever you are.
That's the best place." That's the ideal. But as you're getting started,
you're like a child learning to ride a bicycle -- you need training wheels, you
need help. You can't just jump on the bicycle and ride off with a perfect sense
of balance. You use the training wheels, you use the community, you use the peaceful
environment to help get the mind in the proper attitude. Then you try to develop
your own skills so that when the training wheels are taken away, you can ride
with ease and won't fall over.
What are some of these skills? The most basic
one is just learning to focus the mind on one thing and to withstand any temptation
to let it go. This is an important skill you need whatever your work is. If you
can concentrate on your work and don't let the distractions get in your way, work
gets done and it gets done properly. It's a solid piece of work, and not just
little bits and pieces that happen to be thrown together, because there's a continuity.
And when you learn how to focus on one thing like this, when you focus in on the
breath, it changes your attitude toward the other thoughts that come into the
mind. If the mind doesn't have a particular focus, it can wander around from thought
to thought, not really noticing what it's doing, and not having a sense of direction.
It gets lost going in the wrong direction, because every direction is just the
direction where it's flowing.
But when you give it something to hold onto,
you have a sense of direction. Then you can see how some things pull you away
and some things pull you back. It's like the difference of being on the earth
and being out in outer space. When you're on the earth, there's a definite sense
of orientation -- there's north, south, east, and west. You've got the earth as
your reference point. But if you're out in outer space, you don't know which way
is up, which way is down, north, south, east, west -- they have no meaning out
there. And the mind is just adrift in the stellar currents. But when you're on
the earth, when you've got a good basis, then you have a sense that, "This
way is north, this way is south." You have a sense of the direction you want
to go, and you know when you're heading in that direction and when you're not.
That's why it's crucial to have a center for the mind. But to maintain that
center, you have to enjoy it. If you don't, it simply becomes one more burden
to carry in addition to your other burdens, and the mind will keep dropping it
when your other burdens get heavy. This is why we spend so much time working on
the skill of playing with the breath, making it comfortable, making it gratifying,
making it fill your body with a sense of ease. When you have that kind of inner
nourishment to feed on, you're less hungry for things outside. You don't need
to feed on the words and actions of other people. You don't have to look for your
happiness there. When you can develop a sense of inner fullness simply by the
way you breathe, the mind can stay nourished no matter what the situation. You
can sit in a boring meeting and yet be blissing out -- and nobody else has to
know. You can watch all the good and bad events around you with a sense of detachment
because you have no need to feed on them. It's not that you're indifferent or
apathetic, simply that your happiness doesn't have to go up and down with the
ups and downs of your life. You're not in a position where people can manipulate
you, for you're not trying to feed on what they have to offer you. You've got
your own source of food inside.
At the same time, when you have an inner center
like this to hold onto, you develop a sense of dissociation from the thoughts
that arise within the mind. You realize -- when you're focused on the breath and
a thought comes into the mind -- it's not necessarily you thinking or your thought,
and you're not necessarily responsible for it. You don't have to follow it and
check it out or straighten it out. If it comes in half-formed, just let it go
away half-formed. You don't have to be responsible for it.
This is another
important skill, because if you can learn to step back from the thoughts and emotions
that come into the mind and not say that this is my thought or this is my emotion,
then you can really choose which ones are worth holding onto, which ones should
be explored, and which ones should be let go, that you don't have to deal with
at all. Some people may say that that's irresponsible, that you've got to check
everything out. "Well, that's just what they say. What do they know?":
That's the kind of attitude you have to develop.
As the Buddha said, his own
practice really got started in the right direction when he divided his thoughts
into two types: skillful and unskillful. What this means is having the ability
to step back from your thoughts and look at them not in terms of their content,
but in terms of where they take you. If you have thoughts motivated by greed,
anger, delusion, passion, aversion, confusion, boredom -- where do they take you?
Well, they don't take you to nibbana, that's for sure. They don't take you where
you want to go, so you decide to dissociate from them. You don't deny that they
exist, for that would just drive them underground. You admit their existence but
you realize that you don't have to follow them. You can let them go, and they
pass away from the mind. Meanwhile, you latch onto more skillful thinking -- either
that, or you learn how to let go of thoughts and just keep the mind still where
it doesn't have to think. This is where you gain a sense that you're more in control
of your mind, that you're not subject to everything that comes passing through.
Most people's minds are like bus stations. Everyone who wants to go through
the bus station has the right to do so. And they can do all kinds of weird things
while they're there in the bus station: mugging people, having sex in the restroom
stalls, shooting up heroin back in the dark corners. That's what most peoples'
minds are like. You've got to make up your mind to turn your mind into a home,
a place where you have the right to let thoughts in or not let them in, as you
like -- or let them just go passing on. You can close the windows and doors and
let in only your friends. You're more in control. And when you have a home like
that, you can settle down and be at ease and at peace at home, at ease and at
peace with your own mind. So this is an important skill to take with you wherever
you go. It's not a skill that you use only while you're sitting here with your
eyes closed.
One of the essential techniques you need in this skill is the
ability to breathe through your thoughts, because when thoughts come heavy --
when they come really strong -- they don't just affect the mind. They affect the
body as well. That's why when anger comes you have a strong sense that you have
to get it out of your system because it's gotten into the body, into the way you
breathe, into the patterns of tension in the body. It builds up and gets hard
to bear, so you feel you've got to get it out. Most people think that the way
to get it out is to say something or do something under the power of the anger,
but that doesn't solve anything at all. When we're with our breathing practice,
we learn how breathe through that pattern of tension in the chest or the belly
and let it disperse throughout the body. Once it's dispersed it loses its power.
You feel less oppressed by it. Then you can look at the situation from a calm
vantage point and decide what should be done. Do you have to say something? Is
this the best time to say it, or is it best left unsaid? How will people react
if you talk now? Should you wait till a later time? You can gauge these things
clearly, which you can't do when you've got a sense of weightiness or oppression
from the anger inside the body. So you breathe through the patterns of tension
in the body. It's an important skill you use not only while you're here, but also
while you're out working, while you're dealing with your family, whatever you're
doing in the world at large.
It's important to realize that the skills of
meditation are for use not only while you're on the cushion or sitting with your
legs crossed and your eyes closed. They're basic skills for governing your own
mind, looking after your own mind, administering the ways your mind works, whether
you're sitting with your eyes closed or open, whether you're alone or dealing
with people, because it's the same mind. The defilements that arise in the course
of your practice and the defilements that arise in the course of daily life are
basically the same defilements. Sometimes in society the defilements appear more
unexpectedly, with more force and a greater sense of urgency, but they come down
to the same thing -- if an unskillful state arises in the mind and you treat it
unskillfully, then you just go wherever it leads you. But if you learn how to
deal skillfully even with the unskillful things that come -- to deal skillfully
with feelings of passion, feelings of anger, your own misunderstandings -- you
can take the raw material of life and turn it into something fine.
As Ajaan
Lee once said, "A person with intelligence takes whatever gets sent his or
her way and makes something good out of it." This is the attitude you've
got to adopt because we live a life full of the power of kamma -- old kamma and
new. You can't do anything about old kamma. You have to accept it like a good
sport. That's why you practice equanimity. But as for the new kamma you're creating
right now, you can't practice equanimity with that. You have to be very concerned
about what you're putting into the system because you realize that this is the
only chance you get to make the choice. Once the choice is made and it gets put
into the system, then whatever the energy -- positive or negative -- that's the
sort of energy you're going to have to experience.
So pay attention: What
are you putting into the system right now? This is the important thing to focus
on. Whatever other people do to you, whatever arises in your body in terms of
pains, illnesses, aging, death, or whatever: That's old kamma that you simply
have to learn to take with good humor, with a sense of equanimity. As for what
you're putting into the system right now, that's serious business. That's where
your attention and efforts should be focused.
So the skills you pick up from
the Buddha's teachings are not just techniques for silent meditation. They're
skillful attitudes, skillful approaches you develop to what's important in life.
You want to approach life as a skill, to realize that there is always the possibility
of doing things skillfully. You may not have perfected it, but you don't beat
yourself for not having the perfect response to every situation. You realize that
there's always the opportunity to learn. You make mistakes, you learn from them.
This is a normal part of life, and a wise way of living is to learn from your
mistakes and resolve not to repeat them. Learn from what you've done. Notice when
you do things correctly, notice when you make mistakes, and take that information
to adjust your patterns of behavior.
Some people come to the practice and
say, "Well, this is the kind of person I am. I've just got to be this way."
That attitude closes the door on the practice entirely. You start from where you
are, but you have to be willing to change. If people couldn't change, if they
had to stay the way they are, the Buddha's teaching would be in vain. There would
be no reason to have the teachings because they're all about transformation. They're
all about learning, developing, changing the way you approach life. From the Buddhist
point of view, "accepting yourself" means not only admitting where you
are, but also accepting that you have the potential to change. As your approach
becomes more and more skillful, you're doing less and less harm to yourself, less
harm to others, less harm to both. You find that you live in a way that brings
more benefits for yourself, more benefits for others, more benefits for both.
It may take more energy, more attention, but it's a much more worthwhile way of
living.
It's like being an expert carpenter. You've got various ways of approaching
the problems that arise in the mind. You realize that there are all kinds of problems
and there are many ways of dealing with them. If you try just one approach, it's
like having a tool box full of nothing but saws. You can't build anything with
that. You can't be called a decent carpenter at all. But when you realize that
there are ways of dealing with different situations that arise, and, through your
own powers of observation, you discover which ways work for you, which ways get
the right results for you: That's called having a full tool box, with a wide range
of tools. And when you have those tools at hand, you can stay anywhere. You can
stay in a monastery, you can stay in a hospital, you can stay at work, at home,
in this country, in another country, this world, the next world, this life, the
next. The tools stay with you once you've developed them.
So focus on the
practice as a way of collecting tools, developing skills, both in terms of techniques
in the meditation and whole attitudes toward your life. That's the most worthwhile
use of your time. Those are the best things to take with you when you go.
Maintenance Work
December, 2002
Get your body into position. Sit straight,
hands on your lap. Close your eyes.
Get your mind in position. Think about
the breath and be aware of the sensation of the breathing.
See? It's not all
that hard. Just doing it is not the hard part. The hard part is the maintaining:
keeping it there. That's because the mind isn't used to staying in position, just
as the body isn't used to staying in position. But the mind tends to move a lot
faster and to be a lot more fickle than the body, which is why we have to work
extra hard at that really hard aspect of the training: keeping the mind in one
place, maintaining it in concentration.
Ajaan Lee once said there are three
steps in concentration practice: doing, maintaining, and then using the concentration.
The using is fun. Once the mind has settled down, you can use it as a basis for
understanding things. You suddenly see the motions of the mind as it creates thoughts,
and it's a fascinating process to watch, to take apart.
The maintaining, though,
isn't all that fascinating. You learn a lot of good lessons about the mind in
the course of maintaining, and without those lessons you couldn't do the more
refined work of gaining insight. But still, it's the most difficult part of the
practice. Ajaan Lee once compared it to putting a bridge across a river. The pilings
on this bank and that bank aren't hard to place, but the pilings in the middle
are really hard. You've got to withstand the current of the river. You dig down
and put a few stones on the bottom of the river and you come back with your next
load of stones only to discover that the first load of stones has washed away.
This is why you need techniques for getting that middle set of pilings to stay
in place, for otherwise the bridge will never get across the river at all.
So
this is what we work at. In the beginning, the work is simply a question of noticing
when the mind has slipped off and bringing it back. When it's slipped off again,
you bring it back again. And again. And again. But if you're observant, you become
sensitive to the signs that tell you when the mind is about to slip off. It hasn't
gone yet but it's getting ready to go. It's tensed up and ready to jump. When
you can sense that tension, you simply relax it. Meticulously. And that way you
can keep the mind more and more consistently with the breath.
Be especially
careful not to ask where the mind was going to jump. You can't give into that
temptation. Sometimes the mind is getting ready to jump off to something and you
wonder, "Where is it going? Anyplace interesting?" Or when a thought
begins to form: It's just a vague, inchoate sense of a thought, and the mind puts
a label on it. Then you want to see, "Does this label really fit?" And
that means you're fully entangled. If you look more carefully at the process of
what's happening, you begin to realize that whether the label fits or not, the
mind has a tendency to make it fit. So it's not a question of whether it's a true
label or not, but whether you want to follow through with that process of making
it fit. And you don't have to. You notice a little stirring in the mind, and you
don't have to label it. Or if you've labeled it, you don't have to ask whether
the label is true or not. Just let it go. That way the stirring can disband.
Now,
when the mind finally does settle down, in the beginning there can be a sense
of rapture, a sense of accomplishment, that you've finally gotten the mind to
stay with the breath for long periods of time, for longer and longer periods of
time. It feels really refreshing to be there. Then you make it a game, seeing
how quickly you can get there, how often you can get there, what other activities
you can be doing at the same time. However -- and I don't want to spoil it for
you -- there comes a time when this gets boring, too.
It's boring, though,
only because you lose perspective. Everything seems so calm, everything seems
so settled, and there's a part of the mind that gets bored. Oftentimes that's
your first object lesson in insight: Look into the boredom. Why is the mind bored
with a state of calm and ease? After all, the mind is in its most secure place,
its most comfortable place. Why would part of you want to go looking for trouble,
to stir things up? Look into that. There's a chance for insight right there.
Or,
you start telling yourself, "This is really stupid, just sitting here still,
still, calm, calm. This isn't intelligent at all." That's when you have to
remind yourself that you're working on a foundation. The stronger the foundation,
then when the time comes to build a building, the taller it can go, the more stable
it will be. When insights come, you want them to be solid insights. You don't
want them to knock you askew. How can insights knock you askew? You gain an insight
and get so excited about it that you lose perspective, forget to take it and look
on the other side. When an insight comes, Ajaan Lee always recommends turning
it inside out. The insight says, "This must be this." Well, he says,
try thinking about what if it were not this. What if it were the opposite? Would
there be a lesson there as well? In other words, just as you're not supposed to
fall for the content of your thoughts, you're not supposed to fall for the contents
of your insights, either.
That requires really stable concentration, because
many times when the insights come they're very striking, very interesting. A strong
sense of accomplishment comes with them. To keep yourself from getting carried
away by that sense of accomplishment, you want to have your concentration really
solid so that it's not impressed. It's not bowled over. It's ready to look at
the other side of the insight. This is one reason why you need solid concentration,
to work at the steady, steady job of just coming back, staying, staying, keeping
it still, keeping it still.
Then that old question of perception begins coming
up again. The whole perception of your state of mind starts getting questionable.
File that one away for future reference. As the Buddha said, all the states of
concentration, all the states of jhana, up through the state of nothingness, are
perception-attainments. The perception you apply to them is what keeps them going.
And as you stay with a particular level, there starts to be a slight sense of
the artificiality of the corresponding perception. But wait until the concentration
is really solid before you start questioning it, for the perception is what keeps
the state of concentration going -- and it is an artificial state that you're
creating in the mind. When the time comes for insight, one of the topics that
you'll want to focus on is the artificiality of that concept, the artificiality
of the perception that creates the state of concentration you've been living with.
For the time being, though, just file it away for future reference. If you question
things too early, everything gets short-circuited, and you're back to where you
started.
So even though the work of maintaining concentration may seem like
drudgery work -- just coming back, coming back, coming back -- everything depends
on this quality of consistency, of maintenance. Get really good at it, really
familiar with it. The more familiar you are with it, the more easily you can use
it as the basis for insight when the time comes.
There's a passage where the
Buddha talks about a meditator whose mind has attained a really solid stage of
equanimity. When you're solid in your equanimity, you realize that you can apply
it to different things. You can apply it to the sense of infinite space. You can
apply it to the sense of infinite consciousness or nothingness. Once you recognize
precisely where those perceptions are, precisely how you can focus on them and
stay there for long, long times, you'll suddenly gain insight into how constructed
they are.
In the beginning it's very obvious how constructed they are because
you're working so hard to put them together. But as you get more and more familiar
with them, there's a greater sense that you're simply tuning-in to something already
there. You're more impressed by the "already-there-ness" of the state.
You begin to overlook the act of tuning-in because it gets easier and easier,
more and more natural -- but it's still there, the element of construction, the
element of fabrication that keeps you there. When the concentration gets really
solid so that you can look into it even in its most refined state, that's when
the insight really hits you: how constructed this is, how artificial the whole
thing is -- this state you've learned to depend on. And only then is the insight
meaningful.
If you start analyzing states of concentration in terms of the
three characteristics before you've really depended on those states, before you've
really gotten familiar with them, it short-circuits the whole process. "Oh
yes, concentration is unstable." Well, anyone can sit and meditate for two
minutes and learn that, and it doesn't mean very much. But if you develop the
skill so that you're really solidly with it, you test that principle of inconstancy.
How constant can you make this state of the mind? Ultimately, you get to the point
where you realize that you've made it as constant as you could ever make it, as
reliable as you could ever make it, and yet it still falls under the three characteristics.
It's still constructed.
That's when the mind starts tending toward the unconstructed,
the unfabricated. If you've brought the mind to still enough a state of equilibrium,
you can stop fabricating and things open up. It's not just an intention of saying,
"Well, I'm going to put a stop to this." It's a matter of learning how
equilibrium happens without any new intention taking its place. That's where the
real skill lies. That's why we spend so much time getting the mind into balance,
balance, balance, for only in a real state of balance like that can you totally
let go.
Some people have the conception that meditation is about getting the
mind into a really extreme state where things "break through." Bring
it to the total edge of instability and then suddenly you break through to something
deeper. That's what they say. But I've yet to find the Buddha describe it that
way. For him it's more a question of bringing the mind to a state of balance so
that when the time comes to stop fabricating, the mind doesn't tip over in any
direction at all. It's right there.
So these qualities of consistency, persistence,
stick-to-it-ivedness, training the mind so it can really trust itself, depend
on itself, rely on itself in the midst of all the inconstancy in the world: These
are the qualities that make all the difference in the meditation.
Sensitivity
All the Time
November, 2002
Try to be present throughout the whole breath,
each breath, all the way in, all the way out.
We like to think that if we
had it all figured out, we wouldn't have to pay so much attention -- that if there
were some formula we could memorize, that in itself would take care of things
so we wouldn't have to put so much effort into the meditation, put so much effort
into being present. We'd like just to plug into the formula and let things go
on automatic pilot -- but that's missing the point. The point is being attentive,
paying careful attention, being sensitive, all the time.
This is a quality
the Buddha calls citta: intentness, attentiveness, really giving yourself fully
to what you're doing right now. When you're intent, insight comes not as a formula
that allows you to be inattentive, but as a sensitivity to what's going on right
now so you can read what's happening, continually. In other words, you're trying
to strengthen this quality of being attentive, this quality of being present,
because when you're really present you don't need all the other formulas. You
recognize the signs of what's going on: when the breath is too long, when the
breath is too short, when the breath energy in the body is too sluggish, when
it's too active. Being attentive is what enables you to notice these things, to
be sensitive to them, to read what they're telling you.
So the insights you
gain are not necessarily wise sayings that you can write down in little books
of wisdom. Insight is a greater and greater sensitivity to what's going on. Don't
think that you'd like to have things explained beforehand, or to sit here trying
to come up with little rules or memory aids: "Well, when this happens, you
should do this; and then, when that happens, you should do that." You're
trying to develop the quality of being able to listen, able to read what's happening
in the present moment, all the time, so that you won't need those memory aids.
If you're looking for the little formulas or the little nuggets of wisdom
that you can wrap up and take home, in hopes that they'll allow you to drop the
effort that goes into being so attentive, it's like the old story of the goose
laying the golden egg. You get a golden egg and then you kill the goose. That's
the end of the eggs. The goose here is the ability to stay attentive, to be present,
to be fully engaged in what's happening with the breath. The insights will come
on their own -- you keep producing, producing, producing the insights -- not for
the sake of taking home with you, but for the sake of using them right here, right
now. You don't have to be afraid that you're not going to remember them for the
next time. If you're really attentive, your sensitivity will produce the fresh
insights you need next time. It will keep developing, becoming an ability to read
things more and more carefully, more and more precisely, so that you won't have
to memorize insights from the past. It will keep serving them up, hot and fresh.
Like sailing a boat: When you first get out in the boat and they give you
the rudder, it doesn't take long before you flip the boat over because you steer
too hard to the right, steer too hard to the left. You don't have a sense of what's
just right. But if you pay attention to what you're doing, after a while that
sense of "just right" develops. And the next time you get into the boat,
it's not that you have to remember any verbal lessons you learned from the last
time. The sensitivity is there in you: the ability to read how much pressure you
should put on the rudder at this point, ... when this happens, ... when that happens.
There's a greater and greater familiarity that comes from being fully attentive.
The same principle applies here. It's not the case that you're going to be
fully attentive for five minutes and learn whatever lessons you're going to need
for the hour and then just zone out or go on automatic pilot. You have to be as
attentive to the first breath as you are to the last breath, as attentive to the
last breath as you are to the first, and all the breaths in between. As this quality
of attentiveness grows stronger, your sensitivity grows stronger. There's less
and less of a conscious effort, but it doesn't mean that you're less present.
It's just that you're more skilled at being present, more skilled at being sensitive,
ready to learn whatever lessons there are to learn.
Michaelangelo at the age
of 87 reportedly said that he was still learning how to sculpt. Well, that should
be your attitude as you meditate. There are always things to learn. Even arahants
have things to learn. They've learned enough already to overcome their defilements,
but they're still learning other things because they're attentive all the time.
They're watching what's going on. Their sensitivity has been heightened.
When
people talk about the path being identical with the goal, there is an element
of truth there, in the sense that when you reach the goal you don't throw away
all the things you did when you were on the path. The texts say that even arahants
practice the four foundations of mindfulness, not because they have anything more
to do in terms of uprooting their defilements, but because the practice of mindfulness
provides a pleasant abiding in the here and now. It's a good place to be. At the
same time, if they have to teach other people, they use the sensitivities they've
developed in their meditation and apply them to the process of teaching.
So
don't sit here saying, "Well, I'll just stay with the breath until I get
the results I want, and then I can stop this effort." You're working with
the qualities that are going to take you there and that are going to stay with
you once you arrive: the qualities of mindfulness, alertness, discernment -- all
the good qualities we're working on here. You want to bring them more and more
to bear on what you're doing in every situation. They get stronger and stronger,
and they give you the sensitivity you need to cut through any defilements you
encounter. They give you the sensitivity you need to find more stable states of
concentration, to figure out the techniques you need in order to get the mind
to settle down when it's obstreperous.
But again, once you've learned those
lessons, it's not the case that you can turn off the effort to be sensitive, the
effort to be fully engaged. It's just that you learn how to be more and more comfortable
being engaged, so that whatever lessons come up, whatever things you have to read
within yourself, whatever things you have to listen to within yourself, you're
ready to listen. You're alert to the signs that you have to decipher when you
read.
So do what you can to keep this goose alive and well so it can keep
laying the golden eggs you need. You crack open the golden egg and there's a lesson
for you to use right there, right then. You don't have to worry about making a
stockpile of golden eggs, because it's a funny kind of gold, like the gold in
a fairy tale. You turn around, and a few minutes later it's turned into feathers
or straw. But if you're really attentive, the goose is ready to lay another golden
egg. So keep nourishing it, tending to it, so that it can keep producing. Use
the eggs for their intended purpose and then just let them go. Do your best to
keep this mind-state going so that it's ready to lay another egg, to give you
more gold all the time.
The Path of Questions
July, 2001
Let the
mind settle down comfortably on the breath. Don't push it too hard and don't let
it float away. Try to find just the right amount of pressure for staying with
the breath. Let there be just that one question in the mind right now: how heavily
to focus on the breath. Other questions you can put aside, because most of the
other questions you would be focusing on now would simply foster doubt. The questions
dealing with the mind and the breath in the present moment: Those are the ones
that are relevant because you can answer them by looking right here, right now.
The point of our practice is to gain discernment that leads to liberation,
that leads to release. But before we get to that level of discernment we have
to train the discernment we have in every level of the practice.
This morning
we read a passage by Ajaan Lee in which he talks about how generosity, virtue,
and meditation both depend upon discernment and give rise to discernment. In other
words, you have to use your discernment in each of these levels of the practice.
It's not that you have to wait until the very end for discernment to land on you.
You take the discernment you have; you exercise it; it gets stronger. It's just
like exercising your body. If you want a strong body, what do you do? You take
the weak body you've got, exercise it, and it turns into a stronger body, step
by step by step because you're using it. But that also means learning how to exercise
it properly. You don't exercise it too heavily to the point where you pull a tendon
or tear a muscle.
So at each level of the practice there are questions you
want to ask to foster discernment appropriate to that level of the practice. When
you're practicing generosity you have to ask, "What, right now, is just right?
How much can I afford? How much is giving too much? In what way is my gift going
to be most beneficial, most effective? If I don't have much to give in terms of
material things, what else can I give?" The gift of your time and energy,
the gift of forgiveness, can sometimes be many times be more useful than the gift
of material things.
That's the development of skill, insight, and discernment
on the level of generosity. Then, on the level of the precepts, you work up to
a higher level. "How am I going to maintain my precepts in difficult situations?"
Say, when people ask questions that you know are going to be harmful if you answer
them, how are you going to avoid the answer so that you don't lie? Or how are
you going to live in your house so that you don't have to kill pests? Once you've
laid down the law for yourself -- "Okay, these are the principles I'm going
to hold to" -- you suddenly find yourself with a whole new set of questions.
You'll need ingenuity and discernment to answer them. And as you come up with
answers using whatever ingenuity you have, you find that your ingenuity and discernment
get stronger.
The same principle holds with meditation. Each step in your
meditation requires certain questions. You take the questions bit by bit by bit,
step by step and you find that the meditation both requires discernment and strengthens
discernment as you use it. For instance, when you're focusing on the breath, you
ask a simple question: "What kind of breathing feels good right now?"
And then you explore. You're free to experiment with the breath, to find out if
long breathing feels good, if short breathing feels good, deep breathing, shallow...
There's an element of investigation already even in the simple practice of
concentration. It's not that you make the mind really, really still and then,
all of a sudden, discernment's going to go off like a flash bulb. There has to
be some discernment involved in the process of getting the mind to settle down.
As the Buddha said, there's no jhana without discernment, no discernment without
jhana. The two have to go together, to help each other along.
Discernment
here is learning which things to develop and which to let go. You start out with
really simple things. You have to focus on what the breathing is like, what kind
of breathing the body needs right now. If your energy level feels low, what kind
of breathing will raise the energy level? If you feel too frenetic, what kind
of breathing can calm you down? If there are pains in different parts of the body,
are you breathing in a way that's actually augmenting or causing those pains?
These are things you can explore. What you're doing is taking your thinking
process, the questioning process of the mind, and learning how to use it skillfully.
Meditation is not a matter of stopping your thought processes right away. Eventually
there does come a point where thinking gets more and more attenuated until you
can hardly call it thinking at all. But in the mean time, before you can get there,
you have to learn how to use your thinking skillfully, so you apply it to the
issue of concentration, apply it to the issue of settling the mind down.
This
is a basic principle in a lot of the Buddha's teachings. In order to learn how
to let go of something, you've got to learn how to do it skillfully. This principle
doesn't apply to sex, but it does apply to a lot of other things. For instance,
some texts talk about going beyond precepts and practices in the practice, but
before you can go beyond them you have to learn how to maintain your precepts
with skill. Some Zen texts talk about letting go of the discriminating mind, but
before you let go of the discriminating mind you have to learn how to use it properly.
Before learning how to let go of desire, you have to learn how to use your desire
properly. Focus it on the causes that will get you where you want to go. The unskillful
use of desire means focusing so much on the results you want that you ignore the
causes. You want to skip over them. That kind of desire is unskillful. You're
not going to get beyond desire by just dropping unskillful desires. You have to
learn how to replace unskillful desires with skillful ones, focused on the causes
that will take you where you want to go. Then, when you've arrived, the issue
of desire falls away.
So right now focus your desire on what will take you
to concentration. This means being mindful to keep the breath in mind, and being
alert, watching the breath. A good way to do that is to ask yourself questions
about the breath and how you can relate to it here in the present moment. If you
were to make the next breath a little bit longer, what would happen? Try it and
find out. How about a little bit shorter, deeper, stronger, more refined? Just
ask those questions of the mind. Don't put a lot of physical pressure on the breath.
Just ask the question and you'll find that simply asking the question opens up
the possibility.
This is called appropriate attention -- yoniso manasikara,
learning how to ask skillful questions -- and it's essential to the whole practice.
In fact the first question you're supposed to ask when you go to meet a new teacher
is: "What is skillful? What is not skillful? What, if I do it, will be for
my long-term happiness? What, if I do it, will be for my long-term suffering?"
You take those questions, usually starting on the level of the precepts or
generosity, and work down deeper and deeper into the mind. That's how the deeper
levels of concentration are attained. The discernment that gives rise to liberation
comes in as well, by learning how to ask the question "What's the skillful
thing to do now?"
Now, in order to ask those questions from the very
refined levels of the mind, you have to start by asking them from more blatant
levels in your daily life. This is why the Buddha's teaching is not about how
soon we can get the experience of Awakening, how soon we can get the feeling of
oneness so we can go on with the rest of our life. That's not it at all. You have
to train your whole approach to life. "What's the most skillful thing to
do right now? What's the most skillful thing to say? What's the most skillful
thing to think?" Learn how to keep asking these questions, looking for the
answers, learning from your mistakes time and again, so that you gradually do
become more skillful on the outer levels.
You find that that habit begins
to take root in your mind. Then, as you're sitting here meditating, it becomes
an automatic question: "What's the most skillful way to relate to the breath?
What's the most skillful way to relate to the present moment?" You experiment.
You test. You come up with answers. And then you test the answers.
So it's
a basic process that starts from the outside and works in. Ultimately it leads
to the discernment that liberates the mind totally from suffering. That's the
point we all want to get to. But it's not a matter of simply sitting here and
waiting until it comes. Liberating discernment comes from the process of questioning
and probing and looking and getting the mind to settle down and be really still
and asking, "Why is there still a disturbance in there? What acts of mind,
what decisions are creating that disturbance?" Sometimes the disturbance
is on a very subtle level. "What decisions are still getting in the way?"
You look and you watch and you have to be very patient.
Ajaan Khamdee, one
of the forest ajaans, once made a comparison. He said that meditating is like
being a hunter. The hunter goes out in the forest and, on the one hand, has to
be very still so he doesn't scare off the rabbits and other animals, but at the
same time he has to be very alert. His ears and eyes have to be very sharp. And
the hunter can't say "Well, okay, I'm just going to sit here for half an
hour and I'll bag my rabbit." He has no idea how long it's going to take
but he maintains that attitude of quiet alertness. The same in your meditation:
The concentration is what keeps you quiet; that little question is what keeps
you alert. And the combination of the two when you get them just right: That will
lead to Awakening.
Admirable Friendship
November 13, 2002
Practicing
the Dhamma is primarily an issue of looking at yourself, looking at your own thoughts,
your own words, your own deeds, seeing what's skillful, seeing what's not. It's
not so much an issue of self-improvement as one of action-improvement, word-improvement,
and thought-improvement. This is an important distinction, because people in the
modern world -- especially in the modern world -- seem to be obsessed with self-image.
We've spent our lives bombarded with images, and you can't help but compare your
image of yourself to the images of people you see outside you. And for the most
part there's no comparison: You're not as strong, as beautiful, as wealthy, as
stylish, and so forth. I noticed in Thailand that, as soon as television became
rampant, teenagers became very sullen. I think it's largely this issue of people's
looking at themselves in comparison to the images broadcast at them. And the whole
question of self-image becomes very sensitive, very painful. So when we say that
you're looking at yourself, remember you're not looking at your "self."
You're looking at your thoughts, words, and deeds. Try to look at them as objectively
as possible, get the whole issue of "self" out of the way, and then
it becomes a lot easier to make improvements.
The same applies to your dealings
with other people. The Buddha said there are two factors that help most in the
arising of discernment, that help you most along the path. The foremost internal
factor is appropriate attention. The foremost external factor is admirable friendship.
And it's important that you reflect on what admirable friendship means, because
even though you're supposed to be looking at your own thoughts, words, and deeds,
you're also looking at the thoughts, words, and deeds of the people around you.
After all, your eyes are fixed in your body so that they point outside. You can't
help but see what other people are doing. So the question is how you can make
this knowledge most useful to yourself as you practice. And this is where the
principle of admirable friendship comes in.
To begin with, it means associating
with admirable people, people who have admirable habits, people who have qualities
that are worthy of admiration. One list puts these qualities at four: Admirable
people have conviction in the principle of kamma, they're virtuous, they're generous,
and they're discerning. There's a well-known line from Dogen where he says, "When
you walk through the mist, your robe gets wet without your even thinking about
it." That's his description of living with a teacher. You pick up the teacher's
habits without thinking about it, but that can be a double-edged sword because
your teacher can have both good and bad habits, and you need to be careful about
which ones you pick up.
So in addition to associating with admirable people,
the Buddha says there are two further factors in admirable friendship. One is
that you ask these people about issues of conviction, virtue, generosity, discernment.
And this doesn't necessarily mean just asking the teacher. You can ask other people
in the community who have admirable qualities as well. See what special insights
they have on how to develop those qualities. After all, they've obviously got
experience, and you'd be wise to pick their brains.
The second factor is that
if you see anything in other people worth emulating, you emulate it, you follow
it, you bring that quality into your own behavior. So this makes you responsible
for your end of admirable friendship, too. You can't sit around simply hoping
to soak up the mist, waiting for it to blow your way. You have to be active. Remember
that passage in the Dhammapada about the spoon not knowing the taste of the soup,
while the tongue does know the taste.
But again, when looking at people around
you, it's important that you get away from your sense of competitiveness, of this
person versus that person. You look, not at them, but at their activities. Otherwise
you start comparing yourself to the other person: "This person's better than
I am. That person's worse than I am." And that brings in questions of conceit,
resentment, and competition, which are not really helpful because we're not here
to compete with each other. We're here to work on ourselves. So again, look at
other people simply in terms of their thoughts, their words, their actions. And
see what's an admirable action, what are admirable words, what are admirable ideas,
ones you can emulate, ones you can pick up. In this way the fact that we're living
together becomes a help to the practice rather than a hindrance.
The same
is true when you notice people around you doing things that are not so admirable.
Instead of judging the other person, simply judge the actions by their results:
that that particular action, that particular way of thinking or speaking is not
very skillful, for it obviously leads to this or that undesirable result. And
then turn around and look at yourself, at the things you do and say: Are those
unskillful words and actions to be found in you? Look at the behavior of other
people as a mirror for your own behavior. When you do this, even the difficulties
of living in a community become an aid to the practice.
The Buddha designed
the monkhood so that monks would have time alone but also have time together.
If you spent all of your time alone, you'd probably go crazy. If you spent all
of your time together, life would start getting more and more like dorm life all
the time. So you have to learn how to balance the two. Learn how to develop your
own good qualities on your own and at the same time use the actions and words
of other people as mirrors for yourself, to check yourself, to see what out there
is worth emulating, to see what out there is clearly unskillful. And then reflect
on yourself, "Do I have those admirable qualities? Do I have those unskillful
qualities in my thoughts, words and deeds?" If you've got those unskillful
qualities, you've got work to do. If you don't have the admirable ones, you've
got work to do there as well.
What's interesting is that in both of these
internal and external factors -- both in appropriate attention and in admirable
friendship -- one of the crucial factors is questioning. In other words, in appropriate
attention you learn how to ask yourself questions about your own actions. In admirable
friendship you ask the other people you admire about the qualities they embody.
If you find someone whose conviction is admirable, you ask that person about conviction.
If you find someone whose effort and persistence are admirable, you ask him about
persistence. In other words, you take an interest in these things. The things
that we ask questions about, those are the things we're interested in, those are
the things that direct our practice. And it's the combination of the two, the
internal questioning and the external questioning, that gets us pointed in the
right direction.
So this is something to think about as you go through the
day and you see someone else doing something that gets you upset or something
that offends you. Don't focus on the other person; focus on the action in and
of itself, as part of a causal process, and then turn around and look at yourself.
If, in your mind, you create other people out there, you create a lot of problems.
But if you simply see life in the community as an opportunity to watch the principle
of cause and effect as it plays itself out, the problems vanish.
The same
with admirable people: You don't get jealous of their good qualities; you don't
get depressed about the fact that you don't have their good qualities. Where do
good qualities come from? They come from persistence, from effort, from training,
which is something we can all do. So again, if you see something admirable in
other people, ask them about it, and then try to apply those lessons in your own
life. If we go through life without asking questions, we learn nothing. If we
ask the wrong questions, we go off the path. If, with practice, we learn how to
ask the right questions, that's the factor that helps us get our practice right
on target.
I once read a man's reminiscences about his childhood in which
he said that every day, when he'd come home from school, his mother's first question
would be, "What questions did you ask in school today?" She didn't ask,
"What did you learn? What did the teacher teach?" She asked, "What
questions did you ask?" She was teaching him to think. So at the end of the
day when you stop to reflect on the day's activities, that's a good question to
ask yourself: "What questions did I ask today? What answers did I get?"
That way you get to see which direction your practice is going.
Heightening
the Mind
July, 2001
The Buddha concluded one of his most important talks
with the phrase, adhicitte ca ayogo, commitment to the heightened mind. What this
means is that we lift the mind above its ordinary concerns, as when we come here
to practice meditation. Our normal cares of the day -- looking after our own bodies,
feeding them, looking after other people, being concerned with what other people
think about us, how we interact with them, all the concerns of the day -- we put
those down, lift our mind above them, and bring it to the meditation object.
When
you look at the affairs of the world, you see that they spin around just as the
world does. There's a classic list of eight: gain and loss, status and loss of
status, praise and censure, pleasure and pain. These things keep trading places.
You can't have the good ones without the bad ones. You can't have the bad ones
without the good. They keep changing places like this, around and around, and
if we allow our minds to get caught up in them it's like getting our clothes caught
up in the gears of a machine. They keep pulling us in, pulling us in. If we don't
know how to disentangle ourselves, they keep pulling us in until they mangle our
arms, mangle our legs, crush us to bits. In other words, if we allow these preoccupations
to consume the mind, the mind gets mangled and doesn't have a chance to be its
own self.
We don't even know what the mind is like on its own because all
we know is the mind as a slave to these things, running around wherever they force
it. So when we come to meditate, we have to learn to lift our mind above these
things. All thoughts of past and future we put aside. We just bring the mind to
the breath so the mind doesn't have to spin around anymore. It simply stays with
the breath coming in, going out, and gains at least some measure of freedom. From
this heightened perspective we can look at our normal involvement with the world
and begin to realize that, for the most part, it doesn't go anywhere. It just
keeps spinning around, coming back to the same old places over and over and over
again. All that gets accomplished is that the mind gets more and more worn out.
If we allow the mind to rise above these things so that it doesn't feed on
them, doesn't run after them, we'll begin to get some sense of the mind's worth,
in and of itself. As the mind gets still, things begin to settle out. Like sediment
in a glass of water: If you allow the water to stay still for a time, whatever
sediment is in there finally settles out and the water becomes clear.
This
is what happens when you let the mind separate from its ordinary concerns and
simply stay with its meditation. Even when you go back into your normal activities,
you'll have a sense of the mind, your awareness, as something separate. This sense
of "separate" is a very important part of the practice. It's part of
the day-to-day work of practicing the Dhamma.
We all come to the practice
hoping that some day some really great experiences are going to hit us while we're
meditating. Well, they're not going to hit unless you do the day-to-day practice.
This is why the Buddha insisted that there are four noble truths, not just the
truth of the cessation of suffering, but also the tasks of understanding suffering,
abandoning its cause, and developing the path. These are all very important parts
of the teaching. They're all noble truths.
The development of the path is
largely two things. One, developing qualities that enhance the mind's ability
to know, to be aware. And then, two, learning how to let go of things that are
burdensome to the mind. This is what it means to heighten the mind. Once you let
go of the burdens, the mind gets lighter and begins to rise above things. Learning
how to do this in all activities is very important because when the really Technicolor
experiences hit in the meditation, if you can't rise above them you're just going
to fall for them, too. And they eventually lead you back into the world again.
Your attachments lead you back.
So a large part of the practice is learning
how to lift your mind, stage by stage. You lift it above your ordinary, everyday
activities and you get into a good state of concentration. In the beginning, the
mind and the object seem to become one when you're really absorbed. But as you
allow the mind to stay in that state for a while, it begins to separate out as
well. You begin to see the object as one thing, your awareness as something else,
and although they're right next to each other they are separate things.
This
is what enables the mind to gain insight both into the workings of the mind and
into the workings of its objects. It also develops the habit of learning how to
let go, stage by stage. You rise from one level of concentration to the next to
the next. You pull back. The image in the texts is of a person sitting up looking
at a person lying down, or a person standing looking at a person sitting. You
pull back bit by bit by bit, stage by stage. No matter how good the stage, you
begin to realize you've got to lift above it.
This is especially important
when really strong experiences come in the meditation. You don't jump to any conclusions.
Again, you lift the mind above them and watch. Hopefully by that time the habit
has become built-in enough so that you realize you can't allow yourself to get
attached to anything, even the really amazing experiences. Lift yourself up rung
by rung by rung along the ladder. You go from one attachment to a higher one to
a higher one. Finally, though, there comes a point where you have to let go and
just watch what happens. Only when you've developed this habit of lifting the
mind up can you get through some of these experiences that waylay everyone else
along the meditation path.
We're not just here for the experiences. We're
learning the basic skills we need so that no matter what experience comes to the
mind, we don't fall for it. We don't latch onto it so that we don't become a slave
to it -- for the whole purpose of the practice is freedom and yet the habits of
the mind tend toward self-enslavement. Even when great feelings of oneness or
unity or unlimitedness come into the mind, you find on a very subtle level that
the mind can become enslaved to them as well. And the question is how, instead
of becoming enslaved or enthralled, you can learn even from that kind of experience.
Ultimately the mind has to become totally free, even from the state of oneness,
even from the state of unlimitedness, because a lot of those experiences are just
states of concentration. There's still a subtle level of attachment and conditioning
going on. But if you develop the habit of learning how to let go and rise above
things even while you live in the midst of them, then you've developed the proper
habits, the skills you need that are going to protect you in all circumstances.
There's a fine passage in one of Ajaan Maha Boowa's talks where, at the time
of Ajaan Mun's death, he sits and reflects. At first he feels lost. Here is the
teacher he was able to depend on for so long, and now that teacher is gone. What
is he going to do? After a while he begins to realize: "Well, what were the
things he taught when he was alive? Take those as your teachers." And one
constant theme was: Whatever arises in the mind, if you don't get caught up with
it but just stay with that sense of knowing, with the knowing as separate from
the event in the mind, then, no matter what, that experience will pose no dangers
for you.
This skill of learning how to step back, step back, raise the mind
above its experiences: This is what's truly distinctive about the Buddha's teachings.
This is what's distinctive about his approach to the really spectacular, non-dual
experiences in the mind. If you haven't learned how to develop that approach to
ordinary experiences in the mind -- looking for the use of the experiences rather
than trying to feed on them -- then the spectacular ones are going to eat you
up whole. This is why the habits developed along the path are so important. This
is why the path is one of the four noble truths, on a par with the others.
So
keep this teaching in mind, this issue of the heightened mind. Watch out for when
you allow the mind to lie beneath its objects, under the power of its objects,
and when you're able to lift it up above them, so that even though you live with
them you have a sense of rising above them, of being able to use them, of not
being caught up in them. That's the skill we're working on.
Respect for
Concentration
July, 2001
We just chanted about having respect for concentration.
This is an important principle to keep in mind because all too often the stillness
of our minds is something we step on. An idea pops into our heads and we go running
after it. We leave our home base very quickly and then find it hard to get back.
We've got to learn how to make concentration our normal state of mind: centered,
present, alert to the body, alert to things going on. It's not that you don't
sense other things when you're concentrated, or that you don't register them with
your senses at all. Simply that the mind doesn't move out after them. The mind
stays firmly based in the breath, its home base, and from there it protects that
sense of being centered, looks after it, maintains it. This is the only way that
concentration can grow, can develop the real stability we need to withstand whatever
comes up.
Too many times I've heard people say, "Now that my mind is
calm, what do I do next?" They're in a great hurry to jump to the next step,
to run off into insight. But before the mind can gain any liberating insight,
it has to overcome its impatience to move. You need to get it very solid, very
secure, because when you start working on the issues of insight -- trying to understand
why greed, anger, and delusion take over the mind -- you're going to find yourself
running up against all kinds of storms. If your concentration isn't really solid
and settled, you'll just get blown away.
So you have to respect this part
of the path. After all, it's the heart of the path. The Buddha once said that
right concentration forms the heart of the noble eightfold path, while all the
other factors of the path are simply requisites, supports for the right concentration,
to keep it right, to keep it on track.
So have some respect for this quality
of mind. Look after it. Sometimes it seems like we're going against the Buddha's
teachings on inconstancy, stress, and not self when we focus on putting the mind
in a state that's constant, easeful, and ours. We get really absorbed in this
sense of oneness and we come to identify with it, both with the stillness and
with the object of the stillness as well. It all becomes one. So it seems like
we're running counter to what insight is supposed to tell us. But what we're actually
doing is testing the limits of human effort. We're taking the khandhas -- these
aggregates of body, feeling, perception, thought-fabrications, and consciousness
-- and instead of identifying with them, we use them as tools. And as part of
the process of mastering them as tools, there will have to be a sense of identification.
You identify with the state of concentration, whatever sense of the body is present
in the concentration, whatever feelings, perceptions, thought-fabrications, and
consciousness are there. That's why you become so devoted to them. They all turn
into a oneness. But instead of simply identifying with them, you're also treating
them as the path. That makes all the difference.
You bring things together
and, once they're brought together, you can sort them out for what they are. If
everything is scattered all over the place it's hard to see how things interact,
it's hard to see where the connections are, and where the lines are drawn between
them. But when you get them all right here, gathered into one, then once they've
been staying together for long while they begin to separate out.
Ajaan Lee
has a nice image of taking a rock and putting it in a fire. When the various elements
in the rock reach their melting point, they melt out of the rock, one at a time.
That's how they separate. The same holds true with all the things you're going
to try to understand and gain insight into. Once they've been together a long
period of time, gathered here in a sense of oneness, they begin to separate out.
And all you have to do is ask the question, "What's this? Is this the same
as that?" And then you just watch. You begin to see that there's a natural
dividing line between these things. But until you've brought the mind to oneness
in concentration, you can't really see that. All the dividing lines you see are
the ones imposed by words and ideas, by preconceived notions.
Put those preconceived
notions aside and just focus on getting the mind centered. You're sitting here
in concentration, trying to get the concentration as refined and as solid as possible.
When you get up to leave, don't drop it. Try to maintain it. An image they use
in the Canon is of a person carrying a bowl on his head, filled to the brim with
oil. Try to develop that same sense of balance, care, and mindfulness. As you
get up from concentration and go to wherever you're spending the night, try to
maintain that sense of being centered and poised. Don't let it spill. This is
one aspect of having respect for concentration: trying to maintain it throughout
the course of the day, not letting yourself get distracted outside. Again, you'll
be aware of outside things: people to talk to, work to be done, the sounds of
the birds, the wind in the trees. These things will all be present to your awareness,
but you won't send your attention out after them. Try to keep your center here
inside.
As you develop this continuity, it becomes your habitual center of
awareness, your habitual point of reference. The movement of other things in relation
to that center becomes very clear. In other words, the impulse to go out and see
something: You'll see it exactly as that -- a current or a physical sensation
in certain parts of the body that runs or flows out after things. If you can catch
sight of it, you'll see: "Oh, that's what happens when the mind focuses its
attention outside." There's both a mental and a physical side to that change
of reference. When your sense of clear awareness is still enough, you can see
these things as they move. The more still your frame of reference, the more refined
the movements you can notice in the mind. So this element of stillness is very
important. Without it, insight is just words, ideas, things you picked up from
books. But with it, insight is seeing things as they actually happen, as they
actually move.
So this is the basis from which insight comes, the insight
that leads to release. You begin to observe the movements you used to ride on,
because now you're not riding on them any more. You see these movements of the
mind as they flash out, but you don't go flashing with them. That's what makes
all the difference. If you ride out with them, that's just the way of the normal
mind. But if there's a sense of being centered inside, you can see the movements
of the mind as they go out, as thoughts go out, as perceptions go out, latching
onto things. You see them as they actually happen. You begin to wonder, "Why
would I ever want to identify with that?"
That's when the possibility
of release comes. But this can happen only when you're really, really still. And
to be still you'll need a sense of wellbeing here in the present moment. Otherwise,
the mind won't stay. For the concentration to stay solid and unforced, you want
to feel good being right here. You work with the breath in whatever way will help
you to settle down, to stay clear and centered. As you use the breath to work
through pain in the body, you'll find that some pains you can deal with and some
pains you can't, but the only way you'll know is by experimenting. If there are
pains you can't disperse by adjusting the breath, you learn to live with them.
You learn not to identify with them. You're aware of them, but there's a sense
of separation between the sense of awareness and the pain. That makes it bearable.
If you're going to identify with certain parts of the body, identify with
the good ones. Find the parts of the body where you can maintain a sense of wellbeing
through the breathing. Focus on those. Those become your center, your point of
reference in the midst of this moving world.
The Uses of Pleasure &
Pain
August, 2001
Allow your awareness to settle in on the breath and get
aligned with the body. It takes a little experimenting to find exactly what amount
of pressure is needed, what amount of force is needed to stay with the breath
and the body in a way that's just right. If the pressure is too light, the mind
goes drifting off. If it's too heavy, the body starts feeling constricted, the
mind starts feeling constricted, and it's going to look for a way to get out.
So try to see precisely what amount of mindfulness and alertness is needed
just to keep the body and mind together right at the breath. The breath will be
a good barometer to let you know when the pressure is too much, when it's too
little -- but you've got to know how to read the barometer.
This is why we
practice meditation day after day after day, to get more familiar with our barometer.
To begin with, you can focus your awareness at any one spot in the body where
the sensation of breathing is very clear. It might be the tip of the nose, the
throat, the middle of the chest, the abdomen, any spot where you know clearly:
"Now the breath is coming in, now the breath is going out." There's
a sense of rightness about the spot; it's an easy spot to maintain your focus.
This may seem strange, this emphasis on ease and comfort in the meditation
after everything we've heard about the Buddha's teachings on pain, stress, and
suffering. But you have to look carefully at what he says about pain, stress,
and suffering and also what he has to say about pleasure. Look at the four noble
truths. Truth number one, of course, is stress and suffering. But buried down
in number four, the path, you find the most important factor of the path, right
concentration, which involves getting the mind focused on the breath with a sense
of ease and rapture. This rapture comes from seclusion: seclusion here meaning
that you're not thinking about past, not thinking about the future, you're right
here with the present moment. Things are settling in, and there's a snugness to
how things feel. It feels good, it feels secure, being right here.
Look at
what the Buddha has to say about the tasks with regard to each of the noble truths.
The task with regard to stress and suffering is to comprehend it. The task with
regard to the path is to develop it, which means you want to develop that sense
of ease, the sense of rapture that comes as the mind begins to settle down in
concentration. What you're doing is taking one of the aggregates -- the aggregate
of feeling -- and instead of latching onto it or pushing it away, you learn how
to use it as a tool.
When pain and stress and suffering come, you want to
comprehend them. Comprehending pain and stress teaches you a lot about the mind.
The Buddha never said that life is suffering. He just said there's suffering in
life, which is a very different teaching. As long as there's going to be pain,
as long as there's going to be suffering, get the most use out of them. You find
as you focus on pain -- as you get to know it, get to comprehend it -- that you
learn all kinds of things about how the mind is working. In particular, you learn
to see what it's doing to take a physical pain and turn it into mental pain --
or, if you're starting with mental pain, to make it worse.
But to watch that
feeling of pain long enough and consistently enough so that you can comprehend
it, the mind needs strength, it needs nourishment. Otherwise it gets drained.
That's where the pleasure in the path comes in. That's your nourishment. Try to
create a sense of wellbeing in the mind as it's focused in the present moment
so that it doesn't feel threatened by the pain, doesn't feel drained by the pain,
so that you always have a place to go when you need that strength.
What we're
doing is taking one of the aggregates that we usually cling to... Clinging here
doesn't mean just holding on. It also means trying to push away, and pushing away
is like pushing away a glob of tar. The more you push it away, the more you get
stuck. So instead of clinging or pushing away, we try to learn how to use these
aggregates as tools, in the same way you'd use tar to make asphalt for paving
a road.
This is a common theme running throughout the Buddha's teachings:
Before you can let go of anything, you have to learn how to master it. Otherwise,
you're just holding on, pushing away, holding on, pushing away. And nothing comes
from that except more stress, more suffering, more pain. This harms not only you
but also the people around you. If you're constantly feeling worn down by the
pains and the inconveniences of life, you'll find it hard to be kind to other
people. In fact, most of the evil things people do in their lives come from their
sense of being totally overwhelmed, feeling weak and trapped and then lashing
out.
But if you give the mind the sense of strength and security that comes
with knowing it has a center it can return to and gain nourishment from, it's
a gift not only to yourself but also to the people around you. It's not a selfish
practice.
Learn how not to hold onto feelings, grabbing hold of the pleasant
ones, pushing the painful ones away. Instead, learn how to use them as tools.
When they're used as tools, they open things up in the mind. You understand where
the mind is unskillful in how it manages its thinking, and you realize that you
don't have to be unskillful. There are better ways to think, better ways to manage
the thought processes in the mind.
And a funny thing happens. As you master
these processes, they bring you to a point where everything reaches equilibrium.
That's where you can really let go. You can even let go of your tools at that
point because they've taken you where you want to go. From that point on, everything
opens up to the Deathless.
But you can't get there by pushing and pulling
your way around. If the Deathless were something you could force your way into,
everybody would have gone to nibbana a long time ago. It requires a lot of finesse,
a lot of skill in how you deal with the mind, learning to recognize the time for
analyzing issues of stress and suffering, and the time for letting the mind rest
so it that it can gain strength and then go back to work.
The ultimate skill
is learning how to put those two things together. In other words, you develop
states of concentration to give the mind a really solid center, and from that
center you can begin to let go of things that are obviously unskillful, things
you obviously don't want to hang on to. Then when you've let go of everything
else, you turn on that pleasant center you've been developing and take it apart.
But all too often we've read the books that tell us what comes next in the practice
and we want to get on to insight as fast as possible. In doing so, we tend to
destroy the very quality that's going to help us: this ability to get the mind
aligned with the body in a way that feels just right and then to use the strength,
use the nourishment the comes from that, the stillness and ease, the steadiness
that comes from that. Only then can you really gain insight.
In other words,
you just can't jump over concentration or go rushing through the various levels.
It's something you want to settle down into, so that you can stay still, calm,
for long periods of time. And when you can stay that way during your formal sitting,
you take it out and try to maintain that same calm center no matter where you
go, no matter what happens. That's when you really gain interesting insights into
the mind, seeing how it goes flowing out after things, rushing to grab hold of
this, rushing to push that away.
The Buddha talks about effluents in the mind,
things flowing out of the mind, and when you can maintain your center you actually
get a physical sense of the energy flowing out as the mind loses its alignment
with the body and goes out after its objects. The trick is learning how to maintain
that still, steady observer so that you can see the movement and realize you don't
have to go along with it. The movement is something separate. The knower is something
separate. And the movement dies away.
When you have that separation clearly
delineated, you can see even more clearly which of the mind's actions are skillful
and which are not. You begin to see cause and effect in a way that really opens
things up in the mind.
So we carry these five khandhas, these aggregates,
around with us, and the wisdom of the Buddha is in taking these aggregates that
tend to weigh us down, like big lumps of metal in a suitcase, and opening up the
suitcase to look inside. That's when you begin to see that they're not just lumps
of metal. They're tools, tools that you can apply to dismantling your attachments
so you don't have to lug things around any more. Use them to cut away your obvious
attachments and then finally, when everything else is taken care of, you can let
go of your attachments to the tools themselves. But until that point, you want
to take good care of them -- not to the point of worshipping them, but careful
enough that they stay in good shape so you can actually use them.
This is
why the Buddha didn't teach self-torment, but he didn't teach self-indulgence,
either. The middle path between the two is not half indulgence and half torment.
It's learning how to regard these aggregates as tools. You've got aggregates of
form, feeling, perception, thought-fabrications, and consciousness. Learn how
to treat them as tools, showing them the proper care and attention that tools
need, but also realizing that they're not the be-all and end-all of life. They're
processes, not things. They've got their uses, but they're not ends in and of
themselves.
Once you've got that point clear, the path opens up.
An
Introduction to Pain
March, 2002
So many people accuse the Buddha of being
pessimistic: He starts his teachings with pain. And yet when you first sit and
meditate, what do you find after the first five or ten minutes? Pain. You can't
avoid it. Or when people just can't sit by themselves, can't spend a whole day
by themselves without busying themselves with this, that, or the other thing,
what's the problem? It's mental pain, mental discomfort. These are things we live
with all the time, and yet we think somehow that if people point them out, they're
being pessimistic. Of course, the Buddha's purpose in pointing out pain and suffering
wasn't just to stop right there, pointing them out and saying, "Isn't that
horrible." He says, "Look. There's a solution." In fact, his approach
to pain is extremely optimistic: Human beings can put an end to suffering, in
this lifetime, through their own efforts.
So when we sit here, we have to
anticipate that there will be pain in sitting still. The reason we normally move
around is because we encounter pain in a particular posture, so we change a little
bit to get away from it. The Buddha's approach isn't to try to run away from it
that way. He says, "Look into it."
As Ajaan Suwat used to say, "We
normally take our cravings as our friends and our pains as our enemies. We should
switch that around. Learn to look at pain as your friend, and craving as your
enemy." The craving is what's really causing all the problems. The pain is
just there to teach you something. Of course, it's a difficult friend. Some people
are easy to be friends with; you can get along with them with no problem at all.
Others are difficult. Pain is definitely a difficult friend, but one worth cultivating.
Still, because it's difficult, you have to go about it the right way.
This
is why, when we start meditating, the Buddha doesn't have us focus immediately
on the pain. He says to focus on the breath instead, because whatever pain is
associated with the breath -- and it tends to be subtle, but it is there -- is
something you can manage, something you can deal with. He gives you the breath
as your tool for dealing with the pain. So when you're aware of pain, don't yet
let your primary focus be on the pain. Keep your focus on the breath. In other
words, get used to being acquainted with the breath first, because that's the
person who'll introduce you to pain properly. It's like meeting any important
person: You first have to get to know certain well-connected friends who can introduce
you to that person. And that's the way it is with pain: You have to know the breath
first, for it's your well-connected friend.
So get in touch with the breath.
Find a place in the body that's relatively at ease, relatively comfortable, and
focus there first; get to know that spot first; be very sensitive to the breathing
at that spot. When you breathe in there, how does it feel? When you breathe out
there, how does it feel? Is there even the slightest discomfort? Can you make
it feel better? Can you experiment with different ways of breathing, different
ways of conceiving the breath energy in your body? When you find something that
feels really good, the whole tone of your body will feel really good. Instead
of sitting here tensely trying to breathe in one spot, think of the whole body
relaxing into the breath. The more relaxed you are about the practice, the longer
you'll be able to stay with it. So think of yourself as just relaxing into the
body, relaxing into the breath. Find a way of breathing that feels really good
-- all the way from the beginning to the end as it goes in, and all the way from
the beginning to the end as it goes out. Make that your foundation.
Once that
feels good, think of spreading that good breath energy to the other parts of the
body. Think of it as going right through the pain. Many times a lot of the discomfort
we feel around pain comes from tensing up around it, and the tensing up just makes
things worse. So try to breathe through any tension you feel. Breathe right through
the pain, all the way on out. Suppose there's a pain in your hip or in your knee:
Think of the breath going through the hip, through the knee, all the way out through
the toes as you breathe in, and out into the air as you breathe out. As you approach
the pain, try to maintain the same mental tone and feeling tone you had when focusing
on the comfortable breath. Your primary frame of reference here should still be
the breath. There's no way you're not going to notice the pain, but ask yourself,
"How does the breath affect the pain? How does the pain affect the breath?"
Always keep the breath in mind as your frame of reference. That gives you a handle
on the pain. Otherwise if you jump right into the pain, you find yourself picking
up the energy from the pain that puts you on edge. The first thing you'll think
will be: "Make the pain go away." And then there's even more impatience
as you get involved in the past and the future of the pain.
But when you stay
with the breath, you want to be as much with the present as possible. Don't think
about how long the pain has been there or how long it's going to stay. Just, "What's
there right now?" That takes one huge burden off the mind right there. So
as you go through the pain, make the thread of your awareness stay with the breath.
That's what you want to keep track of; that's what you want to hold onto. Learn
to relate to the pain through the breath rather than just butting up against the
pain head-on.
Now, if you find that the pain just gets worse and worse and
worse to the point where you can't stand it, sit with it another five minutes
and then change your position. In other words, push your limits a bit at a time
and you'll find that you get better and better at staying with the pain, more
skillful in maintaining your frame of reference with the breath. As long as you
really stay with the breath you'll be okay. Slipping away from the breath is what
creates the problems, because the mind then immediately creates stories about
the pain, creates issues around the pain: "Why is this pain happening to
me?" Or if it's a physical pain that you know you caused: "Why did I
do that?" All these questions -- "How much longer is it going to last?
Am I going to have this pain the rest of my life?" -- just drop them right
now. Stay with the breath. Deal immediately in the present, because the past and
the future are not actually there. They are things the mind creates, and once
they're created they turn around and bite the mind. So try to stay with that thread
of the breath as it goes through the pain.
Then you'll begin to see why the
Buddha focused on pain as the primary spiritual issue in our practice, for it
teaches you so much about the mind. It's like filming a documentary on the animals
in the desert: If you go out and spend the day wandering around the desert, you'll
probably miss most of the animals. But if you set up your camera at a safe place
near the water hole 24 hours a day, all of the animals in the area are going to
have to come there. That's where you get to film them all. It's the same with
the pain. If you focus steadily on the pain, you'll see all the mind's reactions
around the pain. All its issues will come to the surface and congregate there.
At the same time, if you use the breath as your tool for dealing with the
pain, those issues won't totally overwhelm you. It's like having a safe shelter
to run to if the lions object to being filmed. You've got a safe place in the
breath. You're not totally at the mercy of the pain. You can pull out any time
you want, and you've got a handle to deal with it. You've established a feeling
tone around the whole body that holds the pain, not grasping onto it, but surrounding
it with an energy, surrounding it with a space where you're not threatened by
it. Then you can deal with it. When you're not threatened, you can really get
into the present moment. If you find that you can't yet handle it, you've got
the breath to go back to.
But when things get stable enough in the mind, clear
enough in the mind so that you can handle it, then you really can start looking
at the pain as your friend. You can get familiar enough with it so that ultimately
you can understand it for what it truly is, so that ultimately it's no longer
a problem. Until that point, it's always going to be a difficult friend, but if
you start off on the right foot, using the breath as the basis of your friendship,
you'll find that you're in a good position to make the friendship work.
A
Dependable Mind
November 10, 1996
Our basic problem in life is that the
most important thing in our lives is the thing we know the least about: our own
minds. As the Buddha said, all things come out of the mind -- all our experiences,
all the happiness and all the pain we experience, come from the mind. "All
things have the mind as their forerunner. Things are made of the mind, determined
by the mind" -- and yet we don't know our minds, so our lives are out of
control. We don't understand where things come from or how things happen in our
lives. That's why we have to meditate -- to get to know our own minds.
The
difficulty in meditation is that you can't focus directly on the mind. It's like
focusing on the wind up in a sky with no clouds -- you have no way of knowing
which direction it's going because there's nothing against which it's going to
make contact. That's why you need a meditation object like the breath or "buddho"
or parts of the body. Whichever object you find easy to settle down with, that's
the one you take. Having an object gives the mind something to bounce off of --
because when you decide you're going to stay with something, you begin to see
how erratic the mind is. It keeps jumping around. It goes here a little while,
then it goes there for a little while, and then over there. You begin to realize
how this most important element in life -- the mind -- is so totally out of control,
totally undependable. That's why the mind needs training. We need to strap it
down to one object and make it stay there so that we can really get to know it
and train it until we sense that we can depend on it.
We talk about taking
refuge in the Buddha, the Dhamma, and the Sangha, but they can be our refuge only
when we bring them into the mind. And the mind can be dependable only when we've
got the qualities of the Buddha, Dhamma, and Sangha in there: qualities like mindfulness,
concentration, persistence, and dependability. So if you want to depend on the
mind, make it something you can depend on.
The Buddha's good news is that
it's possible to do this. At the time the Buddha was teaching, there were other
teachers who said that there is nothing that you can do about the way life is,
it's all written in the stars. Others said that no matter what we do, any action
leads to more suffering, so the only way to stop suffering is to stop acting.
And still others said that life is totally chaotic, there's no way you can make
any sense out of it at all, so don't try. Just try to have as much fun as you
can while you can because everything falls apart at death. So there were all kinds
of teachings, but they were all teachings lacking in hope. The Buddha's teaching
was the only one that offered any hope. He said, yes, there is a skill that you
can develop in training the mind and, yes, it does lead to true happiness.
So
just as with developing any skill, you have to be observant, stick with it, be
sensitive to what you're doing, be sensitive to the results, make necessary changes
or adjustments and, as a result, you keep getting better and better and better
at it. Sometimes the improvement is hard to see because it's so incremental. It
takes such tiny, tiny steps, but you can rest assured that whatever positive energy
you put into the practice is going to produce positive results. That's also part
of the good news of the Buddha's teachings. Nothing good you do is wasted. No
effort that you put into Right Effort is wasted.
So we have conviction in
the Buddha's teaching because he teaches us to have conviction in ourselves --
that the practice is something we can do. We don't have to depend on anything
from the outside at all. Your own power, your own potential: That's what's going
to get you where you want to go. If you have to depend on others, you don't really
know if you can depend on them or not. Will they be there when you need them?
They might change their minds. After all, you have no control over things outside
of you.
Even though you currently may not have much control over the mind,
you can still work at it and develop more and more control over time. Tell the
mind to sit down and stay in one place often enough, and eventually it will stay.
It's going to rebel for a while, but if you use your ingenuity in teaching it
-- showing it that in being obedient this way it won't always have to be struggling
or suffering -- it's going to find that it actually likes settling down. And then
you can hardly keep it from settling down -- it wants to keep coming back, coming
back, coming back to the state of stillness, feeling at home in the present moment.
This is why we adjust the breath in the practice: to help the mind settle
down easily. And we work to get to know the breath. What are the different ways
it has of coming in? What are the different ways it has of going out? How does
it affect the rest of the body?
When the breath comes in and out, it's not
just the air coming in and out of the lungs. It's the energy that courses through
the whole body, throughout every nerve. Think about the whole nervous system going
down from the brain, down the backbone, out the arms, out the legs, encompassing
all the parts of the body. Then allow yourself to think that the entire system
can be affected by the breath if you let it happen. Let the whole body relax and
get into the breathing. Let your mind get into the breathing. Don't think of yourself
as being outside someplace looking at the breath. Be immersed in the process of
breathing. The whole body breathes in. The whole body breathes out. And you're
right in there with it.
After you work at this for a while, you begin to find
that the work pays off. It really feels good, feels gratifying, just to sit here
breathing. The mind has a sense of being at home. If the mind were to go out to
think of other things, you'd be sending it out into a territory it totally has
to create for itself. But you don't have to create much right here in the present
moment. When you're really with the breath, you're putting much less of a strain
on the mind. And when the mind gets used to this, it decides that it really likes
it. Until it decides that it likes it, you have to use both the carrot and the
stick. The carrot is the comfortable sensation of breathing; the stick is the
constant reminder of what's going to happen if the mind doesn't come under control,
if it isn't willing to settle down -- all the suffering and pain that you'll have
to endure.
The Buddha said that when people suffer, when there's pain in life,
they have two kinds of reactions. One is bewilderment because they don't know
where the pain comes from or why it's happening. The second reaction is the desire
to get free of the pain one way or another. And these two reactions go hand in
hand. You're bewildered at the same time that you're trying to get free, and so
you tend to do all kinds of unskillful things to get away from the pain, things
that aren't helpful at all. But through practice you come to realize that the
pain in the body isn't the culprit. The pain in the mind -- the mental anguish,
the mental distress: That's the real problem. When you really get to know the
mind you see that the pain in the body isn't such a big deal at all. It becomes
a problem only when the mind takes it on and converts it into mental pain, but
to understand mental pain you have to work with physical pain.
So after the
mind has settled down, focus it on the pain: pain in the legs, pain in the back,
whatever. Just get to know it as it's actually present. What is this pain? Is
it what you think it is? Try to see the pain on its own -- simply as a sensation,
and not as a "pain" -- without all the presuppositions you may have
about it: that it's placed right here, that it has this shape, that it's taken
over the body, or whatever crazy notion the mind has about the pain.
When
you think about it, most of the notions you've developed about pain were developed
when you were really small, because that's when you first met up with pain. The
first thing they do when you're born is to spank you so you can breathe. And even
before they spank you, going through the process of birth is enough to make you
pass out. So we've been dealing with pain ever since we were small, and for most
of us the strategies we've been using are those we picked up when we were so small
that we didn't know what was going on. A lot of those strategies are still there
in your mind.
So just sit down and get to know the pain. Simply regarding
the pain as something you want to know changes a lot of your subconscious attitudes
toward it right there. Your usual attitude is that once there's pain, you want
to get rid of it, to get away from it. Of course, if you keep running away from
it you're never going to get to know it, you'll never get to understand it, and
this means that you'll end up dealing with pain more and more out of bewilderment.
So once the mind has settled down in the sense of wellbeing fostered by the breath,
tell yourself that it's time to get to know the pain, make friends with the pain
-- not so you can live with pain forever, but so you can really understand how
far the pain goes and how far the mind goes and where the two are actually separate.
Be sure that your purpose is to get to know the pain, not so much to make it go
away, but to thoroughly understand it. The understanding is what will enable you
to get beyond it in ways you didn't expect: The mind can be with the pain and
yet not be pained by it.
This is an important skill to develop because as
long as there's a body, there's going to be pain. The question is not how to run
away from it, but how to live with it so as not to be pained by it. Realize that
the pain is simply happening, not necessarily happening to you. It's just happening.
It's an event. It has no intention to harm you at all. You feel pained by it because
you put yourself in the way by laying claim to the part of the body where the
pain seems to be. It's like getting into the line of fire: You're bound to get
shot. So don't get into the line of fire. Don't lay any claim to it. See that
the pain is just something that's there, and that it's going to come and it's
going to go in line with its own causes and effects.
Your only duty is to
watch it, to see what it's really like for there to be pain. Simply be there with
the pure sensation in the moment. How does it move around? How does it change?
Exactly what about it is painful? What's the mind doing to the pain when the mind
labels it? What effect does that have? If you can catch that event in the mind
-- the mind saying, "This is this and that is that; this is the pain and
it's doing this," and all of the other running commentary that the mind makes
on the present moment -- then you begin to realize this in itself is a lot of
the problem right there. The fear that the pain is going to stay; the anticipation
that it's going to stay; all these thoughts: Just let them drop away. See what
happens. Where does the pain go when they drop away? By watching this your whole
attitude toward the pain changes, because you come to see that it isn't at all
what you thought it was.
And at the same time you learn an awful lot about
your mind -- all the things that the mind comes in and says about the pain. It's
as if you have a whole committee offering their suggestions and opinions. So this
is a very good way of getting to know the mind because a lot of things buried
in the mind will tend to surface and focus on what's happening when there's pain.
Instead of trying to run away from the pain, you just sit with it and see what
kind of reaction comes up in the mind. Again, don't identify with the reactions.
The reactions will say, "Stop, stop, stop." Or they'll say, "This
is this and that's that and you should do this and you should do that." Just
respond, "No, I'm just going to be here. I'm just going to watch." And
watch both the pain and the mind's reactions to the pain.
This is how you
really get to know the mind while training it to become more and more dependable.
If the mind isn't shaken by pain, there's very little that's going to shake it.
If it doesn't fear pain, there's very little for it to fear. And when it's not
afraid in the face of pain, it becomes a mind you can depend on. When you want
it to work, it will work for you. When you want it to rest, it will rest. When
you want it to think, it can think -- and it will think clearly. When the time
comes for it to stop thinking, it will stop.
We've spent so much of our lives
developing fear of pain, fear of suffering. If you can get past that fear, get
past the mind's tendency to be pushed around by these things, you've got a mind
you can rely on. As when they train soldiers: They have to put the soldiers through
all kinds of hell in order to know which ones they can depend on and which ones
they can't. The ones who come through it okay: Those are the ones you know you
can depend on. It's the same with the mind. If you're afraid to face up to pain,
the mind will never have any control over itself at all. It will never become
something you really can depend on. It will always flinch under the pain, unwilling
to do this, unwilling to do that, because it's afraid. And when that's what your
mind is like, where are you going to find anything to depend on? Where are your
true friends at that point? Even your own mind isn't a friend.
So when the
mind has settled down and really feels at home in the present moment, working
with pain is an excellent way of training it. Through this you can come to see
that the mind will obey you not only when you make it comfortable, but also when
you test it, when you give it work to do. That's when you have a mind you can
really take as your refuge.
The Components of Suffering
May, 2003
Let
your mind settle in. Stay with the breath. There's nowhere else you have to go,
nothing else you have to do right now. Just be with your breathing. When the breath
comes in, you know it's coming in. When the breath goes out, you know it's going
out. Allow it to come in and go out in a way that feels good and refreshing. If
you're feeling tired, you may want to breathe in a way that's energizing. If you're
feeling frenetic, breathe in a way that's more calming. Gain a sense of what the
breath can do for the body and the mind here in the present moment.
Do what
you can to put the mind in a good mood. In other words, if you approach the process
of meditation with a lot of anxiety, with a lot of frustration, that anxiety and
frustration will show up in the breath and simply make things worse. So remind
yourself: Not too much is demanded of you right now, just being with the breath.
If you notice you've wandered off, just bring the mind right back. If it wanders
off again, bring it back again and try to make the breath even more comfortable.
As you keep at this, you find that the mind develops a stronger and stronger foundation,
a place where it can stay, a place where it really feels safe, where it feels
at home, where it can look at the larger issues in life and not mess them up.
The Buddha talks about suffering as his number one truth, and when we hear
about that, many of us want to run away. We feel that we have enough suffering
in life; we don't want to hear about it anymore. But the Buddha's whole reason
for teaching about suffering is because he has a cure. To work that cure, though,
you first have to get the mind in good shape, because most of us, when we deal
with suffering, simply make the issue worse. We feel threatened by it, we feel
surrounded by it, we start getting desperate, and in our desperation we do all
kinds of things that are harmful, both to ourselves and to people around us.
So
first get the mind in a good mood. All you need is the breath coming in and out
with a sense of wellbeing. If you're really observant and become familiar with
the breath over time, you find that that sense of wellbeing starts permeating
throughout other parts of your life as well. And when you've got a sense of wellbeing
you can depend on, then you can turn to the issue of suffering to see exactly
what suffering is, looking at it not so much out of desperation as out of curiosity.
As the Buddha said, the best way to deal with suffering is to comprehend it, as
in the passage we chanted just now. He said most people don't discern suffering.
We suffer, we feel it, but we don't discern it, we don't understand it. The Buddha
said that if you understand it, you can manage it, you can put an end to it. If
you don't understand it, you just keep on suffering and never put an end to it
at all.
In his first sermon he describes suffering: the suffering of birth,
the suffering of aging, the suffering of illness, the suffering of death, of being
separated from what you love, of being conjoined with things you don't like, of
not getting what you want. That seems to be a pretty good summation, but then
he boils it down to even more basic terms. This is where the discussion gets technical.
He analyses suffering down to five heaps, five clinging-aggregates: form imbued
with clinging, feeling imbued with clinging, perceptions, thought-fabrications,
and consciousness, all imbued with clinging. The clinging is the important element.
It's what turns ordinary form, feeling, and so forth, into suffering.
We're
often told that these aggregates are the Buddha's description of what we are,
but that wasn't his purpose in formulating this teaching. His purpose was to give
us tools for breaking suffering down into manageable pieces. For most of us, suffering
is an enormous issue, much larger and more pressing than the abstract question
of who or what we are. When suffering comes, it overwhelms us. We can't stand
up under its weight. In fact that's one of the traditional definitions of suffering:
that which is hard to bear. And it's hard to bear because we feel overwhelmed.
When it hits hard, it seems like an enormous mountain filling our awareness. We
can't get a handle on it. The purpose of dividing it into these five heaps is
to break the mountain down into gravel, and the gravel down into dust. This helps
us realize that no matter what the type of suffering -- whether it's the suffering
of aging, illness, death, the suffering of separation, the suffering of not getting
what we want -- it can all be analyzed into just five sorts of things. That's
all it is. And furthermore we can look at these five sorts of things and see that
there's nothing there worth suffering over. We build enormous narratives around
our pains, but what are those narratives? They're just perceptions combined with
the thought-fabrications built out of them. If we cling to those narratives they're
going to make us suffer. But if we take them apart, we see that there's nothing
much there.
So the Buddha has us focus, not so much on the story line, but
on the building blocks we use to put the story line together. If you get down
to the building blocks, you begin to see how artificial this whole process is
-- because these aggregates are not things. They're actually activities, things
we do. We suffer because we cling to certain activities, certain movements of
the mind. So to cut through this clinging, you have to keep breaking your suffering
down and analyzing it: What's going on here? Suppose there's a pain in your leg
and you're suffering from it. What's going on there? There's the form of the body,
and then there are the actual feelings of pain. And then there are the perceptions,
the labels you put on the feeling; the thought-fabrications, the stories you build
around the feeling; and then the consciousness, the repeated acts of being conscious
of all these things.
So instead of building up the stories around the feeling
-- getting angry about the feeling, getting upset about it, worrying about it
-- if the mind is calm enough you can start taking the suffering surrounding the
feeling apart. What's going on? What's actually there? There's the form of the
body, which is actually separate from the feeling, although we often glom the
two together. If there's a pain in our knee, it feels like our whole knee is nothing
but pain. But if you look at it carefully, there's the form of your body, and
then there are the feelings flickering around the form. They're not a single,
solid thing. Many times we perceive the feeling to be a solid thing, but now we're
taking that perception apart. Actually there's not just one perception. There
are many repeated perceptions, just as there are many moments of feeling. This
is why these things are called khandhas, or heaps. Like heaps of gravel or heaps
of sand, they're made out of small individual events, small individual motions,
either physical motions or mental motions. So you break them down, break them
down. And once they're broken down, they're not too big to handle. You can change
them. For example, those perceptions you applied to the feelings: What happens
if you change them from perceptions of "pain" to simply perceptions
of "sensation"?
Or you can try to analyze the sensation into its
physical aspects: the sensation of warmth or heat, or maybe a sense of blockage
that feels solid. If you actually take those solid feelings apart, though, you
begin to see they're not so solid after all.
Then there are the stories you
build up around the sensations, the fears of what will happen if you don't do
something about the pain. If you sit here for the next hour, is your leg going
to fall off? Will you harm the tissues of the body by cutting off the blood? The
mind can build up all sorts of stories about the sensations, but instead of looking
at the stories and getting caught up in the story line, just look at them as words
coming through the mind without your having to believe them. Simply watch the
stories as individual words. Then you begin to see that if you cling to the story
line, you make the pain worse. So why cling to it? You don't have to follow the
story line. It's not a movie you've paid to see. You're not missing anything important
if you don't follow it through to the end.
So what you want to do is take
the suffering apart into its component parts and locate the clinging that turns
those component parts into the suffering. If you take each component part on it's
own, it's not all that bad. The aggregate itself is not suffering. There can be
a pain in the leg but we suffer simply because we identify with it, we lay claim
to it as ours. That's why we suffer. Without the act of identification, without
the clinging, there would be no suffering. The mental label that says "mine"
or "my pain," "my leg," or whatever: What happens if you drop
it? You don't have to think it. There's nobody forcing you to think it. There's
simply the force of habit. And habits can be changed.
As you take the suffering
apart into little bits and pieces like this, it's a lot more manageable. Many
times the pain may still be there, but there's no suffering. Or sometimes when
you're not worked up about it, the pain actually goes away. Some physical pains
are physical in their causes; others are more mental in theirs. Even physical
pain has its mental component, as the mind chooses which sensations to focus on
and which ones to ignore, which ones to downplay and which ones to magnify with
its stories and running commentary. You can see this mental component clearly
when you stop the commentary, or when you just step back and watch the commentary
as you would something curious, and say "Well, why would I believe that?",
and suddenly the suffering goes away. Whether or not the pain is still there,
the suffering is gone. That's when you see that the issue was not the pain but
the unnecessary suffering you created by clinging to these feelings and perceptions.
When you see clearly the things you've been clinging to, and that they're not
really worth clinging to, the suffering breaks down. The mountain is leveled and
pulverized into dust. When you've mastered this skill, that's the end of suffering.
Giving Rise to Discernment
October 29, 2002
We meditate, developing
mindfulness, developing concentration, and after a while we begin to wonder, "When
is the discernment going to come? When are the insights going to come?" So
it's instructive to look at the Buddha's analysis of what gives rise to discernment.
Mindfulness and concentration are prerequisites, but there's more. And in searching
for that "more," it's especially instructive to look at two sets of
qualities that the Buddha said lead to Awakening -- the five strengths and the
seven factors for Awakening -- to learn their lessons on what gives rise to discernment,
what's needed for insights to arise. Otherwise you can meditate for twenty, thirty,
forty years -- as Ajaan Lee says, you could die and your body could dry out on
the spot -- and still not gain any discernment, because you're lacking some of
the proper qualities.
The five strengths -- a set of factors that culminate
in discernment -- are interesting because they start out, not with ideas that
you've heard from someone else in terms of what Buddhist discernment is about.
They start with the quality of conviction. Conviction in what? Conviction in the
principle of kamma. That's what it comes down to -- conviction in the principle
that our actions do matter. Some people have problems with the teaching on kamma,
but what exactly is the Buddha asking you to believe in when he asks you to have
conviction in kamma? First, action really is happening -- it's not an illusion.
Second, you really are responsible for your actions. There's no outside force
like the stars or some good or evil being acting through you. When you're conscious,
you're the one who decides what to do. Third, your actions have results -- you're
not just writing on the water -- and those results can be good or bad depending
on the quality of the intention behind the act.
So the teaching on kamma puts
you in charge of shaping your life. It's a good teaching to believe in. And how
does this relate to discernment? It provides the basis for the questions you're
going to ask to give rise to discernment. And because the principle of kamma places
a lot of emphasis on the need to act on skillful intentions to get the good results
you want, the basic question becomes: How can you tell whether an intention is
skillful or unskillful?
Together with conviction you need the quality of heedfulness:
the realization that if you're not careful about your actions you can create a
lot of suffering for yourself and for those around you. Heedfulness is said to
underlie the development of the five strengths leading up to discernment. It's
the quality that makes sure you're going to pay close attention to what you're
doing, close attention to your intentions, close attention to the results of your
actions -- as in the passage where the Buddha's instructing Rahula, his son. Before
you do something, he tells Rahula, ask yourself, "What's the intention here?
Why am I doing this? Is it going to lead to suffering or not?" Only if the
intention looks good should you act on it. Then, while you're acting, you check
the results of your action. After the action is done you check again, because
while some results are immediate, others are long term. So conviction in kamma
focuses your attention at the right spot and gets you asking the right questions.
Heedfulness gives urgency to your investigation. And the two of them together
lead to discernment.
The teachings on the seven factors for Awakening are
similar. You start out with mindfulness. The Buddha teaches you to be mindful
of the body in and of itself, feelings in and of themselves, mind states, mental
qualities in and of themselves. Why? So that you can be really clear on what your
actions are and what the results are. If you're concerned with other issues --
as the Buddha says, "things in the world," things that other people
are doing -- you miss what you're doing. So you focus right here, get yourself
in the present moment, not simply because the present moment is a good moment
in and of itself, but because it's the only place where you're going to see your
intentions in action.
In this way, mindfulness puts you in a position to develop
the second factor for Awakening: the discernment factor, called "analysis
of qualities." The qualities here are qualities in the mind, mental states,
in the present. The food for this factor is appropriate attention to the skillful
and unskillful states arising in the mind. You pay attention to the intentions
you act on, trying to see what's skillful and what's not. And again the test for
judging whether your actions are skillful is by their results: How much harm do
they cause? How much happiness? Discernment focuses on actions in terms of cause
and effect, and works at developing greater and greater skill in acting, greater
and greater sensitivity in evaluating and learning from the results of your actions,
to the point where your actions are so skillful that they lead to the Deathless.
This may sound unusual, for we're often taught that Buddhist discernment focuses
on seeing things in terms of the three characteristics: inconstancy, stress, and
not-self. We're taught to look for the inconstancy, the impermanence of things,
and then to see that if they're inconstant they must be stressful; if they're
stressful they must be not-self. Well, those teachings have to be placed in context,
and that context is the act of judging the results of our actions. The three characteristics
are designed so that we don't content ourselves with only a middling level of
skillfulness. In other words, you might be skillful enough to have a good job,
a nice place to live, a good family life -- in other words, ordinary, mundane
wellbeing -- and a lot of people get satisfied right there. Or you might get satisfied
with a nice state of concentration. You might be able to get the mind centered
pretty much at will; things don't disturb you too much. A lot of people stop right
there -- it's good enough for them.
This is where the teachings on the three
characteristics kick in, in judging the results of your actions: "Are they
really satisfactory? Do they give permanent, constantly dependable results?"
Well, no. If they don't, then you're setting yourself up for stress, suffering,
disappointment. You're setting yourself to latch onto things that aren't totally
under your control. In other words, they're not yours. You can't say, "Okay,
body, don't get old. Go back and get younger, the way you were, say, five or ten
years ago." You can't tell your painful feelings to turn into pleasure. You
can't arrange for only good and useful thoughts to come into your mind. The purpose
of the three characteristics is to keep you from getting complacent. They help
foster heedfulness, so that your standards for judging your actions stay high.
In judging the results of your actions, you're not going to settle for anything
that falls under the three characteristics. You'll keeping trying to become more
skillful in your actions until you gain results that aren't inconstant or stressful,
results where self and not-self don't apply.
In modern culture it's considered
psychologically unhealthy to set very high standards for yourself. What does that
do? It creates a society of very middling people, mediocre people, people who
experience a mediocre level of happiness. The Buddha, though, was very demanding,
first with himself, and then with his followers. He said, "Don't satisfy
yourself with just ordinary, everyday wellbeing," because it's not well all
the time. When set your sights, set them on something of more permanent value,
what he called "the noble search": the search for what doesn't age,
doesn't grow ill, doesn't die, for a happiness that doesn't change.
So the
three characteristics in and of themselves are not the totality of Buddhist wisdom,
Buddhist discernment. They have to be placed in context, the context of the question
of skillfulness: "What are you doing? What are your intentions? What are
the results of your actions based on those intentions? Are you content with them
or do you want better?" The three characteristics spur you on to be more
demanding of yourself, saying, "I want better than this. I've got this human
life; what can I do to get the most out of it?" And the answer should be,
"I'm going to do the best I can to find true happiness, something dependable,
something to show for all the suffering I've been through as I take birth, age,
grow ill, and die."
So we should think about these issues as we meditate.
We're not getting into the present moment just to stop there. That would be like
someone who, after wading through a dense jungle, finally gets to a road -- and
then lies down on the road, forgetting that the road is there to be followed to
see where it leads you. When you get into the present moment, that's not enough.
You have to learn how to ask yourself the right questions about the present moment,
in particular, "What are your intentions right now, and what results do they
have? Where are they going to take you?"
Intentions just don't float
in and out of the mind without leaving a trace. They leave their mark. They do
have results. Are you satisfied with the results? If not, what can you do to get
better results? Learning how to ask these questions, the Buddha said, is what
gives rise to discernment so that your actions go beyond just the ordinary, mundane
level. As he pointed out, there are four kinds of action: actions that are skillful
on a mundane level, actions that are not skillful on the mundane level, actions
that are mixed, and then actions that take you beyond the mundane level, that
open you up to the Deathless and bring you to the end of action. That fourth kind
of action is what he says is really worthwhile. That's what's special about his
teaching. That's what's distinctive about his teaching. He discovered that the
principles of causality work in such a way that you can bring yourself to the
Uncaused by being as skillful as possible in what you do. And the discernment
that shows you how to act in those ways, that detects what in your intentions
is skillful and what's unskillful, what in the results of your actions are satisfactory
or not: That's what guides you in the right direction.
You take your desire
for happiness, and you take it seriously. It's not that the Buddha condemns all
craving. There's a passage where he says, "There is a kind of craving that
has good results -- the craving that leads you away from repeatedly wandering
on, the desire to get out of this wandering, to discontinue this wandering."
So you take that desire -- which is what the expression of metta is all about,
the desire for happiness, both for yourself and other people -- and you add to
it the conviction that you can do things that lead to happiness. You take that
desire, you take that conviction, you put them together with a good dash of heedfulness,
and then you try to watch as skillfully as you can to see what you're doing. Monitor
the results of your practice and adjust them as necessary. These factors all taken
together are the recipe for the discernment that leads to release.
There's
no one technique that can guarantee that you'll gain discernment, just as there's
no one technique that has a monopoly on giving rise to discernment. The techniques
are things that you use in your quest for discernment, but your quest has to be
informed by more than techniques. It has to be informed by the right questions,
by the right qualities of mind, by the rigor you bring to your attention to what
you're doing, by your willingness to set the highest possible standards for yourself,
your unwillingness to settle for a happiness that falls under the three characteristics.
That's how liberating discernment comes about.
Producing Experience
November 12, 2002
A friend of mine once wrote a novel about a storytelling
contest between the gods of the Taoist heaven. In the course of the novel you
read about the gods conducting their story contest -- it's the male gods lined
up against the female gods, but there are traitors on both sides -- and you also
read the story they invent, alternating from one side to the next. The story's
full of all kinds of suffering: A young woman gets sold as a slave to get her
parents out of debt; her new master is a good person, but he dies off pretty quickly;
he's got an evil brother, and all kinds of horrible things happen; there are floods,
fires, suicides, lots of injustice -- what makes for a great story but a miserable
life. And then at the very end of the novel Kuan Yin appears and tells the Taoist
gods, "Well, now that you've told this story, you're going to have to go
down there and live it." The last image in the novel is of the Taoist gods
all tumbling out of heaven down to the earth they've despised so much below. Of
course, Kuan Yin here represents what Buddhism did to China: It brought in the
teaching on kamma.
We're creating our lives. And even when the mind seems
to be simply spinning its wheels, it's not just idly spinning its wheels. It's
creating new states of being, new possibilities -- some of which are good, some
of which are not so good. You have to keep that principle always in mind as you're
meditating. You're not simply here innocently watching what's going on without
any responsibility for what you're experiencing. You're responsible for your experiences
-- through your actions in the past and in the present moment. On the one hand,
this sounds a little onerous because nobody likes to take responsibility. On the
other hand, though, it's empowering. If you don't like the present moment, you
can create a new present moment because the opportunities to do so are endless.
We're not just consumers of experiences. We're also producers. We have to
keep this principle in mind as we go through the practice. Our training in the
precepts reminds us that we shape our life by the choices we make in what we say
and do. Our training in concentration teaches us that how we approach the present
moment is going to make a big difference in how the moment is experienced. You
can develop skill in the way you focus on the breath, the way you adjust the breath,
the way you develop sensitivity to what's going on in the body. These are all
things you do as a producer of experiences, and you can learn to do them more
and more skillfully to create a sense of wellbeing in the present moment.
Even
when there's pain in the body, even when there are other difficult issues in life,
you can create a still center for yourself. You don't have to be a victim of what
comes in from outside. You don't have to be a victim of whatever comes welling
up from within the mind. You have a role right here, right now, in shaping things,
and -- as you develop more mindfulness, develop more alertness, as your powers
of concentration get more and more solid -- you have the tools you need to make
that present experience a lot more livable.
The same principle holds true
as we try to develop discernment. We're often told that discernment consists of
seeing things as inconstant; and because they're inconstant, they're stressful;
and because they're stressful, they're not-self. Now, most of us in the West are
used to consuming our experiences. We don't buy a Ford Explorer. We buy the Ford
Explorer experience. We go to Yosemite for the Yosemite experience. If we take
the Buddha's teachings on discernment out of context and put them in our normal
consuming mode, what do they seem to say? They seem to say, "Life is short.
Experiences are fleeting. Grab as much pleasure as you can." And since you
can't hold onto things for too long before they change, you have to try to embrace
them, appreciate them, squeeze as much as you can out of your experiences, and
then be quick to let go before they start falling apart. But that's okay because
other experiences will come along, so that you never run out of things to embrace.
In other words the teaching seems to be telling us how to be expert connoisseurs
in consuming our experiences.
Taking the teachings out of context leads to
other misunderstandings as well. You begin to think, "If everything's impermanent,
why spend all this time trying to develop concentration? It's all going to end
someday anyhow. Why try to develop good qualities in the mind? They'll all come
to nothing eventually. Why don't we just accept what we've got and learn to enjoy
that?" But that's taking the teachings out of context.
When the Buddha
taught the teachings of discernment, he started with questions of, "What's
skillful? What's unskillful? What can I do that will lead to long-term happiness?"
This is the first set of questions you're supposed to ask to develop discernment.
If you look at your normal patterns of consumption, you begin to realize that
a lot of them are very unskillful: They lead to only short-term types of happiness.
And you realize it's not just the consumption, but it's also what you do to produce
these experiences that's unskillful. You find yourself acting on greed, anger,
passion, fear, just to get the experiences you want.
So to get out of that
pattern you want to develop the skills that will make your happiness more solid,
longer lasting, less likely to turn on you and eat you up. This is the type of
discernment that underlies development in terms of virtue and concentration. You
refrain from the activities that would lead to instant gratification but long-term
regret, long-term remorse. You develop qualities of mind that create a sense of
greater wellbeing that doesn't have to depend on outside stimuli, that can stand
up against any kind of outside situation.
Once you've developed these qualities,
you take the process of discernment a little bit deeper. Use that principle of
inconstancy to ask, "Is there anything that's not inconstant? Do I have to
keep on producing, producing, producing for the rest of eternity? Isn't there
a type of happiness that doesn't require that?" So you turn and look more
carefully at the type of happiness you're creating. Then you run into the question
of, "Who's consuming this? What is this consumer? What is this producer?"
You begin to see that the consumer is also made up of khandhas you've produced.
And this insight makes the whole process seem even more futile. Why would you
want to get involved in this process -- creating experiences for experiences to
enjoy? From this point of view, even long-term happiness isn't good enough. Your
powers of sensitivity have been sharpened. Your insight into the process of production
and consumption has gotten sharper as well. And when you finally reach the point
where you see that it's not necessary, you let go.
If you were only a consumer,
it'd be easy enough to continue enjoying things that are inconstant as long as
you've learned to mind your manners in how you embrace things -- hugging without
grabbing -- but as a producer there comes a point when you get tired of producing.
You've had enough. You see that all the effort going into producing is simply
not worth it. That's the insight that allows you to drop things, that allows you
to let go.
And it's in that context that the teachings on the three characteristics
have their true meaning, play their true role. Like the storytellers in the novel,
we have to be careful about what we're creating because we're going to have to
live in what we create. Keep asking yourself, "Is this good enough? Am I
satisfied with what I'm creating?" -- because it's not an easy task to stop
creating. If it were easy, we wouldn't have to sit here and meditate so hard.
It's difficult and, whether we like what we're creating or not, we keep on creating.
That's the problem.
So as long as you're going to create, try to create as
good a world for yourself as you can, as good a world for the people around you
as you can, until you've developed the qualities where you can look into this
world-production activity in your mind, this factory that keeps churning things
out moment-by-moment-by-moment, to see if you can take it apart.
It sounds
a little scary, but then the Buddha promises that once you take these things apart,
there comes a happiness that nothing that you've created can ever compare to.
This promise, together with the reality of that uncreated, unfabricated level
of happiness: that's what makes all this work we're doing here more than worthwhile.
Mastering Causality
May, 2001
They tell us that the heart of the
Buddha's Awakening was discovering the principle of causality, how cause and effect
work to shape your experience. It sounds pretty abstract but it's actually directly
related to what you're experiencing right now. In other words, there's the result
of past kamma, there's your present kamma, and there's the result of present kamma.
Those are the three things you're experiencing at any given moment.
Of course
when we start out, it all tends to be mixed together. It's just experience. We
don't see these patterns, we don't see the component factors as separate and distinct,
so things seem pretty random. But if you learn how to look at what you're doing
right now, you come to see that you're not totally passive. The things you're
experiencing are not just coming in at you. There's an active side to the mind
that goes out and shapes them, adds a little here, takes away a little bit there.
You're getting sensitive to that aspect of the mind, to what you're doing right
now. That's a large part of the insight you need to gain in the meditation.
Most
of us are like a man who goes storming into a room, acting in an offensive way,
and then later complains, "The people in the room seemed awfully defensive,
awfully unfriendly" -- as if he didn't have any impact on the atmosphere
of the room through his actions, through the way he entered the room.
So how
are you storming into the present moment? One way to find out is by checking on
the breath. Exactly what are you doing with the breath right now? Is the breathing
a totally passive, automatic process, or are you doing something to the breath?
Is there some level of the mind that's making decisions? One way to find out is
to make conscious decisions about the breath, nudging it a little bit here, a
little bit there. We're not talking about making huge differences in the breath,
just making gradual changes in whichever direction seems most comfortable.
As
you do this you begin to realize that your present experience of pleasure or pain
depends on decisions you're making right now. You begin to get more sensitive
to what the mind is doing, particularly in terms of its perceptions and thought-fabrications,
and how these relate to your feelings.
Perceptions are the labels you put
on things. For example, you may experience the body as something solid breathing
in and breathing out. Well, you can change that perception. See everything you
sense in the body right now as an aspect of the breath property. Look at it that
way: every sensation as a type of breath sensation. See what that does to your
sensation of the body, the way you relate to it, the way you evaluate it, the
way you breathe.
And then your thought-fabrications: Use them to ask questions.
How about breathing this way? How about breathing that way? And so you give it
a try.
As you do this, you get a greater and greater sense of how much you
really are shaping your present experience. Then you can take this insight and
apply it to issues of pain, both physical pain and mental pain. Most of us tend
to think of ourselves as passive recipients, victims of a particular pain attacking
us. There doesn't seem much we can do about it. That's because we have a habitual
way of reacting to pain. Unless we can change that habit, we're not going to see
much improvement in the issue of why we're suffering, of how we suffer.
But
if you really look at a physical pain, you realize that while part of it comes
from something wrong with the body, another part comes from what the mind is doing
to manage the experience of pain: the way it paints a mental picture of the pain,
the way it latches onto that mental picture, what it's doing to maintain the pain
in a particular way or to move it in a particular direction. That's going on all
the time, yet we're not really aware of how much we're contributing to our own
pain. That's the big issue. That's the first noble truth: the pain we're creating
through our clinging, craving, and ignorance.
To see these things, you have
to be very, very sensitive to the present moment and very sensitive to what your
input is. This is why concentration is so important, getting the mind really still
so that it can see these things very precisely. For instance, when pain arises
we tend to miss the fact that the mind is constantly labeling it, "Pain,
pain, pain, pain, pain." And in addition to the label of "pain"
we sometimes paint a picture of it to ourselves. That act of labeling, if there's
clinging along with it, contributes to the pain. And when you get really sensitive
to the movements of the mind -- and this requires getting the breath really still
so that it's not interfering with what you're seeing -- you see that there's a
constant repetition going on in the mind. Sometimes the labeling, the clinging,
and the repetition are so insistent that the physical cause of the pain has long
since gone. The act of clinging is the actual pain you're experiencing now.
So
when you learn how to see, "Oh, there's that mental label going again, there
it goes again, there it goes again": Can you stop it? See what happens when
you stop it, when you just drop it. You'll find that your experience of the pain
changes. That's when you gain insight into the issue of what you're doing in the
present moment, how you contribute to the shape of your experience.
That's
a lot of the meditation right there -- just sensitizing the mind to what it's
doing. Most often that's our big blind spot: what we're doing right now. We're
so conscious of what other people are doing -- "They did this to me, they
did that to me" -- but we're not looking at what we're doing, which is why
what they're doing causes us pain. Many times you can't avoid what's coming at
you from the outside -- it's past kamma -- but you can avoid the unskillful ways
you're reacting to it. Sometimes you find that the way you're reacting to the
situation feeds back into the situation, influencing what those other people are
doing and making the situation worse. But even when that's not the case, you find
that your suffering really comes from the way you relate to the outside situation.
That's what the first noble truth is all about, clinging to the five aggregates:
clinging to the form of the body, clinging to your feelings, perceptions, thought-fabrications,
or consciousness. When you stop clinging to these aggregates, then even though
they're still impermanent and there still may be some stress in them, it doesn't
weigh on the mind. The bridge has been cut so that it doesn't connect. You stop
lifting things up, as in Ajaan Suwat's image: The mountain may be heavy in and
of itself, but if you're not trying to lift it up then it's not heavy for you.
So you've got to see where you're doing your heavy lifting and then try to
understand why. Only when you understand why you're doing things can you really
stop. Sometimes in the course of a meditation you can force yourself to stop,
but if there's no real understanding, then as soon as the mind gets back to its
old ways, it goes lifting things, picking them up, carrying them around again.
But if you look into why you're lifting these things, what misunderstandings lie
behind what you're doing, why you feel that you have to carry these things around:
That's a lot of the insight right there.
It's an old habit, the way the mind
contributes to things in the present moment, particularly the ways it causes itself
unnecessary suffering. We think that an undercurrent of suffering is a necessary
part of experience, but it's not. When you see it as stress, when you see it as
a burden and you realize that it's not necessary, that's when you really let go.
So check on exactly where your clinging is right now, where you're contributing
to unnecessary suffering. Try to make the mind as still as possible and then stay
there to observe: "Is there still some stress here? Is there still a sense
of burdensomeness here? What else is going along with that? Can you see any activity,
any intention that's going along with that stress?" And if you catch sight
of that activity, that intention, you drop it.
It's almost invariably something
you didn't realize you were doing, something you were holding onto, in the sense
of repeating it mindlessly. Sometimes you're aware that you're holding onto the
act of intention, but you think you've got to hold on: "This is the core
of my being, this is who I am, this is the way my mind has to work." Well,
it doesn't have to work that way. Learn how to question those assumptions. Learn
how to let go a little bit. This loosens things up in the mind. The things you
never saw before, now you suddenly see.
This burden you create for yourself
is totally unnecessary. What you thought was necessary, the way things had to
be: They don't have to be that way at all. That's the whole message of the Buddha's
Awakening: the principle of causality we've been talking about. He applied it
to see how the suffering the mind experiences in the present moment is not necessary.
That's why the principle of causality was so important. He realized the input
he was putting into the present moment that was creating the suffering and he
learned to stop.
And what happened when there was no input in the present
moment? As we meditate we find that our input gets more and more and more subtle.
Oftentimes we're not even aware of any input. We tell ourselves that we're sitting
here perfectly peaceful, perfectly calm, nothing's going on, but actually there's
a lot going on in the mind that we're missing. It's in a blind spot. When you
begin to see that blind spot, begin to let go of what's in there, that's when
things open up, that's when the meditation can really start making a radical change
in the mind. A lot of the relationships in your mind -- where you thought, "This
is that way and that's this way" -- you begin to realize are not necessarily
so. And the realization that they're not necessary: That's where the liberation
lies.
So a continuity runs throughout the whole process of meditation from
the very beginning. If, while you're sitting here, the mind slips off, just bring
it right back. If it slips off again, just bring it right back again. Even this
much can make you more conscious of what you're doing in the present moment. You
get more conscious of how the mind has its blind spots and you learn to make them
more and more and more subtle, less dominant in the mind. In other words, you
try to cut through them as much as you can. What happens, of course, is that they
find more subtle ways to hide, but at least you gain a measure of control over
the mind and a greater sense of what you're doing in the present moment.
That's
crucial to the meditation. You keep applying that principle to more subtle levels,
for the same principle holds all the way through. It's just that as you keep working
on it, it requires more precision. But that's something you can develop. After
all, this is a skill. That's another one of the Buddha's great discoveries. The
ability to learn the path to liberation is a skill you can master in the same
way that you master other skills: looking at the results of your actions, reflecting
back on what you did, and trying to adjust things so that they keep getting more
and more precise, more and more subtle, less burdensome to the mind.
Awakening
isn't something that just drops on people without their being aware of what they're
doing. It's not an accident or something that comes from outside. It requires
that you get really sensitive to this teaching on kamma: "I am the owner
of my actions." You're acting right now, so be very careful about what you
do, in the same way that you'd be very careful about building a fire, careful
about sharpening a knife, careful about all the other skills you need in life.
It's just that, in dealing with the mind, you need to be even more careful, even
more precise. It requires more subtlety. But this simple process of just getting
more skillful in how you relate to the present moment: That can take you all the
way to Awakening.
And that right there is revolutionary.
The Six
Properties
March, 2003
In English we have a very limited vocabulary for
describing how the body feels from the inside. We feel "tingly" or we
feel "heavy." We have ants crawling on our skin or butterflies in our
stomachs. There are not that many words, and nothing really systematic. This is
where the Buddha's teaching on the properties is helpful. It provides a systematic
way of categorizing the feelings you have in the body -- how the body feels from
the inside -- along with a sense of what you can do with those feelings. This
teaching also gives you a very clear sense of how much your present input shapes
the way you experience the body, and an immediate, very visceral way of using
that present input to balance things out, to make the body an easier place in
which to settle down.
The texts list the properties as six: earth, water,
wind, fire, space, and consciousness. It sounds like medieval chemistry. We'd
do better though, to look at these properties as ways of categorizing the sensations
that make up the way the body feels from the inside. The earth sensations are
feelings of heaviness or solidity; water would be cool sensations; fire is of
course warm; wind is the motion back and forth; space is the feelings of emptiness;
and consciousness is the property that's aware of all these things.
The theory
behind these properties is that they get provoked. In other words, as they get
emphasized, as some incident strengthens them or kicks them into action, they
get stronger. On the external level, natural events occur when the external properties
get provoked. Floods come from the provocation of the water property; huge fires
or intense heat, from the provocation of the fire property; huge winds, from the
provocation of the wind property. Interestingly, the texts also attribute earthquakes
to the wind property. This means that wind refers not only to the wind in the
air, but also to the motion down in the earth. Apparently earth was the only property
that wasn't provokable, on the external level at least, but it would move when
the wind property got into the act.
Whatever we may think of these concepts
as ways of describing external events, they're a very useful way of looking at
internal events, at the experience of the body as sensed from within. Classically,
the internal properties are used to explain disease. Giddiness or lightheadedness
is a sign of too much wind property, a sign that the wind property has been provoked.
With fever, of course, the fire property has been provoked. A feeling of lethargy
or heaviness in your limbs is a sign of too much earth property.
These are
things you can play with in your meditation. That's where the teaching really
becomes useful, because it allows you to see how the way you focus on the body
has an impact on how you perceive the body, how you actually sense the body. We
think of sensations as being primary, the raw material, the basic building blocks
of experience, but there are conscious decisions being made that precede the sensations.
Look at the teaching on dependent origination. Sankhara, or "fabrication"
is way down there, prior to the sensations you feel in terms of form, feeling,
and so forth.
So how are you going to fabricate the body? If there are feelings
of tension in the body, sometimes that's a sign of too much earth property, so
you can think of the breath. This is one of the reasons we start with the breath.
It's the property that's most easily manipulated -- classically it's called the
kaya-sankhara, the factor that fashions the body. It's also the property that
most directly works through tension. Wherever there's a sense of tension, focus
on it and see if you can get a sense of gentle, healing motion going through it.
The potential for motion is there, simply that the perception contributing to
the tension has blocked it. So you can consciously decide that you're going to
perceive motion there. Give it a chance to happen, and the potential for motion,
the potential for movement through that part of the nervous system, will get strengthened,
will get aroused -- which may be a better way of translating the word that I just
translated as "provoked." The breath-potential gets aroused. When your
awareness of the breath is aroused or heightened, it can move through that sense
of blockage.
When you're feeling giddy or manic, you can think of the earth
property to settle things down. If there's just too much frenetic energy in the
body, you can think of your bones being made of iron, of your hands and feet weighing
a ton. Wherever you have a sense of solidity in the body, focus on that and try
to magnify it. You find that your choice of the image you're using, your purpose
in choosing it, will really affect the way you start sensing that part of the
body. Then you can take that sensation and spread it out, connecting it with other
sensations of solidity in the body. The potential for solidity is always there.
When you're feeling depressed and weighed down, think of lighter sensations,
of the breath giving a lift to the different parts of the body. When you're hot,
think of the water property. Focus on whatever sensations in the body are cooler
than the others. Really keep your focus right there, and think "water, water"
or "cool, cool." You'll find that other cool sensations in the body
will appear to your awareness. The potential for them was waiting, simply that
they needed the element of present intention to highlight them.
When you're
feeling cold, focus in on warmth. There will be some part of the body that's warmer
than the others, so focus in on it. Think of the warmth staying there and spreading
to other parts of the body where other warm sensations will get aroused.
You
can do this at any stage in the concentration, although it's most effective when
the breath is still. At that point the body feels like a cloud of mist, little
points of sensation, and each little sensation has the potential to be any one
of these four properties. When your sense of the body is reduced to what the French
would call pointillism, it's a lot easier, simply with a thought, to emphasize
either the heaviness or the lightness, the movement, the warmth or the coolness
of those sensations, the sensation-potentials you've got there. This way you accomplish
two things at once. On the one hand you balance out the body. Whenever one type
of sensation feels too oppressive, you can think of the opposing sensation to
balance it out. On the other, you start seeing the role of present intention in
your awareness, in your experience of the present moment in a very visceral way.
When things grow very still and balanced in terms of these four properties,
with this mist of potential sensations that can go in any direction, you can also
focus on the space between the points. Realize that the space is boundless. It
goes through the body and out in all directions. Just think that: "infinite
space." Stay with the sensation of infinite space that comes along with the
perception. The potential for it is always there; it's simply that the perception
arouses it. It's a very pleasant state to get in. Things seem a lot less solid,
a lot less oppressive. You don't feel so trapped in the body.
Ajaan Fuang
once had a student, an old woman, who started practicing meditation with him when
he was getting ready to leave Wat Asokaram. After he left, she had to practice
on her own for quite a while. One evening, when she was sitting in meditation
with the group in the meditation hall, a voice came to her and said, "You're
going to die tonight." She was a little taken aback, but then she reminded
herself, "Well, if I'm going to die, the best way is to die meditating."
So she just sat there and watched to see what would happen as the body dies, to
see what it would be like. There was an actual sensation of the body beginning
to fall apart. "All of the various properties were going their separate ways,"
she said, "like a house on fire. There was no place in the body where you
could focus your awareness and have any sense of comfort at all." So for
a moment she felt lost, but then she remembered, "Well, there's the space
property." So she focused in on the space property, and all that sense of
the house on fire suddenly disappeared. There was a very strong sense of infinite
space. There was always the potential to go back to the body. (This is something
you'll notice when you're at this point in your meditation: There are the spots
that could provide a potential for the form of the body but you chose not to focus
on them. Instead you focus on the sense of space in between and all around. There's
a sense of boundlessness that goes with it.)
When she came out of meditation,
of course, she hadn't died. She was still alive. But she had learned an important
lesson, that when things get really bad in the body you can always go to space.
Even though it's not Awakening, and it's not the unconditioned, still it's a lot
better than being immersed in turmoil along with the properties in the body.
So
the properties provide a useful way of looking at the potentials in the present
moment. They also make it easier to get to that sense of awareness itself that
you read about so much in the writings of the Thai Ajaans. Once you're with infinite
space, drop the perception of "space" and see what's left. There will
just be a perception of knowing, knowing, knowing, which takes its place. You
don't have to ask, "Knowing what?" There's just awareness, awareness,
or knowing, knowing.
Once you've got everything divided up into properties
like this, you've got the raw materials for gaining insight. The terms of analysis
may initially seem strange, but once you get a visceral sense of what they're
referring to, you'll find them extremely useful. They not only give the mind a
good place to settle down in the stillness of concentration, but they also help
you gain insight into the way perception shapes your experience of the body, shapes
your perception of what's going on here in the present moment, seeing how fabricated
it all is. You've got potentials coming in from past kamma, but you've also got
the element of present choice, which becomes extremely clear when you analyze
things in this way.
When I first went to stay with Ajaan Fuang, he had me
memorize Ajaan Lee's Divine Mantra: six passages dealing with the different properties.
For a long time it seemed very foreign to me until one night I was chanting the
passage on the property of consciousness and I realized that it was referring
to the awareness that's right here. This awareness. Right here. When this realization
hit, it was as if a huge iceberg in my heart suddenly melted. I wasn't dealing
with some outside, foreign frame of thinking; instead, it was something extremely
direct, immediate, right here and now. That was when I began to get a sense of
why Ajaan Fuang had asked me to memorize the chant, why he wanted all of his students
to think about their present experience in terms of the properties.
So keep
this mode of analysis in mind. Try to get some sense of it as you put it to use,
and you'll find that it's extremely useful in the practice. As with all of the
Buddha's teachings, the importance of the teaching is what you do with it, and
what it does for you in helping to gain insight into how stress and suffering
are created in the present moment -- and how you don't have to create them, if
you pay attention, if you work at these skills.
Fabrication
March,
2001
The mind has a basic habit, which is to create things. In fact, when the
Buddha describes causality, how experiences come about, he says that the power
of creation or sankhara -- the mental tendency to put things together -- actually
comes prior to our sensory experience. It's because the mind is active, actively
putting things together, that it knows things.
The problem is that most of
its actions, most of its creations, come out of ignorance, so the kind of knowledge
that comes from those creations can be misleading. For this reason, what you want
to do in the process of meditation is to back up, to get down as close to this
process of creation as you can, to see if there's a way to do it skillfully that
leads to knowledge, that leads you to a point that breaks through ignorance. And
that means, instead of building up a lot of things, you let things fall apart
so you can get down to exactly where these basic forces in the mind are putting
things together.
Now it so happens that when we bring the mind to the breath,
we have all these basic forces right here in their most elemental forms. The breath
is the factor that fashions the body. It's what they call kaya-sankhara or the
"physical putting-together." The breath is what puts life together in
the body. If it weren't for the breath here, things would start falling apart
really fast.
Then there's verbal fabrication, vaci-sankhara, the act of putting
things in words. The two basic verbal sankharas are directed thought and evaluation.
And you've got those right here, too. You direct your thoughts to the breath and
then evaluate the breath: How does the breath feel? Does it feel good? If it does,
stay with it. If it doesn't feel good, you can change it. This is about the most
basic level of conversation you can have with yourself. "Does this feel good
or not? Comfortable or not? Yes. No."
And then you work with that. What
are you working with? You're working with mental fabrication, citta-sankhara,
which covers feeling and perception: feelings of pleasure, pain, or neither pleasure
nor pain. And then perceptions are the labels the mind gives to things: "This
is pleasant. This is painful. This is this and that is that."
When you've
got the mind with the breath, you've got all of these things brought together:
the feelings that come with the breath, the perceptions that label the breath:
"Now the breath is coming in. Now the breath is going out. Now the mind is
like this. Now it's like that." The directed thought and the evaluation are
there as well, keeping you focused on the breath and on evaluating the breath.
So these things are all together. If you stray away from here, you're usually
straying away into distraction, into the realm of further elaboration, in which
you lose this basic frame of reference and create a whole other one. It's what
they call "becoming" in the texts, when you create other worlds in the
mind. Once you get into those other worlds, you lose touch with the process of
creation. You lose touch with how becoming is brought together. So you've got
to learn how to take those worlds of distraction -- and the processes that form
them -- apart.
The Buddha talks about various ways of dealing with distraction.
Once you've realized you've left your original frame of reference, you bring yourself
back. In other words, you remind yourself. In some cases, the simple act of reminding
is enough to disperse that other little world you've created for yourself and
come back to this one.
Other times you have to reflect actively on the drawbacks
of that other world, of the thinking that creates it, especially if it's thinking
imbued with lust, aversion, delusion, or harmfulness. You've got to remind yourself,
"What would happen if I thought about this for a while?" Well, you'd
create certain habits in the mind, and once those habits are imbedded in the mind
they lead to actions that can create all kinds of problems. When you see the drawbacks
of that kind of thinking, you say, "I don't need that. I've had enough of
that in my life." You drop it and come back to the breath.
Other times
you can consciously ignore the distraction. A little world appears in your mind
and you say, "I don't want to enter into that," but for some reason
it just doesn't go away. You realize the reason it's not going away is because
you're paying attention to it. Even if you don't like it, paying attention to
it is enough to keep it going -- like a tar trap. You touch the tar with your
hand and you get stuck. You try to pull yourself loose from the tar with the other
hand and you get both hands stuck. Pull yourself off with your foot, your foot
gets stuck. Bite the tar, your mouth gets stuck. So the only way to deal with
it is to not touch it. In other words, don't pay attention to it. You know it's
there, but you just don't give it any mind. After a while, from lack of attention,
it'll die away.
A fourth way of pulling yourself back is to notice that when
there's this process of creation, when there are these little worlds you create
in your mind, an element of tension goes with them. Things would be a lot easier
if you didn't create these worlds, if you'd just relax whatever physical and mental
tension supports these things. So look for the tension. Once you can locate it,
just relax it. When you relax the tension, the thought goes away.
A fifth
way, when none of these other methods work, is to tell yourself, "Okay, I'm
going to clench my teeth, press my tongue against the palate, and I will not think
about that other thing." In other words, just through the force of your will
you force it out of your mind. This is the method of last resort: the one that's
the least precise and works only as long as your will power lasts. But sometimes
it's the only thing that will clear the air. If we were to compare these various
methods to tools, this would be the sledgehammer. It may be crude, but you need
one in your arsenal for cases when scalpels and Exacto knives can't handle the
job.
So when one of these other little worlds gets created in your mind, you
use whichever of these methods work to let go of it and bring yourself back to
the most basic levels of the process of creation: the breath, directed thought,
evaluation, feelings, perceptions. Stay right on this level.
What do you do
with them on this level? Well, you can create levels of concentration in the mind.
Concentration is a kind of creation, but it's a creation that instead of obscuring
the process of what's going on in the mind actually makes it clearer. You create,
but without leaving these basic levels of your frame of reference. In other words,
you put them to use in a new way. You put feelings to use in a new way. You learn
how to create a feeling of pleasure from the breath so that the pleasure gets
more and more intense, more and more solid. Just the act of sitting here breathing
gets really refreshing. And if you stay with the feeling as a feeling, in and
of itself, it doesn't pull you off into other mental worlds. You stay right here.
It feels good right here.
So instead of feeding on the pleasure in an aimless
way, you do it in a systematic way. That way you can keep the mind with a sense
of pleasure, a sense of rapture, and it doesn't wander off. That's what the concentration
is all about. As it strengthens the mind, it gives direction to the mind. It takes
the desire for pleasure and puts it to good use. Once the mind feels comfortable
in the present moment, it's not going to wander off anyplace else. It feels good
right here. A lot more satisfaction comes from the sense of ease right here than
from the little bits and pieces of satisfaction coming from the other worlds you
can create with your mind.
Again, this is a process of creation, but it's
a lot more skillful than normal. It keeps things on a basic level where you're
in touch with the process. You don't lose sight of it. It's like the difference
between sitting out in an audience watching a play and being behind the stage.
Behind the stage, you see the actual play, but you also see what goes on behind
it. In that way, you're a lot less likely to get carried away by the illusion
of the play.
Now, of course, pain is going to come into your meditation as
well. Sometimes it's out-and-out pain. Other times it's more subtle. And again,
as with the pleasure, instead of thinking that you're on the receiving end of
the pain, a victim of the pain, you start putting it to use. The pain is there
for you to comprehend. That's what the Buddha said in his teachings on the four
noble truths: The task with regard to pain is to comprehend it. Once the mind
is solid enough and stable enough so as not to feel threatened by the pain, it
can analyze the pain on whatever level it may be, searing pain or more subtle
stress. As you comprehend the pain, you start finding that you understand the
mind a lot better, too. All the little animals in the mind that tend to gather
around pain: You begin to notice who they are, what they are, and you realize,
"That's not me. It's just these thoughts that tend to cluster around pain."
If you want to identify with them, you can, but they're going to turn your mind
into a menagerie. They're going to create a lot of turmoil. And so you learn how
to let them go.
Even when you're focused on the pleasant levels of concentration,
you'll find that as you get more and more sensitive toward these various levels,
a subtle element of stress accompanies each one of them. Once you identify where
that stress is, you let it go. That takes you to a more subtle level of concentration.
You stay there for a while. In the beginning, you don't notice the stress in the
new level. It's like going into a bright room where your eyes haven't yet adjusted
to the light. At first you see nothing but the dazzle. But if you stay there for
long enough, your eyes begin to adjust and you begin to notice, "Oh, there
are shapes, there are forms, there are things in this room that you can see."
It's the same as you go from one level of concentration to the next. Take
the stress of directed thought and evaluation, for instance. Once the breath really
feels full, really feels satisfying, you don't need to keep evaluating it. You
don't have to keep reminding yourself to stay with it. You're just there, there,
there, there, there with a basic perception. You let go of the directed thought
and evaluation, and Bong -- you come down to a much deeper level.
You go through
this step by step. You realize what an important role perceptions play in this,
the labels you put on things. You're constantly labeling the breath. When the
breath is still so that you can drop that label, you begin to label the sense
of space that's left, then the sense of knowing that's left as you drop the label
for "space," then all the way up to the sphere of nothingness. That's
still called a perception attainment. It's based on the label that the mind puts
on the experience that keeps you there.
So again, you're with these very basic,
basic levels of creation in the mind. When you start taking them apart, that's
when things really get interesting. Instead of building, building, building up,
you're letting go, letting go, letting go, bit by bit by bit. And then, of course,
you're getting attached to the new level you reach, but it's a good attachment.
Otherwise, you'd go floating off to other worlds. This attachment here, at least,
keeps you in the present moment where things can begin to open up. And instead
of elaborating on it, you keep applying the teachings of the four noble truths
and keep the questions basic: "Where is the stress here?"
This is
especially important when you get to the level of infinitude of consciousness
or the infinitude of space. On those levels it's easy to develop a sense that
you've reached the ground of being from which all things come and to which all
things return. If you're not careful, you can really start philosophizing on this
theme, elaborating on it, getting into all kinds of abstractions about the relationship
between the absolute and the relative, emanation -- all sorts of big, buzz-word
issues. But they're totally irrelevant to the real problem in the mind -- that
there's still stress here. If you're still stuck here, you haven't gone beyond,
you haven't reached the Deathless.
You've got to keep asking that same old
basic question: "Where is there stress here?" Look for it. See what
you're doing that keeps the stress going, see that it's unnecessary, and then
let go. Ultimately you open up to something totally unfabricated.
So instead
of building things up that pull you away from the present, you start by building
up states of concentration in the mind. These are types of fabrication, of course,
but they're the type of fabrication that keeps you within this frame of reference:
the very absolute present. They don't distract you into other levels where you
lose touch with the basic building blocks in the process of fabrication.
This
is a basic pattern throughout the Buddha's teachings: Before you let go of things,
you first have to learn to do them skillfully, mindfully, with awareness. The
doing, the mastering of the skill, is what enables you to know them. This brings
us back to that basic principle we talked about earlier: We wouldn't know anything,
there would be no awareness at all, if there weren't any doing in the mind. You
have to learn how to do things more and more skillfully until finally you can
get to a level where the mind becomes too sensitive to do anything. And at that
point it opens up to a totally different kind of awareness.
So you make use
of what you've got. The Buddha noticed that all things fabricated have an element
of stress. But what are you going to do? How are you going to get to the unfabricated?
You can't use the unfabricated as a tool because that would be fabricating it,
and that's not its nature. You learn how to use the process of fabrication in
a more skillful way. You divide things up into the four noble truths. There's
stress, the origination of stress, the cessation of stress, and the path. The
path is a process of taking things that are stressful -- these perceptions, these
feelings, these processes of creation -- and using them in a skillful way. So
you use fabrication to undo fabrication and then finally reach a point where everything
opens up to the unfabricated.
It's an extremely skillful path, a skillful
approach. It takes the raw materials that we've got around us all the time --
the activities that we ordinarily use to create experience -- and teaches us how
to use them in a more skillful way. Getting down to basics. Keeping away from
abstractions. Once there's an abstraction in the mind, there's a new level of
being in there, a new frame of reference; it pulls you away from the present.
A lot of self-delusion comes through abstraction. A lot of opportunity for lying
to yourself comes through abstraction. So we keep things basic. We keep our nose
to the ground. Just look at the basic things we have: physical, verbal, and mental
fabrication. Learn how to put them to the proper use. Use them more and more skillfully.
Get more and more in touch with the actual process of fabrication right here in
the present moment. That's where things open up.
At the Door of the Cage
July 30, 2003
Our practice requires a lot of letting go. We prefer to think
that it involves letting go of things that we don't like while allowing us to
hold onto the things we do like, but actually it requires a lot more letting-go
than that.
Several years back I was leading a day-long discussion on the four
noble truths. When we got to the third noble truth, the cessation of suffering,
the passages we were discussing contained descriptions of nibbana, and the general
consensus in the group was that they didn't like the sound of it. It seemed too
alien, too foreign to be really appealing. Then we got to the fourth noble truth
and we started talking about right concentration. That sounded very appealing:
rapture and pleasure permeating the entire body. Those were things you really
could get your mind around. They sounded compelling. And that's the way it is
with the practice: You have to develop the fourth noble truth, the path of practice,
before you can appreciate the third. You have to hold onto right concentration
before you can let go into the Deathless.
The Buddha's strategy in teaching
us to let go is to give us better and better things to hold onto. For example,
he gets you to hold onto states of good concentration. Then when you turn around
and look at things that would normally incite your lust, your anger, your desire
or passion, you realize that they're not worth it. You'd much rather hold onto
the stillness, the state of satisfaction, the state of wellbeing that comes with
your concentration. So you burn your bridges behind you and hold onto concentration
as your only true happiness in life. Only then, when the Buddha has you cornered
like that, does he have you think of the drawbacks not only of the things you've
already left behind but also of the concentration you're holding to.
Only
when you see the drawbacks of concentration can you realize that the only alternative
is the Deathless. The only thing that would really appeal to you at that point
is the Deathless. That's when the door opens.
As the texts say, the first
stage in insight is to focus on the drawbacks of anything that's fabricated. The
next stage is for the mind to incline to the Deathless. Normally the mind will
not incline to the Deathless unless it feels that that's the only way out. Otherwise
it's always going to find some other place to go, some other corner to hide in.
So you need to remember that the teachings on, say, the three characteristics
-- inconstancy, stress, and not-self -- are part of a course of training, and
that the different teachings make sense only in particular stages of the training.
Only when you're in the right stage for a particular teaching will it do its intended
work.
Ordinarily, we'd like to leapfrog over the concentration to get to the
discernment, because we're very busy people, after all. We've got a lot to do
in our lives, so we want to get to the main point of this Buddhism thing and then
go on to something else. But that's not how the practice works. You have to put
your mind in particular states, you have to get attached to particular states,
before the teachings can function in the way they're supposed to. If you think
about the inconstancy, stress, and not-selfness of things you're not attached
to, it doesn't really make an impact. Or if you tell yourself that everything
is inconstant, stressful, and not-self before the mind has a safe place to settle
down, those thoughts can be really unsettling and disorienting. Only when you're
in a relatively stable place mentally, and ready to look for a way out from even
the subtle instability there, will those thoughts provide the way out.
Years
back I was flying on an airplane where they showed the movie, Close Encounters
of the Third Kind. I didn't have the soundtrack to go by, but even without paying
much attention I found the story pretty easy to figure out. The hero had a miserable
family life, and so when the opportunity came to step onto that humongous flying
saucer and go off who-knows-where, he was willing to go. Now, if he had had a
happy family life, a satisfactory family life, he wouldn't have gone. He would
have been happy to stay home, and the prospect of going off with these weird creatures
from outer space would have been too daunting. But the fact that his life was
so miserable made him willing to take the leap.
In that case the leap was
pretty strange. And, fortunately the Buddha doesn't ask us to be miserable before
we leap to nibbana, but he does recommend that we develop a sense of disenchantment
-- nibbida -- and that we do it skillfully. He teaches us to get attached to more
and more refined states of wellbeing in the mind, and to become disenchanted with
everything else. It's like climbing a ladder. To climb up the rungs of the ladder,
you already have to be holding onto a higher rung before you can let go of a lower
one. Finally when you get to the top of the ladder, when there's nothing higher
to hold onto, nowhere else to go: That's when you get off onto the roof or wherever
you're headed. That's when you can totally let go. In the meantime you've got
to hold on. The same principle holds true in the practice: You let go of lower
attachments only when you've got something higher to hold onto.
So when you're
practicing concentration don't be afraid of being attached to it. In fact, you
should get attached here. That's part of the whole dynamic of the practice. Allow
yourself to be attached to the breath, get to play with the breath, make the breath
a really comfortable, good place to stay. As the breath gets more refined, you
find that the mind goes through more refined stages. The two help each other along.
The greater the refinement of the mind, the more refined the breath, and vice
versa, back and forth. And you find that your concentration does go through clearly
discernable levels. But again, don't be afraid of getting attached to them. The
whole point is to want to be there, to want to develop the mastery that allows
you to bring the mind to those levels whenever you need them, and to stay centered
in them as long as you like. This is why the Buddha -- unlike a lot of modern
teachers -- never warned his students against getting attached to jhana. In fact,
his instructions when he sent them off to meditate were always very clear: "Go
do jhana." And he wanted them to master it.
Ajaan Fuang once said you
have to be crazy about the meditation in order to be really good at it. In the
course of the day, whatever spare minute you can find to keep your mind on the
breath, you want your mind to head there, again and again. It's almost as if you
were addicted to it. They say that when alcoholics go into a house, one of the
first things they pick up on is where the alcohol is kept. They're very conscious
of that. Their minds incline in that direction, so that without even thinking
they can detect the signs. Well, you want to be a breath-a-holic. Wherever there's
breath, you want your mind to head there. Of course, you find that it's everywhere
if you're really interested, if you really want to pursue it.
Again, it doesn't
matter that you're attached to it. There are ways of ultimately prying you loose
from that attachment. In the meantime it's a good place to be attached: states
of concentration, states of wellbeing in the mind that don't have to depend on
circumstances outside. That's a lot better than being attached to the sights,
sounds, smells, tastes, tactile sensations, and ideas we're normally attached
to. So allow yourself to cling here.
It's like the cages where they put birds.
If you happen to open the door while the bird is clinging to the door, the bird
can get out. That's what these states of concentration are: They're doors to the
Deathless. When we say that the Buddha has you cornered, he's got you cornered
right here at the door. If you hang on here, you'll eventually be able to open
the latch and you'll be free. But if you're not here, if you're over hanging on
the walls, then it's very easy for the person opening the cage to keep you in.
Clinging to the walls doesn't get you free.
In other words you might think
that you'd like to put an end to all your suffering, but if you're not really
in the right place, it's not a door. You keep banging your head against the walls
of the cage. But if you learn to hold onto these states of concentration, the
time will come when they turn into doors. You'll develop a sense of dispassion
not only for ordinary pleasures, but also for the peace you gain from states of
concentration. You'll begin to see that no matter how good you are at the concentration,
there will always be change, inconstancy in that concentration. And the time will
come when the mind is simply fed up with that. It's had enough. That's nibbida,
disenchantment. You're no longer enchanted with the concentration. You use it,
but it doesn't have the same pull it had before. You want something better. That's
when the mind can really incline to the Deathless.
As I told the people in
that discussion group, the third noble truth may not sound attractive now, but
as you get into the fourth noble truth and develop these states of concentration,
you realize that the third noble truth really is better. It may not sound better
in words, but when you're disenchanted with the fourth noble truth, you see that
the third truth is the only direction where true happiness lies. Ultimately the
mind will lean there, will incline itself there, because it's in a position to
appreciate it for what it is.
So if you want to know what the Buddha was talking
about and see if it really is something better than what we're experiencing now,
this is what you work at: these stages of concentration. Direct the mind to the
breath, evaluating the breath, really coming to appreciate what it is to be settled
down, really coming to appreciate the state of stillness, and not chasing after
things that keep running away from you through your senses.
Come to appreciate
the sense of stillness you can gain with the breath. When you appreciate this,
you'll be in a position to appreciate things that are even better -- so that when
you incline to something better, you find that you're actually right at the door
of the cage. You can fly.
Glossary
Ajaan (Thai): Teacher; mentor.
Arahant: A person who has abandoned all ten of the fetters that bind the mind
to the cycle of rebirth, whose heart is free of mental defilement, and is thus
not destined for future rebirth. An epithet for the Buddha and the highest level
of his Noble Disciples. Sanskrit form: arhat.
Bhava: Literally, "becoming."
Mental or physical worlds, created through craving and clinging, in which rebirth
can happen -- either mentally, as when entering a mental world or a dream world;
or physically, as when rebirth follows the death of the body.
Buddho (Buddha):
Awake; enlightened.
Dhamma: (1) Event; action. (2) A phenomenon in and of
itself. (3) Mental quality. (4) Doctrine, teaching. (5) Nibbana (although there
are passages in the Pali Canon describing nibbana as the abandoning of all dhammas).
Sanskrit form: dharma
Jhana: Mental absorption. A state of strong concentration
focused on a single sensation or mental notion. Sanskrit for: dhyana.
Kamma:
Intentional act. Sanskrit form: karma.
Khandha: Aggregate; heap; pile. The
aggregates are the basic building blocks of describable experience, as well as
the building blocks from which one's sense of "self" is constructed.
There are five in all: physical form, feeling, perception, thought-fabrications,
and consciousness. Sanskrit form: skandha.
Metta: Good will; kindness; benevolence;
friendliness.
Nibbana: Literally, the "unbinding" of the mind from
passion, aversion, and delusion, and from the entire round of death and rebirth.
As this term also denotes the extinguishing of a fire, it carries connotations
of stilling, cooling, and peace. Sanskrit form: nirvana.
Pali: The name of
the earliest extant canon of the Buddha's teachings and, by extension, of the
language in which it was composed.
Sangha: On the conventional level, this
term denotes the communities of Buddhist monks and nuns. On the ideal level, it
denotes those followers of the Buddha, lay or ordained, who have attained at least
their first taste of the Deathless.
Sankhara: Fabrication; fashioning. The
forces and factors that fashion things, the process of fashioning, and the fashioned
things that result; all things conditioned, compounded, or concocted by nature,
whether on the physical or the mental level. In some contexts this word is used
as a blanket term for all five khandhas. As the fourth khandha, it refers specifically
to the fashioning or forming of urges, thoughts, etc., within the mind.
Sankhata:
Fabricated.
Sutta: Discourse. Sanskrit form: sutra.
Wat (Thai): Monastery.